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Page 2A,The Lee County Ledger, Wednesday, March 13, 2019 THE 1940s ACROSS I. Japanese attack locale 5. * Chairman of the Communist Party of China 8. Parent group II. Horsefly 12. Voldemort’s title 13. Ohio city 15. Saintly glow 16. Never a UK currency 17. Disapproved by audi ence 18. *American concentra tion camp 20. Peters out 21. *Harry Truman to Margaret 22. Feedbag morsel 23. Mountain climber’s tool 26. Overplay in front of audience 30. Negative conjunction 31. Within a building 34. Leafy green 35. Captain America actor 37. Party bowlful 38. Dictum, pi. 39. Network of nerves 40. Native Americans of the Pacific Northwest 42. “To is human” 43. *#23 Across victim 45. Like a human 47. “Never never” 48. Raccoon’s South American cousin 50. Mount Olympus’ famous dweller 52. *Manhattan Project site 55. Does like a sponge 56. Horizontal wall beam 57. Pelvic parts 59. Actress Parker 60. Geologic time divi sions 61. Steve Urkel, e.g. 62. Eat, past tense 63. Lt.’s subordinate 64. “ Louise” DOWN 1. Mozart’s “L’_ del Cairo” 2. Homecoming guest © StatePoint Media 3. #50 Across wife 4. Kenya’s neighbor 5. Native American earthen structure 6. Orderly arrangement 7. Shoe emanation 8. Circus trainer’s poker 9. Zac Brown Band’s body part hit 10. A in FANBOYS 12. Like weighed down with metal 13. At right angle to a ship 14. *Thor Heyerdahl’s raft 19. Third axis 22. Dinghy propeller 23. Unable to move 24. Don’t judge a book by it 25. Muse of love poetry 26. Shoshonean people 27. “It is silent” in sheet music 28. U in UV 29. * Harbor 32. *a.k.a. Operation Neptune 33. Black gold 36. Miniature Japanese carving 38. Hindu garment 40. Blue overhead 41. Intelligence 44. Impudent 46. Horse-involved activ ity 48. Man-made stone pile 49. Ladies’ fingers 50. *Popular 1940s suit 51. “Ill at ” 52. Type of molding 53. High school club 54. Ireland’s previous name 55. Hot springs 58. Wood-shaping tool Counseling Corner Is Competition Bad For Your Child? Special to the Ledger deal with both winning new skills and be will- Experts advise that from the American Counseling Association Competition is a fact of life, especially for children. It may include anything from who did best on the spelling test, to organized sports in or out of school. And while competition can bring stress about doing well, or disappointment when efforts come up short, healthy competi tion is actually a good thing for children. Child development experts advise that healthy competition helps children develop skills needed in adult hood. They learn to take turns, to work hard for success, perhaps to be a team player, and how to and losing. It’s important for par ents to help guide their children in handling competitive experi ences. The first question shouldn’t be, “Did you win?” but rather, “Did you have a good time?” When parents always emphasize winning and coming out on top they are increasing the pressure that makes competition a negative experience. Is your son or daugh ter involved in healthy competition? If so, you’ll find the child asking to participate in the activity again and being able to win or lose gracefully. They will be interested in learning LCMS EAST & WEST LUNCH MENU Monday, March 18 Beef Nachos with Cheese Dip & Salsa or Pepperoni Pizza, Seasoned Corn Fresh Garden Salad, Fruit, Milk Tuesday, March 19 General Tsa Chicken or Beef Tenders Brown Rice, Honey Glazed Carrots Garden Peas, Cookie, Fruit, Milk Wednesday, March 20 BBQ on Bun with Pickles or Spicy Chicken Sandwich on Bun, Baked Chips Coleslaw, Breaded Okra, Fruit, Milk Thursday, March 21 Popcorn Chicken or Hamburger Steak Biscuit, Mashed Potatoes with Gravy Black-eyed Peas, Fruit, Milk Friday, March 22 Buffalo Chicken Bites, Garlic Breadstick or Meatball Sub with Cheese, French Fries Carrot Sticks with Dip, Fruit, Milk ing to work to improve. Simply participating will be appealing, re gardless of the outcome. However, when competition is proving unhealthy for a child you will see different attitudes and behaviors. The child will often not want to participate, or may fake an illness to avoid the activity or simply refuse outright to play. The activity may promote anxiety resulting in difficulty sleeping or eating, or cause worry that affects other areas of the child’s life. So how does a parent encourage healthy com petition? One starting point is to model good behavior. In sports, don’t blame the coach or referees for a losing out come, but instead praise the child for the effort put forth, regardless of the outcome. one key to healthy competition is to show your children that the most important competi tor is themselves. Did the child learn some new skills? Did he or she do better in their performance this time compared to past times? Praising the children’s improvements moves the focus to their efforts, not the competitive out come, and helps build confidence and self esteem. Emphasize the fun in the experience of par ticipating, not in simply