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A SIMPLE FORMULA WILL
SOLVE DATING PROBLEM
Dear Doris:
Should a mother prevent a
17-year-old boy from going out
with girls when it doesn’t in
terfere with his school work?
When he goes out with the
fellows or girls should he be
in by 10:30 — even if his fa
ther approves of them and his
being home by 12:30?
W. R. H.
You and your parents bet
ter get together. No problem
can be resolved unless there is
a meeting of minds. Of course
I’m not advising that you go
off half cocked and demand
that your mother agree with
you and your dad. But I do
think you should sit down with
your parents and discuss the
problem of your social activi
ties in a quiet, intelligent way.
There must be total agree
ment. Consistency on the part
of your parents and, above all,
obedience from you is an ab
solute necessity, if you are to
grow into mature, responsible
manhood. This was the simple
formula of the Holy Family—
the family all Catholics should
copy.
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GROWING PAINS
Dear Doris:
I have a friend who is 12
years old and goes steady and
smokes. Her mother has no
idea of what is going on. Do
you think that I should say
anything to her mother or is
there anything I can do for
her myself?
M. G.
Don’t “tattle.” In this case
especially, your friend may
just be going through a bad
stage of “growing pains.”
Many girls entering their teens
want to appear older. They
think smoking and going stea
dy is smart or the thing to do.
It’s only a stage and they get
over it.
Why don’t you and a few
others like you invite her with
you on different occasions?
Prove to her, by your example,
that she is cheating herself in
many ways. She is missing the
normal healthy fun every 12-
year-old girl needs. And most
of all she is taking a chance
in forming dangerous habits.
Have you talked to her? Try
it. Be kind and patient and
above all try not to “preach.”
Sometimes girls listen to girls
much more than they listen to
mothers.
STRONG HINT
Dear Doris:
If you don’t like a boy and
he persistently goes to school
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around how can you let him
know you want him to stop it.
Joy
Change your route; or start
to school at a different time.
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Dear Doris:
I have a problem I hope you
can help me with. We are
Catholics and are invited to
my brother-in-law’s wedding
which is in the United Church.
He is getting married to a
Mennonite and the reception
is at the Mennonite Church.
A.re we committing a sin by
?oing? We have no intention
of ever changing our religion
or do as they do in church but
it is my husband’s brother and
we would like to go as he is
very dear to us.
Maggie
It depends on whether your
brother-in-law is entering a
valid marriage. If he and the
girl he is marrying are both
non-Catholics and have no oth
er impediment to marriage —
such as one or both of them
being divorced — you will not
be committing a sin to go. But
if the marriage will not be
valid you may not attend.
While we are not allowed to
attend regular services in an
other church we may attend
valid weddings (as a social
function) as long as we don’t
actively participate in the ser
vice.
It’s always wise, however,
to check with your parish
priest. There may be circum
stances in the diocese which
have made it necessary for the
Bishop to make a special rul
ing about such matters.
Laos Situation
Question Of How West
Is To Deal With Soviet
Russia Involved In Crisis
AIM HIGH
Dear Doris:
Is it a crime to be ambitious
and want to learn and progress
—even if, being foreign born
you have no chance in a voca
tion?
Chica
It’s no crime to be ambitious.
It’s good, providing your ambi
tions are good.
By vocation do you mean to
be a Religious? If so, you have
every chance. Being foreign
born has nothing to do with it.
Discuss it with a Sister or
Priest. They will give you
sound advice.
Since you didn’t mention in
your letter how old you are,
your school or why you feel
as you do I can’t be too help
ful — but I can encourage you
to go right on. Aim as high
as you can! And God bless you.
Doris Revere Peters answers
letters through her column not
by mail. Please do not ask for a
personal reply. Young readers
are invited to write to her in
care of The Bulletin.
WEAR AND TEAR
Children are a great comfort
to parents in their old age —
they also help them reach it.
By J. J. Gilbert
WASHINGTON — Involved
in the Laos crisis has been the
whole questiton of how the
West will in the future deal
with Soviet Russia.
The situation in the South
east Asian republic built up
unobstrusively while Africa,
Cuba and Red China held the
world headlines. But it was
being steadily watched. Presi
dent Eisenhower briefed Presi
dent-elect Kennedy on this
critical problem as they made
ready to transfer the reins of
government. President Ken
nedy’s administration then
chose to use diplomacy in an
effort to reach its solution.
That is, the United States re
sorted to traditional forms of
diplomacy — confidental ex
changes through ambassadors
and foreign offices — to make
clear to Moscow what our
position was, and the fact that
we meant what we said.
“I think the kind of re
sponse that we get to our ef
forts for oeace in this area will
tell us something about what
kind of a future our world is
going to have, and we will
have to wait and se$ what
that response will be,” Presi
dent Kennedy told the Ameri
can people in explaining the
Laos situation over television.
An immediate effect of fail
ure, Americans understood,
could be the heightening of
tensions and possibly open
conflict.
President Kennedy was care
ful to “make it clear to the
American people and to all of
the world that all we want in
Laos is peace and not war.”
Americans back their chief
executive in that declaration.
The outcome of the Laos
situation, as the President
said, will not only have a
bearing on what kind of future
the world will have. It will
also influence our dealings
with Moscow.
The only thing youngsters
wish to save for a rainy day is
school.
Recently there has been a
great deal said, more than
usual, about the problem of
dealing with Russian commu
nists. Students of communism
and men who have dealt with
the Russians on behalf of our
Government have written and
spoken to warn that it is ex
tremely difficult, almost im
possible, to negotiate with the
Soviet Russians. It has been
said that they seem to have
special training in how to stall,
muddle and disrupt interna
tional conferences.
There have been urgings,
too, in Congress and out, that
the American people try to
understand the real nature of
communism. Communists, it
was pointed out, firmly be
lieve that they are going to
dominate the world; that for
some of them it will be a life
long struggle, but they will
win; that they exepect to be
in a minority but are taught
to manipulate the masses to
do their will; that through
“transmission belts,” including
organizations existing legiti
mately for other needs, small
cadres of communists can as
sume power and domination
over large groups of people.
Khrushchev in recent years
has seemed to scorn quiet, or
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plump for summit meetings,
which the Reds invariably
have used as sounding boards
for propaganda. After Khrush
chev’s disgraceful behavior to
wards President Eisenhower at
and after the last summit
meeting, held in Paris, the
American people are strongly
hopeful that such gatherings
are not the only alternative to
usual diplomatic procedures.
Sample polls have demon
strated this sentiment.
Those who from past experi
ence ought to know have
shown an impressive unanim
ity recently in saying that a
firm stand is the only one to
take with Soviet Russia. Some
say Mosqow likes to use its
military power as a threat in
its cold war maneuvers, but
is not anxious to use it in open
conflict. That, of course, could
be a miscalculation. But all
authorities agree that it is no
solution to retreat in the face
of threats. That, they say,
could lead only to surrender
and our subjugation.
It is not to be hoped that
communism will change its
aims. It may, in the face of
stiff resistance, change its
methods. How to bring about
that possible change?
Some crucial decisions are
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