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I’m optimistic that
we’re all optimists
I am a victim of my own optimism.
That’s what I thought as I scrutinized the unlabeled, undated plastic container of
frozen brown gunk that I found in the bottom drawer of our freezer.
That’s what I think every time that I slide into a meeting 10 minutes late, due to the
fact that I was sure that I could do just one more thing before I left and still arrive on
time.
That’s what I think when I’m still wide awake at 3 a.m.
because I drank that after-dinner cup of coffee anyway.
Optimism brings with it an unflappable faith in the self
and others and, for that matter, life in general. It’s what
keeps me hanging on to a small collection of unmatched
socks because I am sure their mates are bound to turn up.
It’s what convinces me every time that the repairman will
arrive within the stated two-hour window of time. It’s that
tiny voice in my head that insists that those little specks in
the rice are not moving.
Often, optimism starts small, like a tender sprig of lilac
hopefully peeking up through the earth before it’s crushed
by the heavy boot of reality.
To illustrate: for years I was awakened nightly by hun
gry infants, teething toddlers and crying preschoolers, and
I stumbled through my days eagerly anticipating the point
when I would no longer have to drag myself out of bed in
the middle of the night to tend to a child. After about a de
cade, the opportunity for eight hours of uninterrupted sleep
was finally realized. But just when my kids finally started
sleeping through the night, I stopped doing it.
Such is the irony of optimism.
In my opinion, optimism is what gets us out of bed each day, keeps us trying just one
more time, allows us the generosity to give someone else a second chance. Optimism, I
believe, powers the world.
Witness the mother who every summer is convinced that things will calm down
when school begins, and every school year can’t wait until school ends so that things
will ease up in summer again. That constant cycle of optimistic energy is what keeps
her going, like a self-charging hybrid.
I believe, in fact, that we are all essentially optimists.
To prove my point, I have made a handy list of telltale signs that you, too, are an op
timist:
■ You buy orchids.
■ You think that if you circle the parking lot just one more time, a
spot will open up.
■ You have faith that you can cozy up on the sofa with your laptop at the end of
the day and stream the entire next episode of your current favorite show with
out it buffering at the climactic moment.
■ You think that someone else will take the initiative to empty the
dishwasher today.
■ You’re sure that whatever you’re about to do will only take 15 minutes.
■ You’re certain that you can make a tasty dinner out of a can of stuffed olives
and an old bag of gnocchi.
■ You honestly believe that that pair of snakeskin pants will look good on you.
■ You think that the pain in your back/neclc/shoulder will go away on its own.
■ You’re confident that you can make the box of your favorite snack last until the
end of the week (rather than the end of the day).
■ You’re sure you'll remember your password. And your username.
And your security questions.
Are you recharged, optimists, knowing that you’re not alone? Power on for anoth
er day!
Robin’s Nest
Robin Conte lives with her
husband in an empty nest
in Dunwoody. To contact
her or to buy her column
collection, “The Best of the
Nest,”see robinconte.com.
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