The Augusta daily herald. (Augusta, Ga.) 1908-1914, June 06, 1909, Page PAGE SIX, Image 14

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    PAGE SIX
Uncle Joe Cannon in Ring With O'Brien
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D/y/ You Ever Have a
Quarrel With Your Wife?
By Rev. Lawson Rich.
Did you ever have a quarrel with
your wife? Let uu hope not. And
If you haven't, you had better not
wattle your tlmu roadie* thl». In thu
Orel plaxe, It won't Interest you, and
In the second place, I ton not sure
that that you ought to bo Introduced
Into the troablew of the domestic cir
cle. It Is sod) ably a life tbyl I* much
better than yours, and It snouts hard
ly fair to parade a list ot troubles be
fore the uninitiated, when It 1s not
Itosslbie. at tho sumo time, to alve a
fair presentation of the other side ol
the case
8o now, my married friends, 1 will
address myself to you. And It won’t
do any harm tor tho wives to read
what I liavo to say, ultiiought I will
open the wubjeot by renewing my
question to tho men: "Did you ever
have a quarnd with your wife?"
Occasionally, there will be found a
man who, with true grief of heart,
will sudly admit, "I am afraid I have."
Now, let me siiKKnst at the outset,
that 1 believe that poople sometime*
tnke their quarrels and other dome*
tic Infelicities 100 variously to heart
Jty this I meuu they grieve and worry
over troubles that could he easily
THIS IS THE CAB YOU WANT, WHEW YOU
WANT A CAB WHEN YOU WANT IT.
“Phone 120 and Let Us Demonstrate This Car to You It’s the Best.”
Made also
aa a
Roadster
and with
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Tonneau
The Utmost Value For The Money
WE MAKE THIS STATEMENT BOLDLY—THERE 18 NO BETTER
CAR THAN THIS. YOU WANT THE UTMOST VALUE AT THE LOWEST
PRICE. AND MERE IT IS. IN THE C HALMERB-DETROIT "FORTY," AT
sajeo.
Prices have (wtsrsst only in tl < r relation to value.
As bat warn equal value*. you will choose that offered
•t the lowest pries. As betwesn equal prloss, you
will decide to pay that which win buy tha groat eat
valua.
Settle for youraalf by careful Investigation the
question of valua, Sea tha ‘‘Porty.’’ Examine It
thoroughly. 4 Compare li with all others, first in
VALUE; then In PRICE. This Is all we aak.
What more oould you want In a motor car than you
get In tha Challmere-Oetnolt "Foiiy" at $2,750?
Any "Forty” will go as fast aa elxty miles an hour.
Of course you will probably not want to drive that
fast but you will be glad to realize you have a car
Augusta Auto Repairing and Renting Co.
F. Perroux, Mgr. - - 514, 510 Reynolds St.
Uncle Joe Cannon and
Pugilist Jack O’Brien, as
they faced each other in
the ring in a one-ronnd
hout in Philadelphia re
cently.
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They had not been married very
long end (hat complete blissful trust
which young husbands and wives have
In each other had not yet been broken.
But one morning wife meekly re
marked:
"[ it> telvd the hole In your trousers
pocket last night after you had gone
to bed, John dear. Now, am I riot
a thoughtful little wife?”
Husband (dubiously)—Well—er—
ye-es. you are thoughtful enough, rny
dear. But how the mischief did you
discover that, there was a hole In my
pocket?
straightened out and forgotten If only
there was a wholesome sense of hu
mor to enable one to i eroelve how
really ridiculous It was to protend to
have had a quarrel at all over a mat
ter of such trifling moment. A great
many of our woes are really Imagi
nary and possibly not the least of our
delusions, the seulgtmwlng torture of
believing that we cannot possibly got
along happily In our own domestic cir
cle It often does a man gttod to
recognise the fact .that he has been
somewhat of a fool rather than a
grievous sinner, and have a good
laugh over the fool -h figure he has
out and the antics he has commit
ted, with the resolution that next time
he will laugh In advance and not aot
In so ridiculous a manner again. But
do not think for a moment that 1 wish
to Imply that domestic quarrels are
ulway (rifles. Quite tho contrary,
and on thu other hand let me say
that I believe that tho peace and con
tentment of a truly happy home Is
about the nearest approach to heaven,
witnessed on this earth, and conse
quently It follows that whatsoever
mars that sweet vision of true happl
ness Is a matter to be treated with
a groat deal of respect.
