Woman's work. (Athens, Georgia) 1887-1???, August 01, 1892, Page 7, Image 7
For Woman’s Work.
LOVE’S TRINITY.
The crushed strawberry’s delicate stain
In a tide of creamy white,
When the flesh of the luscious fruit is slain
And plunged in the depths of a milky main,
The daintiest tongue’s delight;
This is the hue of her cheek so fair,
The roses and lilies mingled there.
The radiant stars in the laughing stream,
Tossed into sclntillant soray;
Sweet silvery notes that throb in a dream,
And spangles of dew that shimmer and gleam
In the lair tiara of May;
These are rhe.type of her gentle mind,
The golden thoughts by the heart refined.
The aroma faint which the rose exhales,
I'nseen, unfelt though it be;
Lading the wings of the amorous gales,
That wanton in shadows of dusky vales,
Or frolic o’er sunny lea;
’Tis perfume hidden, this exquisite joy,
Symbols her dainty spirit coy.
Frank H. Rhea.
For Woman’s Work.
THE PIECE OF STRING.
’HE Armands were a weatlhy fam
ily and had a town residence in
one of the most important manu
facturing centers of Ohio. They
spent their winters there, but
passed the summers at their country home
a hundred miles or more from the city.
It was here that young Dr. Wilton met
Felicia Armand, the only daughter and
child of the family. Jerome Wilton, al
though only thirty years of age, was well
up in his profession. Being recommended
to the Armands, he was called in to at
tend their daughter, who seemed to be
suffering from nervous prostration accom
panied by great depression of spirits.
In reply to his professional inquiries she
said that she had received no mental or
physical shock, nor overworked herself in
any way. Her mother, who looked much
distressed, confirmed her statements.
Doctor Wilton was surprised and rather
i ncredulous at first,but set to work to restdre
his patient to a normal condition. In the
course of a few days his surprise and all
other emotions were eclipsed by a far
stronger feeling, for he fell desperately in
love with Miss Felicia.
She was a graceful girl and beautiful,
with clear cut, regular features and charm
ing, unaffected manners. At times was
gay and sparkling, at other times she ap
peared quiet and sad without any apparent
reason. It was this changeableness,
strangely enough, as much as her beauty,
that first attracted the young physician’s
fancy.
Jerome Wilton was doing well in his
profession, but was still far from being in
affluent circumstances. When he realized
how completely Felicia’s image filled his
breast he despaired, for he felt he cculd
never have courage to ask for her hand. At
times he thought she cared for him, but
he did not doubt that his suit would be
repulsed by her parents, if not by Felicia
herself, and he would be called a fortune
hunter.
Nevertheless, he continued to visit the
family almost daily, even after his patient
had recovered. Felicia seemed unaffect
edly glad to see him, and Mr. and Mrs.
Armand always greeted him pleasantly.
The idea of asking for the hand of their
daughter in marriage had never entered
his sober thoughts, yet in his day dreams
Felicia often appeared as his wife.
A month after his first call on the family,
Doctor Wilton was invited to dine with
tharn. There was an early dinner, after
wllwj all adjourned to the piazza where
books and papers were scattered around.
Mr. Armand wandered off with a cigar,
and his wife seated herself in a low loung
ing chair a?d cut the pages of a new
magazine. Felicia and Jerome were
quietly talking near her.
The girl was in her brightest mood, and
was dressed in a becoming gown of some
soft, creamy stuff' that brought out the
delicate color of her cheeks, and contrasted
strikingly with the blue black ofher wavy
hair. The more Jerome looked at her, the
more hopelessly he felt that this child of
fortune, so beautiful and lovable, could
never be his.
Their desultory talk was interrupted by
a slight exclamation of indignation from
Mrs. Armand. ‘ What is it, Mamma?”
asked Felicia.
“Oh, nothing, I was only annoyed by
the conduct of the hero of this tale,” replied
her mother.
“What has the poor man done that
ruffles temper, Mamma dear?
