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Devoted to tlxe TJ 5 villains and Frogrese ol Dallas and Paulding County. VOL. XXVI. Dallas, Paulding Countv, Georgia, Thursd'av, June 18, 1908. Number 31 HOME CfmM DEPARTMENT * Don't Nag Each Other. Youug wives and husbands cannot ; be too strongly re- miudechQf the probable sliip- with her in her marriage her real dower. If her dower can be reckoned in numerals only, uo matter how many wreck they will make of their happiness if they yield to that ill temper that expresses it self in discourtesy, want of compliance, unnecessary op position, and above all, that most disastrous amusement of “nagging” and creating a row. Hundreds of households have gone wrong from the mere want of checking in time the habit of annoying as a relief to momentary feelings of irri tation or discomfort. The wife who gets into the way of opposing or checking her husband, of opposing him in small things and standing out in larger ones; the hus band who is sneering, tem- pestous, tyrannical, fault-find ing; perhaps neither side knowing the whole extent of its folly, but just giving way to it as more easy than to fight and conquer it. These young people are doing their best to dig the grave of their married peace; and some day poor fainting little love will fall in to it stark and plumeless, and will never rise to life again. In the beginning these lit tle tiffs and discomforts are*| made up with a kiss from him and a few tears from her to add cement to the reconcilia tion. By still more time this never comes at all; and things get into that chronic state when there is never an open breach and never a formal healing, but an ever widening rift and a never-ending cold ness, Then the two lives jar and grind like rusty hinges. The peace of home, like a dy ing ember, goes out. Cold ness and formality takes the ercise * place of tender love and hap piness, and home, the heaven on earth, is darkly ^veiled and the sunlight of peace and hap piness forever flown. Home—Woman's Realm, Home is the habit of wo man. In the home all that is characteristically feminine in woman unfolds and flourishes Home without woman is misnomer, for woman makes home, and home is what she makes it. If she is illiterate, her home partakes of this quality; if she is immoral, her home cannot be the abode of virtue; if she is coarse, refine ment does not dwell where she resides. If she is culti vated, pure, refined, those qualities will characterize the home which she create?. The higher the degree of her cul ture, her purity, her refine ment, the more will these qualities characterize the home of v/hich she is the center. The self that a woman takes they may be, wretched indeed will be her husband, impover- ished^lier children; but if she posses industry, gentleness, self-abnegation, purity, intelli gence, combined with capabili ty, she is in herself k treasure of treasures. He who is false to present duty breaks a thread in the loom, and will find the flaw when he has forgotten the jority of them seem to think they must marry, and all that is necessary is to find a man hat is good-looking or rich. The average girl first takes fancy to a pretty man, and thinks and dreams of his love- 1S ly hair, charming eyes, ele- g nt dress, divine mustache and dove-like voice. She de clares that he is too sweet for anything. This fever passes off in time, but too often leaves a perverted taste. A dandy figure, swell manners and clattering tongue are apt to even outweigh a good heart, industrious habits and moral worth. Even after marriage visions of the early ideal rise up to disturb the serenity and tranquility of the domestic scene. Better such an ideal had never been formed. Look -for the sunshine, and it will come. The clouds are transient, as things of earth; the sun is always behind them, and sometimes when we least expect it the glorious light will shine through. A Girl Should Learn To sew. To cook. To mend. To be gemtle. To value time. To dress neatly. To keep a secret. To be self-reliant. To avoid idleness. To darn stockings. To mind the baby. To keep a house tidy. To respect old age. To make good bread. To control her temper. To be above gossiping. To make a home happy. To take care of the sick. To humor a cross old man. To marry a man for his worth. To be a helpmate to a hus band. To take plenty of active ex- To see a mouse without screaming. To read some books