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You may possibly have heard of the
man who late in life was forced by
Illness to put aside for a season his
busy care* and really get. acquainted
with the members of his own family,
little by little various things Impress
ed him which ho had never thought of
before. And finally one day in the
presence of hi wife and grown-up
children he asked these questions: “la
It really true that all these years you
have been keeping things from me,
afraid to mention this or that topic In
my presence, because you were cer
tain I would not understand, but
would fly Into a passion and say dis
agreeable things? I believe 1 have
passed among my neighbors as a
fairly good sort of father, and I cer
tiiinly have considered myself quite
above reproach, but. now It seems to
he dawning upon me that I don't real
ly know my family at all. Have you
honestly been afraid of me all these
years and never ventured to speak of
the thingH that were nearest your
heart, because you knew that 1 al
ways came home tired or excited or
depressed by business cares, and was
likely to roughly rebuke anyone who
ventured to distract me with subjects
that I had not Introduced myself?" It
was a very much abashes and nerv
ovs group of people who had to admit
ever so reluctantly that It was true
that they had always studied to keep
themselves so perfectly In hand when
their father returned to his home at
night, that nothing should ever cross
him or stimulate an outburst of ex
cited and unsympathetic, If not real
ly 111-natured, remarks. We are told
that the man sadly turned his face to
the wall and with a great cry of pain,
with that muoh power. For you can use tho power
In other ways than getting speed—on hllla, on
rough roads, and in the sand and mud.
The lines of the "Forty" are aa beautiful as any
cor can ahow, and It la painted and upholstered at
wall aa any car can be.
For Itt engine power, it’s a light car. This
means saving of tires—low coat of upkeep. The
design of the "Forty" la one of tho boat proved In
the world. More than any other American car. It
has been standard from the etart. Very few
changes—minor ones—have been necessary.
Please write for catalog, or call or telephone for
a demonstration appointment.
Chalmera-
Detrolt ij
"Forty" ,]
$2,750.
THE AUGUSTA HEAAJUD
groaned, "Then my life has all been
a failure and a mistake," and present
ly breathed his last.
Thi3 is doubtless a most unusual
picture. But while lam willing to
admit that fact, I am not so sure that
it is not one of the most pitiful evils
of this time, that heads of families
take far too little pains to enter Into
the living interests of the wife and
children at home.
Sometimes the father will plan for
himself an evening when all outside
cares being dismissed he will enjoy
himself without Interruption In the
bosom of his family. He will look '
forward to it, and count upon It, and ;
come home bent on having the hap
piest kind of a time. Perhaps for
weeks or months he has been too pre
occupied with business cares or out- I
side engagements to be able to spend
with his wife and family even a few
minutes around the evening lamp. But
he has forgotten this, in the prospect
of the pleasure he has in store. His
wife, too, is looking forward to the
evening. There are cares and trou
bles which she has borne alone for
many long weeks, watching the hus
band’s face with scrutinizing care
each evening, to see if she might
venture to intrude her little troubles
into his great sea of care; never ven
turing to do It, but preferring to bear
her burden alone. In the hope of thus
being able to lighten her husband's
load. Tonight is to he her oppor
tunity. And after the evening meal
Is over and the children have turned
to their lessons or been sent off to
bed, her heart is full of the antici
pated Joy of having at last a real
heart-to-heart talk with the one she
loves better than life itself. But this
is not what the husband had been
looking for. The discovery that he
has only entered upon a new sea of
difficulties Is most distasteful to him
arid the tender advances of his hun
gry helpmeet are rudely repulsed.
