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sight into human nature felt that
it was unnatural for a woman to
remain in the state of “single
blessedness.” Having been happi
ly married it was natural that she
should wish to marry again. “A
woman” they say “is more desir
ous of marriage than a man,” for
“no one is above temptation.” “A
gad-about widow (whose chastity
is open to suspicion) is one of the
things that brings destruction upon
the world.”
Our sages extol, elevate and
sanctify marriage and never tire
of explaining that a woman’s pos
ition is enhanced by marriage.
“With a husband the size of an
ant, her seat is placed among the
great” and though “her husband
be a carder (flax-bearer) she calls
him to the threshold and sits down
at his side.” R. Assi declared: “If
her husband is only a cabbage
head (dull) she requires no len
tils for her pot in other words a
woman willingly renounces all
pleasures for the sake of having a
husband.
Though one or two disparaging
remarks are to be found in rab
binic writings on marrying a
widow (“Do not cook in the pot
in which your neighbor has cook
ed”), these are overshadowed by
the genuine concern that the rab
bis felt lest the widow-bride
would in any way be slighted. The
Talmud lays down that a maiden
is married on the Fourth Day of
the week and a widow on the
Fifth Day to prevent the husband
from going back to work immedi
ately. Though a widow-bride was
not like a maiden carried in a
“curtained litter,” she was never
theless entitled to the customary
benedictions and festivities.
Widows were sought after and
were occasionally spirited and in
dependent. Rabbi Judah the Prince
sent a messenger to propose to the
widow of Rabbi Eliezer b. Simeon.
She rejected him with the reply:
“Shall a utensil in which holy food
has been used, be used for profane
purposes.”
The rabbis frowned on a woman
who was twice widowed. “Rabbi
Judah ha-Nasi said, “If a woman
was married to one husband who
died and to a second who also
died, she must not be married to
a third husband.” But soon on this
point opinions differed. Rabbon
Simeon b. Gamaliel held that she
may marry to a third but may not
be married to a fourth. Abbaye,
the head of the Academy of Pum-
bedita married Honi, the daugh
ter of Isi, who was thrice wid
owed. Abbaye too predeceased his
wife.
Maimonides (1135-1204) ruled
that if a woman was twice wid
owed she should not marry a third
husband. If, however, she married
she need not be divorced.
Whether he married a widow or
a maiden, the husband must be
mindful of the honor of his wife
because “for the wife’s sake, the
home is blessed.”
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