Woman's work. (Athens, Georgia) 1887-1???, October 01, 1888, Image 5
“ SEVEN TIMES ONE ARE
SEVEN.”
Seven times have the roses bloomed
In the quiet garden places;
With bud and bloom the air perfumed ;
The season’s steady round resumed,
Lighting the old time places.
Once more the grapevines, swinging low,
In purple clusters bending;
The crimson leaves drift to and fro,
While dallying breezes come and go
Alternate, and unending.
A woman kneels beside a mound,
Grown white with English daisies,
Like summer’s footsteps floating round.
There comes the distant, echoing sound,
The Angels’ song of praises.
She counts the little chain of years
That number only seven ;
And all of smiles, and all of tears,
Os hopes sublime, of direst fears
That made the balance even.
While bells of memory repeat
The baby laughter ever,
And waiting hands, held out to greet,
The sound of coming childish feet,
Now hushed and still forever. ’
A part in joyous earthly love,
A part have been in Heaven,
She only knows the seasons move
Or here with her, or there above,
To-day her boy is seven.
Maude Meredith.
Dubuque, lowa.
For Woman’s Work.
SOME HEARTS. *
A Peep Into Their Inner Depths.
BY ETIELLE ETIENNE.
“ The cold in clime are cold in blood,
Their love can scarce deserve the name,
But mine was like the lava-flood
That boils in Etna’s breast of flame.
I have another friend; a minister’s
daughter. This woman is ardent, loving,
true. Her nature is intensely affectionate.
We met in early girlhood. Then, and
many times since, when we have been to
gether, I well remember how tenderly she
would clasp me in her arms and how the
love-light would sparkle in he? eyes as we
exchanged glances. How fondly she would
grasp my hand, and seem t© dote upon my
words. I tell you this, dear reader, to give
you an idea of her warm heart’s impulses.
When a woman thus shows love for an
other woman, are we wrong in saying such
love would be the richest dower a worthy
man could gain ?
‘Strefitarsied not her first choice, but a
man she respected and whom her parents
selected and urged her to wed. You will
naturally suppose him a man with a depth
of true tenderness suited to mate with my
sweet friend Carlie.
How mistaken!
Carlie’s husband is nice looking, ever a
pattern of neatness in dress. Her home is
cosy and refined. She has one child, spoiled
by his mother’s doting love and his father’s
restraining coldness. Her husband de
lights in seeing his wife dressed elegantly,
in fact seems very proud of her style. He
' is attentive to her in public, anxious to go
with her into society, but he is as cold in
his nature as an iceberg.
Carlie, ever a confidential friend, told me
these things; what pride he felt in getting
her fine clothing—making a show of her in
fact, but that after a dozen years of mar
ried life, she felt that her husband was a
stranger to her.
That in her light-hearted moments his
entrance would throw a cold chill over her
and make it a task to entertain a visitor in
his presence. When I have visited her
home he has ever been most polite—seem
ingly striving to show me great hospitali
ty, but I always experienced a feeling of
restraint that in some way made me glad
to see him depart. Carlie has told me that
in her loving nature she has yearned so for
endearing names and love that at times she
would glide to his side and, taking a seat
upon his knee, would throw her arms about
his neck and whisper, “ Husband, do you
love me?” He would give her a soulless
kiss, reply “yes,” and put her from his
knee. She said, “at such times I have in
wardly whispered—“ Fool! it is good
enough for you, when you know his icy
nature.” And she said, “ It is his nature; he
cannot help it.” I don't think he had ever
tried. How I have pitied thee, sweet
friend. What more can we do in such
cases where natures so wholly unlike have
come into a binding contact?
We can only hope—in our sweet belief—
for an eternal future, filled with love and
warmth, for Carlie. But it is hard when
we crave love that we should be doomed to
receive ice; or, “expect bread and receive
a stone.”
Take warning, warm-hearted girls, by
Carlie’s fate, and wed not a man whose
glance is cold. Study the eye.
" The eye speaks with an eloquence and a
truthfulness surpassing speech,
’Tis the window outoi which fly wing’d thoughts
unwittingly.”
“Tilings are not always what they seem.”
Let me tell you of another sad life. In
girlhood I had a friend who was betrothed
to a school-mate. He was in every way
worthy of her rich love.
An older man, a neighbor, looked upon
her beauty and coveted it. Being neigh
bors, they often met as friends. Shortly
after the close of school, the man to whom
May was betrothed went West in search of
wealth. The older man accompanied, or
soon followed. Being from the same town
and acquaintances, seemingly friends, it
was natural that they were much together.
