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Relation Cheat-proof your marriage Q. I thought several of my friends were in happy marriages, but they have admitted they cheat every now and then for a little excitement I'm getting married this winter, and I can't get their stories out of my head. Any ideas on how to cheat proof a relationship? L.D., Connecticut A. I spoke to several psychologists, sociologists and other couples ex perts about this, and even though all say there are things you can do to keep your marriage alive and well, there are no as- surances your spouse (or even you) won’t succumb to temptation. The best defense is a good offense, starting with making sure that you really know who you are marrying. Past be havior often can predict By DENNIE HUGHES what lies ahead. Has he cheated on you before? Or have his past breakups in volved cheating after a certain amount of time? Remember, marriage doesn’t change anything: The relationship you have before you walk down the aisle is the same one you’ll have afterward. Ask your friends why they cheat I bet you’ll hear over and over that they are bored, need attention or have sex lives that are practically nonexistent all issues that often could be worked on and resolved. Surprisingly, spouses who are cheated on often have no idea that their partner was dissatisfied. Be direct with your husband-to-be about your feelings, and encourage him to do the same. Knowing that honesty won’t elicit hysterics or anger keeps a relationship moving forward. Although there are no guarantees, a little effort on your part can bring out the best in your relationship. Think com pliments, laughter and sexy surprise ac tivities. And, most important, keep in mind that every human being needs to be admired and praised. Pointing out what he does right, rather than what he “never” does, goes a long way. C 3 USA WEEKEND • Nov. 2-4,2007 Tips See for Yourself on Discreet Home Video. REAL PEOPLE DEMONSTRATING REAL TECHNIQUES! Couples who watch together not only LEARN from what they see, but often report that the videos themselves are an 'instant aphrodisiac.' That's because they show REAL couples (not actors) demonstrating the joys of REAL lovemaking. A 'VISUAL ENCYCLOPEDIA' OF STIMULATING SEXUAL FUN! Recommended by leading doctors and therapists, BOTH videos in the series were created to show men and women in their 40s, 50s (and older) that the BEST sex of their lives. . . can be enjoyed right now! Volume One, Sex And Love: Lasting Pleasures (90 minutes), shows couples how to overcome sexual problems so common with middle age, including: erectile dysfunction . . . reentering the dating scene Better Lifetime Volume Two, Advanced Sexual Techniques (60 minutes), fectures nine loving couples who show you how to make your desires come true! It features detailed instruction for intimate lovemaking beyond intercourse. . . ultra-sensual massage. . . exciting games. . .plus specific positions that provide stimulation AND satisfaction! \ The Better Sex For A Lifetime Video Series offers explicit sexual programming for adults 18 and older. 23 its Never too Late TO LEARN SOMETHING NEW.' . . . and rekindling passion when sex has become boring or predictable. You'll see demonstrations of imaginative sensual foreplay and lovemaking. . . new techniques to try . . . experimenting with "new intimacies". . . plus finding humor and joy in a long-term loving relationship. 2 FREE VIDEOS! Guide to the Kamo Sutra is guaranteed to increase , your lovemaking pleasure. Sensual Massage shows * you even more creative ways to ignite intense sexual - excitement. Get both videos FREE when you order * today! For Fastest Service With 1 OAA QIT C AQQO Ext. BUWMB Credit Card: CALL TOLL-FREE I.OwV. 7J J .V/000 (24 Hrs. 7 Days) mail to: Sinclair Institute, ext. BUWMB, PO Box 8865, Chapel Hill, NC 27515 Guide to the Kama Sutra (free with Purchase) #2535 FREE Discreet, Plain Packaging Protects tour Privacy Sensual Massage (free with Purchase) #2371 FREE □ Better Sex For A Lifetime Vol. 1 $19.95 Name Sex and Love: Lasting Pleasures #2149 □ Better Sex For A Lifetime VU. 2 $19.95 Advanced Sexual Techniques #2150 □ Buy The 2-Volume Set and Sove $10! #2152 $29.90 Oieck one: subtotal) State Zip □ VHS or □ DVD shipping and handling $ 5.00 METHOD OF PAYMENT TOTALS Srgnrture .. n.r-x.r-. r-i ( I CERTIFY THAT IAM OVER ArGt 18) □ Bank Money Order □ Chedt □ VISA □ MC □ Discover □ AMEX Card# Exp. date NC orders please odd 6.5% sales tax. Canadian Orders add U.S. $6 shipping SINCLAIR Sorry-no cash or C.O.D. BUWMB ©2007 Sinclair Institute. Instltute- order onfine at: Better Sex.com™/ad use ext. BUWMB msnr' / ioo% satisfaction GUARANTEED!