besides novels. To be light hearted and fleet footed. To wear shoes that don’t cramp the feet. To be a womanly woman under all circumstances. Choosing a Husband. Husbands are not made to order; they just grow. To get a good one you have to know him when you see him. He may not look like the man your fancy painted, yet you will recognize in him^the qual ities that go to make up the reliable, enterprising, amiable man. As a rule, women are not possessed of acute busi ness minds, and are not as ob servant as they might be. On* after another they will fall iii» : ■to the same open trap, just as though they were blindfolded or were impelled by some nil" controllable force. The ma Push. If there was more push in the world there would be few 1 er hungry, half clothed, home less, suffering children; fewer broken-down, dissipated men and women; less need for alms houses, houses of cor rection, and homes for the friendless. Push means a lift for neighbor in trouble. Push means a lift for yourself out of the slough of despondency and shiftlessness, out of trou ble, real and fancied. Push never hurts anybody. The harder the push the better, if it is given in the right direc tion. Always push np hill- few people need a push down hill. Don’t be afraid of your muscles and sinews; they were given you to use. Don’t be afraid of your hands; they were meant for service. Don’t be afraid of what your com panion may say. Don’t be afraid of your conscience; will never reproach you for good deed—but push with all your heart, might and soul whenever you see anything or anybody that will be better for a good long, strong deter mined push. Push! It is just the word for the grand, clear morning of life; it is just the word for strong arms and young hearts it is just the word for the world that is full of work as this is. If anybody is in trou ble, and you see it, don’t|stand back, push. If there is anything good being done in any place where you happen to be, push ! City People Are Buying Small Farms. The call of the country is strong in- the city in summer, says a writer in the July Designer. The; reserve force of the people, thor oughly drained bv the long, hard winter’s work and noise, demands a renewing in the quiet of the farm, the seashore or the wooded hillsides. Whichever is chosen it should be the place where there is the greatest change of environ ment. Many people are buying small farms at a commuting distance from the city, and are living there all the year around at a small proportion of the money expended in a close, uncomfort- flat or apartment on a noisy street. A little careful search in sur rounding towns will, perhaps, discover an old farmhouse, a big wooden barn, an abandoned school house which may be made into an attractive summer homo. There seems to be, at the pres ent time, a great demand for moderate-priced country houses. Simplicity, individuality, and suitability are the key-notes of an ideal country summer home. Let the country house have space, even if there are only three rooms—seeming space—by means of long lines in the treatment of the walls, no cut-up alcoves un less there are many rooms. The living-room is always the most important one in the coun try house. The fireplace domi nates the living-room. It is best built of rough stones, with a large, roomy fire chamber faced with brick. The andirons and crane were found in the ruins of an old deserted farmhouse. The flye-place should rise to the ceil ing, narrowing toward the top. Half way un a board shelf should be left for the display of a few copper bowls to hold daisies and ferns,-and later goldenrod and asters. In some stores one can find a good selection of furniture in the natural wood, to be stained any desirable color. This is especial ly good for bed-room sets. r Politics in Georgia. “I had business in Alabama three or four weeks ago,” said Mr. Billy Sanders, “an’ it took me two weeks for to settle mat ters in a workmanlike manner. When I left homo, ovor’thing was all serene. Down in my bailiwick, which is as warm a political center as you ever seed, thar was not a thing doin’. The fate of the state a«’ nation had done been settled arter a long an’ weary dispute betwixt the county leaders, an’ ever’thing was not only so, but jest so. The farmers had fell , back on the weather, an’ the changes of the moon, an’ thar was nothin’ more excitin’ than a fire-hunt for blind - tigerB. ‘•This