I even think they were partners in some
business transactions for a time. May
received several letters from her lover
filled with “the deep assurance that full
fruition will our hopes attend.” Her
replies were as candid and loving. Only a
few short weeks this blissful exchange of
letters, then came silence. Both wrote,
but neither received. The man with the
evil eye had a far more evil heart.
He bribed a postal clerk and together
they withheld those letters. Then he re
turned, and telling May that her lover was
untrue to his pledge of love, he set about
winning her affections. In her pride she
thought to let her lover see that she cared
as little as he, and was thus easily won.
She wed the traitor, who was so dwindled
in soul as to openly avow to her in later
years his deception and cruelty. Once,
when I visited her, she sobbed out this sad
but true tale of woe.
When a woman or man truly learns of
the baseness of a companion, what hope is
therefor earthly happiness? What deg
radation can be greater than to live in
wedlock with one you cannot respect, or
whom you abhor? Can the lives of such
unequally yoked parents be in such seem
ing harmony that children can grow up
without detecting the farce ? Alas, that so
many marriage contracts are hastily,
thoughtlessly made, to be bitterly borne
through life! Young man, young woman,
consider well before you join your lives.
Reader, you will think the peeps I have
taken have all been into troubled hearts!
Not all; but I have selected these as les
sons. I would warn all women against
marrying a drinking man to reform him;
or, marrying a man to get rid of him ! The
one plan is almost as sure of failure as the
other, though while the last brings happi
ness often, the first seldom does.
I will relate a case for which I can
vouch:
My friend,..Ellen 8., loved a young man
who occasionally drank, or at least, only
occasionally went half-seas-over.” She
promised to marry him if he would reform
and stay sober one year. Tins he did ; and<
she told me that he did not drink for two
years after marriage. Her life was then
happy—for she dearly loved John. He
was a fine looking, good hearted man. A
great trouble came to him and he turned to
the bowl to find a power that would soothe
his grief, little reflecting how deep would
be his true-hearted Ellen’s anguish at his
course. Step by step, for two years, he
followed the old accursed path of the
drunkard. Sorrows came rapidly to the
gentle wife. Her grief over her husband’s
now sure fall wrecked her health and she
lay upon a sick bed for ten weeks. Who
can know the anguish and pain she en
dured ! I passed many hours by her bed
side, and I know that on the day her spirit
was released I sat by her; ah ! how emaci
ated she had become.
Yes, for six hours, I sat there with her
feverish hand clasping my 6wn, and her
entreaty ringing in my ears—“ Do not
leave me”—while her still much-loved
John lay upon the bed in an adjoining
room sleeping the sleep “of a drunkard!”
Let me say, that so far as a drinking man
could be kind, he was kind to Ellen.
Quietly she slipped her wedding ring
from her frail finger and placed it upon my
own—whispering in gasps—“ Give it to
John, and tell him to wear it for his wife’s
sake; and oh, plead with him to reform.”
Nor would she let me call him until within
the last half hour of her stay. Then I
glided from her and, touching hissboulder,
said, ‘ John, come!’ He realized the need
of haste from my looks, and came.
Dropping down by her bedside, he sob
bed, but she could only look her pleading
love. I handed him the ring, with her
message, and she smiled at me. Only a
moment more and she became unconscious
of our presence, and I, sick from grief and
weariness, left her to the care of others and
went weeping home. Not twenty minutes
later, her spirit had freed itself from the
clay and gone—to be his guardian angel
still.
John did seem to try to reform, but alas!
that I must tell it, I have heard that El
len’s tears and pleadings and my weak
words of entreaty failed to free him from
the deadly grasp of “ King AlcoholI”
Take warning, girls!
[to be continued.]
A celebrated German physician says
that the digestion of boiled milk is more
rapidly accomplished than that of unboiled
milk.
LENA THATCHER, FRANKFORT, N. J.
WHEEL LACE.
Make a foundation chain of 15 stitches.
Ist Row—3 de in 4th st of chain, ch 1, 3
de in same, (this forms a shell), ch 6, 3 de
in last st of foundation chain, ch 1, 3 de in
same; turn.
2nd Row—Shell in shell, ch 3, fasten
with slip st in middle of the 2 rows of
chain, ch 3, shell in shell; turn.
3rd Row—ch 3, shell in shell, ch 6, shell
in shell; turn.