Do tell us,” said Felicia laughingly.
“The hero is poor and loves a wealthy
girl, and although he adores her, he deter
mines to leave her forever, merely because
she is rich and he poor, and people might
say he had married her for her money.
What kind of love is it that would allow
such an obstacle to keep it from declaring
itself? I say it is a false, cruel love that
will let riches stand between it and the
happiness of two human beings.”
Mrs. Armand finished talking and rose
with a little sharp laugh. “I’m going to
cool off,” she said.
She threw her book aside and took up a
fan, Jerome meanwhile watching her
movements as if spellbound. As she pass
ed him, she gave him a look that made
his pulses throb with a wild hope. The
look seemed to say: “If you cannot un
derstand my meaning and seize your op
portunity, you are a coward, and your
love is as cruel and false as that of the man
I have just read to you about.”
Mrs. Armand disappeared in the gar
den, where the flowers were sending up
their sweetest odors.
For the first time in their acquaintance
Felicia and Jerome were alone together.
He looked at her; her eyes were cast
down, her bosom rose and fell with short
irregular breaths and a soft, rosy flush
dyed her cheeks. He felt almost paralyzed
by the strength of his passion. The blood
coursed madly through his veins as he
realized that Mrs. Armand had divined
his love and approved it.
For a moment he could not speak; then,
mastering his emotions with a powerful
effort that he might not frighten the girl
he loved by their intensity, he went
nearer to her.
“Felicia,” he said tenderly, “I would
not have dared to hope—is it possible—can
you love me, a poor physician ?”
She looked at him, her eyes shining
with joy. Then a little reproach came
into her face and voice as she asked :
“Would you have really let my fortune
stand between us, and wreck our lives ?”
In another moment she was in his arms,
and Jerome Wilton felt that life thence
forth held nothing but sunshine for him.
When a short half hour passed, Mr. and
Mrs. Armand joined them and gave them
their blessing, and the happy lover’s cup
of joy was filled to overflowing.
He urged an early marriage so strongly
that the wedding took place six weeks
after the betrothal.
Felicia was as delighted as a child with
a new doll with the pretty little home
which her father bought and furnished for
them in the village where Dr. Wilton
practiced. The Armands returned to their
city home, but the young wife was too
happy and wrapped up in her husband to
mourn their departure. She was so gay
and light-hearted that her husband beganjto
think the change of moods—from gaiety
to sadness—had left her. But, returning
from his round of visits a few weeks after
their marriage, he found her in low spirits.
Questioning her anxiously he could find
no clue to her condition; she could not tell
why she felt so, and continued to feel
gloomy until she fell asleep. The depres
sion lasted for three days, Jerome vainly
endeavoring to cheer her up. The fourth
day she was again bright and happy, but
a similar attack followed the next week.
In a few weeks she had another spell,
worse than before; she felt that she had
no friends, that even her husband did not
love her, and passed hours in hysterical
tears.
Before long Jerome Wilton awoke to
the terrible fact that his beautiful and
adored wife was succumbing to the insidu
ous advances of melancholia. When he
recovered from the shock he wrote to her
mother, and she replied that a sister of
hers had suffered with that disease, and
as Felicia was much like her she had
always watched carefully to detect any
symptoms of melancholia in her.
When she discovered that she had such a
tendency, she earnestly desired a marriage
between her and Doctor Wilton, hoping
that even if she should be affected, his
tender care would restore her to a healthy
state of mind. She ended her letter by
begging Jerome to forgive her for further
ing the marriage.
This he did willingly, for he was de
voted, heart and soul to Felicia. He be
gan to plan diversions for her; company,
pleasant excursions and little surprises.
He gave all his energies to this, hoping
that he might balk the disease of its vic
tory. But it was too late to effect a cure;
melancholia seemed to possess her, and
Doctor Wilton soon found that during the
attacks the thought of self destruction
crept into her mind.