Then she in turn is disappointed and
doubtless half ready to cry. But
she puts on a bold front by assuming
a chilly indifference to the matters
her husband has at heart, and he feels
that his cup Is quite full. Nobody
understands him. The home is the
last place where he meets with sym
pathy; his wife is the most selfish be
nlg he has ever met; and he soon
makes it evident that he considers
himself a much-abused and injured In
dividual. The disappointment is felt
infinitely more keenly by his sensi
tive better half, and she begins to
speak in an excited and nervous man
ner, that soon results in an angry con
versation, when many bitter things
are said. The denouement tak'<» a
different form In different cases.
Sometimes the evening is brought to
a close by a thundering blow on the
table from the fist of the lord of
creation, who "won't be argued with
in his own house." Sometimes the
delicate lady develops a power of ar
gument that puts her devoted spouse
in anything but an enviable light or
comfortable condition of mind and with
her "last worn ’ ringing In his ears,
the gentleman takes refuge with what
grace he may In the retirement of his
comfortable club or the come: sa
loon. It breaks one’s heart to think
of the children! Put which way will
tou turn, my friend, and not be stirr
ed to pity? Father, mother, sons and
daughters, all with a great capacity
for happiness and really bound to
gether by strong bonds of mutual
love, and all of them really starving
for something that seemed just wlta
in their grasp!
It Is usual to think of family rows
as proceeding from serious sins on
the one hand or the other, but I think
we all do well to realize that it Is
selfishness which really contains with
in itself the essence of all sins, and we
cannot go on living wholly to our
selves for days and weeks and
months, and then think that we cun
suddenly blossom out Into sweet per
sonifications of unselfishness and ex
pect to be comprehended by even
our dearest friends. It is selfish for
a man to drink to excess and come
home to rage like a furious beast. It
is selfish for a man to indulge him
self in any unlawful passion that may
bring grief and distress to his home.
But It is also selfish and sinful to
live without trying to be Interested
in what Interests those we love, with
out making the effort to learn hy
earnest effort of the mind to look at
things from the other's point of view.
To strive with some of that strong,
masterful determination in which wa
pride ourselves so much, as the
source of our success in dealing with
others in business, to win a victory
over ourselves and learn that the pre
cis* spot from which w # have grown
accustomed to look at life is not ne
cessarily the best nor the only point
of view.
I am quite well aware that some of
my readers. If they have had the pa
tience to follow me thus far, may he
tempted to say that all this business
like regulation of one's attitude to
wards the members of his own famllv
Is wholly unnecessary If the heart
be really filled with love. Ah, that
is true! The duty to love God Is as
suredly the first and great command
ment, and the second is like unto It,
"Thou shall love thy neighbor as thy
self." But many people, I fear, who
think themselves quite above break
ing any of the commandments, don't
take the pains to give their love that
practical expression, either at home
or in the world. Which would prove
it to be the real and genuine thing
Let me close by saying, that should
you ever have a quarrel with your
wife, 1 would humbly suggest that
.Her telling her in most unequivocal
terms that you are sincerely sorry sot
whatsoever share you may have had
in causing her tears to flow, you will
afterwards, alone by yourself, in your
most prosaic and business-like sash
i m, s. oj- to d -cover w hat has been
tacking in your attempts to look at
life from your help meet's point of
view. The unselfish and thoughtful
husband may sometimes, hut really
\er> seldom, have a serious quarrel
with his wife.
BUT POLLY PUT IT ON,
Wh> should ji make any difference
to the Charlotte (N, C.) Observer
whose business It is to "put the ket
'le on." since Charlotte Is a pmhlbi-
Iton town and. moreover, this Is not
he season for hot Scotch? -Richmond
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