4th Row—Shell in shell, ch 6, shell in
shell; turn.
sth Row—Ch 3, shell in shell; ch 3, fast
en in middle of 2 previous rows of ch with
si st, ch 3, shell in shell, take the hook out
of the work, put it through the last st of
shell in 4th row, through the st that you
took your hook from, and draw it through
them, oh 10, turn and put 1 sc in 6th st of
ch 10; (this makes a loop) ch 8, fasten in
top of the last st of shell in Ist row; turn,
make 16 de in the chain 8,1 sc in loop,
turn, *ch 8, make 1 de in 4th de of the 16
de in last row, ch 2,1 de in 13th de, ch 2,
Ide in 15th de, ch 2,1 de in last de of
rows, turn ch 5,1 de in de of last row, ch
2,1 de in next de, 16 de in ch 8,1 sc in
loop ; * repeat from star to star until there
are 8 in all of the 16 de s, then put 7 de in
ch 4.
6th Row —Shell in shell, ch 6, shell in
shell, turn.
7th Row—Ch 3, shell in shell ch 6, shell
in shell, take the hook out, put it through
the 12th de in last group of 16 de made in
sth row, through the st you took the hook
from, and draw through them; turn.
Bth Row—Shell in shell, ch 3, fasten in
middle of 2 rows of ch, ch 3, shell in shell;
turn.
9th Row—Ch 3 shell in shell, eh 6, shell
in shell, fasten the same as in 7th row.
Continue with the rows of shells until
there are in all 14 rows, then repeat from
sth row, which commences the 2d wheel,
fasten the wheels together with a sc at the
points of the last 2 des of the 16 de groups
in making 2d wheel, crochet ten more rows
of shells, then make 3d wheel same as 2d
wheel and join to the 2d. I Will explain an
easier way of joining the wheels together.
After cli 2,1 de in 13th, ch 2,1 de in 16th,
ch 2, Ide in lasVturn, instead of ch 5 as in
sth row only ch 3, take hook out, put hook
under ch 5 of previous wheel, and through
the st that you took your hook from, and
draw it through, ch 3, and continue as de
scribed in sth row after making ch 5.
TREBLE CROCHET EDGING
Make a chain the desired length.
This edging is crocheted backward and
forward the length of the work.
Ist row—Miss 2 sts, make 5 tr in next
st, 1 ch, miss 2 sts, 5 tr in next st, repeat
to end of work.
2nd row—Make 6 tr in chain 1 of Ist
row, keeping Ist on the work (in all 6 sts),
draw the hook through all and fasten by
1 ch st, 1 sc in centre of 5 tr of Ist row.
Repeat to end of work.
3d row—s tr in ch 1 of 2nd row,'work
Isc over sc of 2nd row. Repeat to end of
row.
This edging can be made with cotton
No. 30, or if a very durable trimming is
desired No. 20 may be used.
CROCHET SHOULDER CAPE.
Make a chain of 84 chain stitches, which
will make 12 gores. If a larger size is re
quired, add 7 more stitches, which makes
another gore; if 12 gores are too many,
then chain only 77 stitches or 11 gores.
Ist Row.—Make 1 tc in each of the Ist
and 2d chain sts, 3 tc in the 3d, 1 tc in each
of the 4th and K sth. Skip two of the chain
to form the gore. If it is intended to finish
with ribbon ch 2 sts before taking up Ist
for the 2d gore, continue by working 1 tc
in each of the next 2 sts of the chain, 3 tc
in 3d, 1 tc in each of the 4th and sth sts of
ch, repeat to end of the row or end of
chain.
2d Row.—Turn and make 1 tc through
the Ist and 2d stitch of Ist row, (take the
stitches through the back loop to have a
ribbed effect) 5 tc through the three widen
ing stitches of Ist row, 1 tc in each two fol
lowing sts. If chain of two was gnade be
tween gores in Ist row, continue with chain
two in each succeeding row. Repeat to end
of row.
The rows of tc stitches are made as fol
lows:
3d Row—l tc in Ist 3 sts. 3in next, 1
each in next 3. Repeat.
4th Row—l tc in Ist 3 sts, sin next, 1
each in next 3. Repeat.
sth Row—l each in Ist 4 sts, 3in next, 1
each in next 4. Repeat.
6th Row—l tc in Ist 4 sts, sin next, 1
each in next 4 sts. Repeat.
7th Row—l tc in Ist 5 sts, 3 in next, 1
each in next 5 sts. Repeat.
Bth Row—l tc in Ist 5 sts, 6 in next, 1
each in next 5 sts. Repeat,
9th Row—l tc in Ist 6 sts, 3 in next, 1
each in next 6 sts. Repeat.
10th Row—ltc in Ist 6 sts, 5 in next, 1
each in next 6 sts. Repeat.
