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*rOTj|Sf?fi??-? r ~ *? H; | - r » l||l|! [giS 5H5 . J w —iULi . ••"CM-r :S i ; v r, $ ' “I have a dream that my lour liille children will one day live in a nalion where they will not be judged by the rolor ol their skin but by Ibe conlenl of their character." —Marlin Luther King Jr. From 1998 until 2003, he served as president of the Southern Christian Leadership Conference, the organiza tion his father co-founded in 1957. In 2004, he took the helm of the King Center. “Coming here was in a sense like returning back home," he says. While King is comfortable meeting with national leaders and traveling from Mississippi to Mozambique, Africa, he admits it hasn't always been easy' being his father's namesake. “I’ve always tried not to look at it as a burden," he says. “There are days when it’s challenging, but for the most part it’s been positive. There are times when people say, “You are not like your father.’ I’m not supposed to be, and I’m comfortable in myself, but it is painful when someone says, ‘You don’t sound like your father.’ Usually my response is, ‘l’m not trying to sound like my father; I’m me.’” During high school and college, he went by the name Marty to eliminate the obvious connection. “The tough times were when I was in college and people wanted to make me something I was not prepared to be at that time," says the grad uate of Morehouse College in Atlanta. He came into his own at age 29, when he was elected to the board of commission ers in Fulton County, Ga., in 1986. It was at this point that he began asking people to call him Martin. “Somewhere in my mid 30s is where I came to feel confident in who I was as Martin and that I was taking my father’s principles and my mother's upbringing and syn thesizing it,” he says. “While it may sound a little bit like him, it was not him; it was Martin the third.” However, he admits that it can be difficult grappling with the long shadow cast by his father's accomplish ments. “Usually we say every generation could build onto the next," he says. “Unless I was in another arena, it would be very difficult to overshadow what my father did. Not that that’s what my objective is, but I’m just saying chat's a challenge because everyone always says every generation should be better. The King Center was estab lished by Coretta Scott King in 1968 to contir ue the legacy of her late husband. More than 650.000 annually visit the facility, which includes a library and archives, as well as King’s crypt. The center pro vides educational tools for those studying Kingian philoso phies worldwide, and its goals for 2005 are to launch a con flict resolution program.. find new funding sources and estab lish an endowment to sustain the institution’s work for years to come. For more information on the King Center, visit www.thekingcenter.com. “But if we can take the vision to the next level, so that families all over the world are understanding and embracing the principles of nonviolence, then in my own personal judgment, I would have achieved something great.” IttiQtolta ' ■ < i Photo Courtesy of The king Cvntei- The birthplace of Martin Luther King jr. in Atlanta. King, his hair speckled with gray, is now a leader in his own right who has achieved many great things, all done with his own style, reputation and legacy. Although he’s shy and soft-spoken, he’s extremely warm and approachable. “My leadership style is to try to build a coalition and not be confrontational unless I have to be," he says. “I try to build support among, first of all, my staff. If the staff doesn’t agree, I try to hear out everyone before I make a decision. Although some leaders lead dictatorially, I believe you can lead in a coalescing way. When you dis agree, you don’t humiliate someone because you disagree. You want to hear their point and then you want to bring them around, so I try to use persuasion as a leadership tool and try to see the best in everyone. One of the things my dad did, I'm told, is that he was able to bring the best out of his team.” Although Martin Luther King Jr. Day, which is cele brated in more than 100 countries, could serve a reminder of his father's absence, it’s not a bittersweet time for him. “The holiday is always joyous and fun,” the never-married King says. “The assassination day, April 4, is usually when I’m sad. For many years, I would shed tears when I was growing up on that day. It’s interesting that although our father is gone, because of the holiday and the many observances, it’s like he’s paralyzed in time. In other words, he will be forever young. That is the one wonderful thing. “Tlie sad thing for me and my siblings, as adults, it’s not having had the opportunity to have a conversation with him, and that’s what we’ve probably missed. Those are the things that there’s nothing you can do about, but the 10 years that we were together were incredible. Although he was gone often, Dexter and I went on trips with him. He was tremendously playful with us as his children. We all will have fond memories forever." 7}" page 8 Photo courtesy of Georgia Department of Economic Development