The News : a publication of the Atlanta Gay Center. (Atlanta, Ga.) 1984-199?, January 03, 1985, Image 1
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January 3rd
Vol. 1 No. 3
The folks at AID Atlanta and
the ACHR tell us that they
stil^have good seats for the
opening night performance of
"La Cage Aux Folles" available
but suggest that you call soon
to be sure to get the best ones
available. Plans are now final
ized for an opening night party
with the cast members at a pri
vate mid-town penthouse near
the theatre. Call 262-6748 for
ticket and.party reservations.
’’HELPLINE”
Challenges
"HOPELINE"
Three Atlanta Gay Helpline
volunteers have taken on the
"HOPELINE" ad in "Creative
Loafing" that weekly advertises
an "alternative" to the gay
lifestyle. The recorded "HOPE
LINE" message offers "hope" by
changing ones ways and adopting
a straight lifestyle. The help
line volunteers stress that
there are numerous alternatives
available to gay men and les
bians that are healthy and af
firmative of their sexuality.
They also want to let the pub
lic knew that the answer to be
ing a happy gay person is not
to try to be straight.
They have placed an ad in
"Creative Loafing" that offers
the services of the Helpline to
gay people who feel they need
alternatives.
parents in Washington, New York
and Philadelphia. He plans to
interview on the West Coast and
in the Midwest next summer.
Streitmatter began his gay
parenting project after realiz
ing that many men and women all
over the country are facing
numerous problems because they
are gay and parents.
Gay fathers in Toronto wrote
an anecdotal book several years
ago by compiling their own
stories, Streitmatter said, but
a more analytical book could be
written by looking at the spe
cific issues involved in gay
parenting and by looking at how
gay parents have dealt with
those issues.
The issue of most concern to
gay parents is if and when they
should talk to their children
about being gay, Streitmatter
said.
"Most people I have inter
viewed seem to believe that gay
Gay Parenting
Gay fathers living in Atlan
ta will be well represented in
a forthcoming book cn gay par
enting.
The author of the book, a
journalism professor from Wash
ington, D.C., was in Atlanta
last week to interview gay fa
thers who live in and near the
city.
"Often projects like this
: one claim to have a broad per
spective but, in reality, are
written from the limited per
spective of New York or Wash
ington or Los Angeles," said
author Rodger Streitmatter.
In an attempt to capture a
broader point of view, Streit
matter came to Atlanta at the
beginning of an interviewing
trip that also is taking him to
Birmingham, Montgomery, New Or
leans, Dallas, Austin, San An
tonio and Houston.
Streitmatter already has in
terviewed several dozen gay
parents should have that first,
direct talk with their children
before a child readies puberty
— at the age of 10 or 11,"
Streitmatter said. Parents gen
erally think it is best to tell
their children before they be
gin dealing with their own sex
uality, Streitmatter has found.
"But, then again, there cer
tainly is no 'right* age for
every child and every situation
Streitmatter said.
Other issues Streitmatter
plans to include in his book
include what the children of
gay parents can tell their
friends, hew being a gay parent
affects that parent's romantic
life, what is involved in lov
ers of gay parents who become
gay stepparents and how gay pa
rents are treated in the court
room.
Streitmatter said he is not
trying to promote a specific
approach to the subject of gay
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