11th Row—l tc in Ist 7 sts, 3 in next, 1
in each next 7. Repeat.
12th Row—l tc in Ist 7 sts, 5 in next, 1
each in next 7 sts. Repeat.
13th Row—l tc in Ist 8 sts, 3 in next, 1
each in next 8 sts. Repeat.
14th Row—ltc in Ist 8 sts, 3 in next, 1
each in next 8 sts. Repeat.
15th—Same as 14th row.
16th Row—l tc in Ist 8 sts, 5 in next, 1
each in next 8 sts. Repeat.
17th Row—l tc in Ist 9 sts, 3 in next, 1
each in next 9 sts. Repeat.
18th Row—Same as 17th.
19th Row—Same as 17th.
20th Row—l tc in Ist 9 sts, 5 in next, 1
each in next 9 sts. Repeat.
21st Row—l tc in Ist 10 sts, 3 in next,
, Itc each in next 10 sts. Repeat.
22nd Row—Same as 21st row.
23rd Row—Same as 21st row.
, 24th Row—l tc in Ist 10 sts, sin next, 1
tc each in next 10 sts. Repeat.
25th Row— l tc in Ist 10 sts, 3in next,
1 each in next 11 sts. Repeat.
26th Row—Same as 25th row.
27th Jlow—Same as 25th row.
28th Row—l tc in Ist 11 sts, 5 in next, 1
each in next 11 sts. Repeat.
29th Row—l tc in Ist 12 sts, 3 in next. 1
each in next 12 sts. Repeat.
30th—Same as 29th row.
31st—Same as 29th row.
32nd—1 tc in Ist 12 sts, sin next, 1 each
in next 12 sts. Repeat.
33d Row—l tc in Ist 13 sts, 3 in next, 1
each in next 13 sts. Repeat.
To finish bottom edge make a fringe by
cutting the yarn into lengths of 6 or 8
inches and looping these strands into the
stitches on the edge. Grochet border for
sides and neck as follows :
Ist Row—l de into each st around edge.
2d Row—l de into Ist stitch, * pass over
2 de s of Ist row, 5 tc into the next de.*
Repeat from * to 35 around this row.
This border may finish the bottom edge
also, if fringe is not preferred.
This cape is pretty made of white to the
25th row, then 5 rows of blue or pink, then
white at the end, and finished by rnnning
same colored ribbon, as the border, through
the chain of two stitches between the gores.
It requires about 7 yds. of ribbon and 6 doz.
skeins of yarn, either Spanish or zephyr.
This cape will prove a very serviceable
wrap for wear, on the approach of
cool weather. For service, dark red or
blue is preferable to white. Omit ribbon,
and use Germantown wool.
THE PATTERN WAS OUT.
A lady walked into a city store a few
days ago, and inquired for the carpet de
partment, to which she was conducted.
‘You see,” she explained, “I bought a
piece of carpet here for my parlor, and
Samuel, my husband, says nothin’ ’ll do
but we must have some more like it. So
I want to get the remnant. I don’t re
member the clerk that waited on me, but
I’d know the carpet if I set eyes on it.”
Three clerks were kept busy an hour and
. a half unrolling carpeting for her identifi
cation, but the desired remnant didn’t come
to light. “Dear me, this is very disappoint
ing,” said *the lady, in a tone of vexation;
“I felt sure I could find the rest of it.”
“When did you buy the goods, madam?”
inquired the clerk. “Oh, twenty-two or
twenty-three years ago. I know it was
just about the time of Lee’s surrender, and
Samuel wished to celebrate, and ” “Ah,
madam,” said the clerk, “I fear the rem
nant has been sold.”
GOVERNING CHILDREN.
It is our firm belief that obedience in
children can be taught without blows ; that
whipping a child lowers morally both par
ent and child, and that the physical suffer
ing inflicted tends towards making a child
a coward. As to the slapping habit in
dulged in by many mothers, we cannot
condemn it too severely. It is a vicious
thing to do, and is simply the out-crop of
the mother’s own uncontrollable temper.
Such punishment makes a child only angry,
stubborn, and rebellious, and the benefit
looked for from such treatment is not forth
coming then or after. As we sow, so shall
we reap, and if we wished to ruin the dis
position or even the character of a chilA
no more efficient method occurs to us than
of rearing him in an atmosphere of blows,
slaps, and unkind words.
*
BEE STINGS
Apply immediately the half of a raw
onion, or a split clove of garlic, changed in
fifteen minutes; or water of ammonia; or a
plantain leaf bruised.