By carefully watching her he was able
to defeat any plans she might form, and
he removed every object that might be
used to injure her. He gave up his prac
tice to a great extent, and watched over
her as carefully as though she was an
infant. For days at a time she would be
her own natural self, only to lapse again
into the painful state of depression. One
day there came a call that Wilton could
not refuse to attend; an old man who
had assisted him in his practice. It was
one of Felicia’s good days and she insisted
upon him going. He therefore removed
everything that he thought she could
harm herself with, should an attack seize
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her in his absence. He was almost con
fident that no ill would happen, as she
had been in good spirits all morning; still
he dreaded leaving her alone, and ran
across to a neighbors’s and begged to have
a little child of whom Felicia was quite
fond, come to keep her company during
the time he would be absent.
The little one came gleefully, and
Felicia began to entertain him.
They were both laughing heartily when
Jerome came in to say good bye. As he
kissed his wife, he noticed that her hand
was tightly closed over some object.
“What have you in your hand, darling?”
he asked.
“Only a little piece of string, Jerome.
Please don't take take it, we are going to
play horse and this is my bridle.”
The doctor rode rapidly away with her
kisses warm upon his lips. She sat quietly
for a while after he left, thinking deeply.
“Play horse, ‘Licia, play horse!” shout
ed the little lad, tired of waiting.
“Not now, dear. Harry, run home,” Fe
licia said to the child. His eyes were
filled with tears and his lips quivered with
his disappointment.
“Here, take this and buy something
nice,” Mrs. Wilton said, giving him a coin.
Smiles chased away his tears, and hugging
her gratefully, the boy ran off and Felicia
was alone.
Dr. Wilton had not gone more than a
mile when some mysterious feeling impel
led him to return home. Half ashamed of
yielding to such an impulse, he neverthe
less turned his horse’s head and galloped
rapidly homeward.
He ran into the house and looked for
Felicia.
She was not in her room. He called,
but received no answer. Then, thorough
ly alarmed, he rushed upstairs into the
spare room. There, suspended from the
bedpost, the little piece of string about
her neck, hung the body of his wife.
He bounded forward, took her body in
his arms, cut the string and placed her
upon the bed.
The body was still warm.
Applying restoratives one after another,
with the energy of despair, the doctor was
at last rewarded by a fluttering ofher eye
lids. Soon her eyes opened, and in half
an hour Felicia, saved from a cruel death,
lay safe in her husband’s arms.
Whether it was the great shock subse
quent to her mad attempt at suicide, or
some other reason that they could not
fathom, neither the doctor nor any of his
confreres ever discovered; but the curse
of melancholia was forever removed from
Felicia Wilton, and she lived for many
years a happy, cheerful woman, the wife
of a happy husband.
Caroline Stratton Valentine.
For Woman’s Work.
A MISTAKE.
I consider it a great mistake for a
mother not to know what her children are
doing. By this I mean, not what they tell
her they are doing, but what she actually
knows them to be about.
There is no station on earth so holy as
that of motherhood; at the same time,
there is nothing that brings with it so
much of care, of responsibility. The best
of mothers are never too careful of their
children’s good, never’ too watchful over
their ways.
And I want especially to preach against
a mother going away from home too
much ; that is, going away when she ought
to be at home.
Many mothers are too apt to think the
children do not need their close attention
after they are large enough to attend to
their own physical wants; but what a
false idea it is !
Some women are given to “jinin’; ” they
belong to this order and that, they get in
terested in the work and give so much
time to it that they have little for any
thing else. Their minds are often so en
grossed with the affairs of lodges as to
give them little time for thought of the
things of home. Some women like church
societies, and give all surplus time and
energy to them. Others take up some
money-making work and give too much of
the time needed at home. Os course there
are many women who must go out into
the world and earn bread for themselves
and children, and of necessity they must
neglect some duties, for no one can do
everything.