was when I went away; by the time I got back, the whole face of politics had been chang ed. The prophets was up an’ at the’r workpthe prognosticators was too busy for to eat, an’ the leadin’ politician! was hollerin’ at one another like a battery of factory whistles. In the next oounty ’twas the same, an’ for many miles around. The cows was lowin’ in the night, an’ the roosters crowin’ by half-past nine o’clock p. m,, -jest as they did when the Charleston ’arthquake shuck us up. I’ve ax’d hundreds of men to tell me what the trou ble is, but no satisfaction can I git. They spit an’ sputter, but they can’t tell me a thing about it. I’ve traveled over four or five counties, an’ it’s the same ever’whar I go—the political pot a-b’ilin’ like fury, an’ noboby a- knowin’ who kindled the fire, nor what kind of a sulphur match they used.—Joel Chandler Harris, in> Uncle Remus’s—The Home Magazine for June. W. B. Ward, of Dyersburg, Tunn., writes: “This is to certify that I have used Foley’s Oriuo Laxative for chrome constipation, and it has proven without a doubt to lie a thorough and practical rem edy for this trouble, and it is with pleas, ure I oiler mv conscientious reference. Cooper’s drug store. Gave Away Secret. An old Cherokeo Indiau recent ly gave away the secret of how the Indinns in olden times used t,o poison their arrow-heads for war purposes or for killing bears. They took a fresh doe liver, and then went to certain plutfes where they knew they would find rattlesnakes in abundance. At about mid-day the tattlers ore all out of their dens, coiled up in the cooking sun. The bucks would poke the first rattler they found with the liver on t h e long pole. A rattler, unlike common snakes, always shows fight in preference to escaping. The snake "would thus repeutedly strike at the liver with its fangs until its poison was all used up, whereupou it would quit strik ing and try slowly to move on. The bucks would then huut up another rattler and repeat the performance, keeping up the work until the liver was well soaked with snake poison. Then the pole was carried home and fastened somewhere in an up right position until the liver be- oame as dry as a bone. The liv er waB then pounded to a fine powder and placed in a buckskin bag, to be used as needed for their arrows. This powder would stick like glue to any moistened surface, and was death to any creatures which it entered on ar rows. The Best Pill* Ever SoM. “After doctoring 16 years for chron ic indigestion, and spending over two hundred dollars, nothing has done me as much good as^Dr. King's New Life Pills. I consider|them the best pills ever sold,” writes H. F. Avscue, of Ingleslde, N. C. Bold under guar antee at Cooper’s drug store. Backin'! Arnica Salve Wine. Tom Moore of Rural Route 1, Cooli ran, Ga., write*: “I had a had Bore come on the instep of tny foot and could And nothing that would heal It until I applied Bueklen's Arnica Salvo. Loss than half of a 26c box won tlie day for me by affecting a perfect cure.” Sold under guaran tee at Cooper's drug store. It makes a girl awful ashamed to sit in a man’s lap without say iug she won’t. Thinks K Saved His LHe. Lester M. Nelson, of Naples, Me., says in a reCent letter: “I have used Dr.- Ring's New Discovery many years, for coughs and colds, and I think It saved my life. I have found It a reliable remedy for throat and lung complaints, and would no more be without ft bottle than I would be without food.” For nearly 40 years New Discovery has stood at the head of throat and lung remedies. As a preventive of pneumonia, and healer of weak lungs it h%s no equal. Sold under guarantee at Cooper’s drug store. 60c and >1. Trial bottle free Wfiat flatters a mao about be ing a cynic is the disagreeable things he expects always coming along. Very Simple. Every little while we read the paper that some one has^run a rusty nail in his foot or other portion of his body and lockjaw resulted therefrom and the pati ent died. If every person was aware of a perfect remedy for such wounds and would apply it, then such reports would cease. The remedy is simple, always at hand, can be applied by anyone— what is better, it is infallible. It is simply to smoke the wound or any wound that is bruised or in- flammod with a woolen cloth. Twenty minntes in the smoke will take the pain out of the worst case of inflammation aris ing from such a wound. People may sneer at this remedy as much as they please, but when they are afflicted with such wounds, let them try it.