winning, and you’ll have a child who is getting the most from competi tive experiences. “Counseling Cor ner” is provided by the American Counseling Association. Comments and questions to ACA- corner@counseling.org or visit the ACA website at www.counseling.org. Dave Says Special to the Ledger By Dave Ramsey (Play it smart) Dear Dave, Recently, the garage where I worked for a long time went out of business. I have a lot of my own tools, and I was thinking about taking out a loan of around $20,000 to buy a few extra tools I need to open my own garage. It’s always been a dream of mine to have my own shop, and this seems like the perfect opportunity. What do you think? Rick Dear Rick, I love it when a person has the talent and drive to open their own busi ness, but right now you’re unemployed and looking at going into debt. That’s a bad idea. You’ll never hear me recommend going into debt to start a business. Did you know most new businesses fail within the first five years due to debt payments? I liter ally started my company on a card table in my own living room years ago, so I know for a fact you can launch a busi ness without going into debt. You said you have your own tools, plus you have lots of experience. My advice is to find a place that needs a good mechanic. Then, use the income from a new job to save up for the ad ditional tools you need, and other startup costs associated with opening your own shop. If you play this smart and start slow, you could have a thriving business on your hands in a few years and no debt to eat up the money you make! —Dave (Get off the account today!) Dear Dave, I opened a credit card account with a boyfriend several months ago in both of our names. We’re no longer dating, and I was wondering if I can get my name off the ac count. Melody Dear Melody, Yes, you can. Call the credit card company right now, and tell them to take your name off the account immediately. Find out if there’s a bal ance on the card. If there is, and it was charged up while your name was on the account, you’ll still be liable for that amount. They won’t release you from responsibility for those purchases, but you can get off the hook for any future charges. Then, send them a certified letter—return receipt requested—stat ing that you are no longer liable for ad ditional charges on the See Dave, page 4C Dave Ramsey Happy Birthday To: March 14: Heather Studd, Louise Germany, Mau reen Brooks, John Woodard, Melissa Miller, David Arnold, Keith Abney, Michelle Casey, Melissa Casey, Dendy Cromer, Angelyn Wimbush, Angie Robison, Jimmy Norman; March 15: Dylan Jarrell, Kaitynn M. Stastny, Karl Avant, Raeanne O’Connor, Regina Lott, Casey Winters, Jay Hardy, Betty Ann Azbill, Austin Webb; March 16: Ilean M. Bady, Ted Smith, Brenan Grimes, Jason Weaver, Herbert Vilaseco, Lindsey Dykes, Max Devane, Devin Bentley, Earnest Lee Robinson, Elizabeth Goolsby, Mary Rhodes, Clayton Mims, Don Styck, Kathy Henderson; March 17: Patrick Marley, Pam Harris, Patti McDonald, V. J. McDonald, Ben Morris, Chris Uppole, Robbie McCue, Patsy Davis, Don Wil liams, Ben Morris, Richard Taylor, Mark Lott, John Scharnikow, Jr., Sydney Cain, Patrick Innis, C.E. Ra- bon Sr., Brittany Dixon, Lindsey Wilson; March 18: Kristina Sutton, Richard Miller, Rick Ralich, Griffin Gill, Gerald Mullis, Wendell Mullis, Chris Ivey, Kevin G. Underwood, Sr., Cindy Lake, Sam Russell, Robert Wesley Chester, Brenda Courson, Tammy Deck Poppell, Gail Lumpkin, Frank Goodwin, Ryan DeReus, Jessica Hernandez, Jessica Eller, Kelly Griffin, Abby Odom, Mary Catherine Turner, Krista Amanda King, Haley Joiner; March 19: Hiram Childree, Allen Daughtry, Joe Motto, Gary Bunting, Pam Griswold, Forrest Russell, Michael Francis, Jr. , Carol Ann Peak, Bryanna Vinent, Bobbie Phillips, Brody Willis, Alana Austin, Donna Butts, Henry Leonard Casey, Jr.; March 20: Isaac Christopher Hurst, Melissa Royals, Ashleigh Morgan, Allie Ross, Billy Myler, Mike Hearon, Patrick Thompson, Eliza Leverett, Bo Goodson, Rhonda Evans, Shelly Breeden, Michael lowers, Thomas Adams, Foy Hammack, Vickie Jennelle; Happy Anniversary To: March 14: Mr. and Mrs. Joey Bateman, Mr. and Mrs. Ernie Elmore, Mr. and Mrs. Chuck Morton, Mr. and Mrs. Keith O’Mary; March 15: Mr. and Mrs. Pete Holt; March 16: Mr. and Mrs Michael Hadley; March 17: Mr. and Mrs. Marvin DeReus, Mr. and Mrs. Sonny Truesdale, Mr. and Mrs. Jeffery Toole, Mr. and Mrs. Turner Kirksey, Mr. and Mrs. Chris Pilgrim, Mr. and Mrs. Johnny Draper, Mr. and Mrs. John Hudgens, Mr. and Mrs. Tony Everett; March 18: Mr. and Mrs. Randy Tucker, Mr. and Mrs. Clay Holton; March 19: Mr. and Mrs. Ronald Dorn, Mr. and Mrs. Michael Williford, Mr. and Mrs. John Glover, Mr. and Mrs. Gary Rainey, Mr. and Mrs. Larry W. Hill, Mr. and Mrs. Charlie Man- cuso, Mr. and Mrs. Tim Wallace, Mr. and Mrs. Neil Wingfield; March 20: Mr. and Mrs. Randy Luckie, Mr. and Mrs. Ralph McNeal, Mr. and Mrs. John Sedberry, Mr. and Mrs. Sandy Mackey, Mr. and Mrs. Dale Ammons, Mr. and Mrs. Robert Espinoza