I know of a woman who is so interested
in the sewing society, the Sunday school,
the mother’s meetings, and all church
work, that she gives most of her time and
strength to it. She is very earnest in the
temperance cause; but while she is off at
tending to all these meetings, she often
forgets, or neglects to go home in tithe to
get supper for a hard-working husband.
He goes home; no supper, no one at home,
no knowing when there will be. What
does he do ? Goes oft to the saloon.
Wrong! Os course it is; but then, had his
wife been there, with a cheery home and a
nice, warm supper, he would have been
glad to stay at. home. People who have
known them for years, tell me that she
has made him the drunkard that he is, by
her shiftless neglect. Did she stay at
home and take care of her sons? Not a
bit of it. She ranted to them of temper
ance and their religious duties, and left
them a neglected home, a fireless stove,
and a supperless table.
The husband is a sot, the boys are
toughs; they all hate the word temper
ance and the sound of anything that be
longs to church. Is it really any wonder?
It is often remarKed that the men of a
family where there are very earnest tem
peranceworkers are drunkards; and often it
is remarked that the drunkards make the
earnest workers. That is frequently tru“,
and not to be wondered at; and very often
too, it is the earnest workers that make
the drunkards, and when one considers
their methods, this is not at all to be won
dered at. Some one needs to do such
work. But the mother, the wife, should
not neglect her home to do it. Work
with moderation, with reason, according
to the amount of time and strength to
spare.
1 know of a woman who has for many
years done work away from home. She
had children, and she might at least in
the latex years have lived in comfort with
out the work; but she was strong and
well; she liked the work; the children
were well grown ; and she kept on. The
years passed, the children grew up, and
those that merciful Death left her, grew
up to give her sorrow.
To-day the only surviving daughter is
far from home, trying to hide the shame
of her life in the crowd of a large city.
Who can tell of the sorrow, the awful
anguish that burns in the depths of the
heart of that poor fallen girl’s mother!
She might not have been a fallen girl if
her mother had given up her outside work
and beer< at home with her; but perhaps
she might not; the possibilities are on
the side of home life. lam inclined to
think that the mother did not know what
the daughter was about when left alone.
Oh the poor mother 1 One of the best of
women, too!
Then there is another way of leaving
children unlooked after, quite the reverse
of this, but just as bad. That is when
mothers are too much given up to their
work, and allow their children to go about
with no one older with them who has any
authority over them.
Children left to themselves are apt to
grow pert, and even very impudent, if
nothing more. I believe in a mother go
ing out with her children enough to train
them to act in a proper way. Go with
them that you may know what sort of
companions they have, and that you may
know how they behave in company.
I know of several little girls whose
mothers allow them to go about alone a
great deal; they have good training, in
good homes, but when out they are for
ward, often impertinent, and often a per
fect nuisance. I know a girl of sixteen
who tries to be ladylike; still she knows
no better than to interrupt people when
talking, and to force herself upon people
who are engaged in conversation.
1 saw a party of young girls, from 12 to
1G years of age, go off into the woods pic
nicking with a lot of boys of their own age,
without any older person with them ; and
I thought if I were mother to those
girls they should not go. They were all
daughters of good mothers, but careless
ones. I thought that the mothers could
not have paid much attention to the pic
nic, for some of the boys were of the
hoodlum class,and not at all proper compan
ions for girls. What did the mothers
know about what ideas those girls might
get into their silly heads that day ?
I could fill a volume with the question
able things that I have seen young girls
do ; things that they would not do if they
were told how badly they looked ; things
that they will blush to remember when
they are older—things that they will
blame their mothers for when they think
it over in the future.
Give a little more time to your growing
boys and girls ; take them out with you
and teach them how to act. Teach your
boys to be gentlemen, and your girls to
be ladies.
Put less ruffles on the girls’ skirts, and
give the time to their morals and behav
ior ; give up some extra fussing and at
tend to the boys.
It will repay you in the end, and they
will thank you in the days to come.
Imogene E. Johnson.
Love those who humble and contradict,
tor they are more useful to your perfection
than those who flatter you.
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