—Ex. One reason so many men get married is they don’t intend to, bot the girl does. Bee’s Laxative Cough Syrup recoin- wended by mothers for young and old is prompt relief for coughs, colds, croup, hoarseness, whooping cough. Gently laxative and pleasant to take. Guaran teed. Should be kept In every household. Sold by Cooper’s drug store. 4 It’s better to have wed and been divorced than never to have imagined yon loved at all. The Badge of Honesty b on every wrapper of Doctor Pierce's Golden Medical Discovery because a full list of the Ingredients composing It Is printed there In plain English. Forty years of experience has proven its superior worth as a blood purifier and Invigorat ing tonic for the cure of stomach disorders and all liver Ills. It builds up the run down system as no other tonic can In which alcohol is used. The active medic inal principles of nativo roots such as Golden Heal and Queen’s root, Stono and Mundrake root, Uloodroot and Dlack Cherrybark are extracted and preserved by tho use of chemically pure, triple- reDned glycerine. Send to Dr. R. V. Pierce at Buffalo, N. Y., for free booklet which O tes extracts from well-recognized med- authorltja* such at Drs. Barihnlow, King, Sc udder, Coe, Elllngwood and n host of others, showing that these roots can bo dsprfnded upon for their curative action Ifcall weak states of the stomach, accompanied by Indigestion or dyspepsia as well n lu<41l bilious or liver complaints and In ALswastlng diseases” where thero Is losvy’ilMh and gradual running down of tlw'strangth and system. hf ”Golden Medical Discovery ■ mates .. . — - ,tes ana and eruptions as wall as scrofulous swel lings and Old open running sores or ulcers are cured and hosted. In treating old running sores, or ulcers, it is well to In sure their hoallng to apply to them Dr. Plerce’i All-Healing Salve. If your drug gist don’t happen to have this Halve In stoek,iend flfty-four cents In postage iksm to Dr. ft. V. Pierce, Invalids’Hotel and Sungleal Institute, Buffalo, N. Y., and 1-Healing Solve' post ..... accept a secret nos trum as a substitute for this non-alcoholic, medicine or xsovx composition, not even though the argent dealer may thereby mnke n little bigger profit. Dr. Pierce’s Pleasant Pellets regulate and Invigorate stomach, liver and bowels, Sugar-coated, tiny granules, easy to take a* sandy. Well Help 20,000 Who Need the Coin, Chicago, June 6.—A dispatch to the Tribune from Los Angeles says: C. W. Averlll, who recently Inheri ted |IO,UOO,OCO from an aunt in Massa chusetts, declares he is going to make 20,(XX) or more people happy. After a visit to his old home In Formlngton, Maine, ho will establish headquarters in a big city, perhaps Chicago, where ho says all who need help, and desorve it, can And It. ”1 am not going to be a fool about this,” he said yesterday, “but If be ing a fool Is being deceived occasion ally, all right. I have succeeded in piling up a few hundred thousand by my own exertion, but can never spend tho income of $10,(XX),(XX). “If a man has $600, and needs as much more to carry out his pluns, and make him a success and thereby happy, I propost to give the added $6(X). “Another thing, I am going to help bad people as well as good. The good poople, churches and respectable folks care for them, but the bad have no one but the devil and the police. “I want to help the intemperate, the eonvict, the girl who has to hung her head, the man who has made a failure of himself. Lots of uscannot resist temptation, you know. “I have set the number I will aid at 20,(XX), but If I succeed In helping them, I will look for 20,009 more. I sunpose my headquarters will be in New York or Chicago, because I can reach farther from either of those places than any other." A Great Family Medicine. “It gives me pleasure to speak a good word for Electric Bitters,” writes Mr. Frank Conlan of No. 488 Houston, St., New York. “It’s a grand family medicine for dyspepsia and liver complications; while for lame back and weak kidneys it can not be too highly recommended.” Electric Bitters regulate the diges tive functions, purify the blood, and Impart renewed vigor and vitality to the weak and debilitated of both sexes. Sold under guarantee at Coop er's drug store. 60c. Necessity is the mother of in vention, bat she isn’t always proud of her offspring,