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Devoted to tbe Uptoulldin* and Prosrem oi Dallas and Paulding County. yoL. xxyi. ( Dallas, Paulding County, Georgia, Thursd/"’ ( July 23, 1908. Number 36 'jr, HOME CIRCLE ,w, DEPART MEiS^ . - ~ T & To Young Married Folks, j ment in its widest s. r h there It is natural that a gir i should be a purpose iu the ed- should wish to appear at her ucationofwomen quite^ apart best before a man whom she loves^ It is equally natural that (yinan should be careful to keep his shortcomings from the girl he is desirous of mak ing his wife. He is thought ful of her comfort, spends all his spare time in her company, will not see that she has any faults that his relatives point out to him, and is not exact ing except as regards the amount of affection bestowed upon himself. The engaged girl is a per son of importance, petted by her friends and indulged by her iamily. Her plans and wishes often have the first consideration. Little is re quired of her and much is yle^edtoher. Finally, after nothing but consideration for herself the wedding day comes, and with it a gradual change in the order of things. The husband is fond of his wife as the lover was of her betrothed, but she is his, and he is no longer anxious. He has du ties and social obligations per haps rather neglected during his courtship, which must be attended to. He does not show his affection so much and is more exacting; while the wife hitherto petted in her own home arid her lover’s one thought, imagines him chang ed and inattentive. No long er seeing him through' rose colored spectacles she sees his failings and betrays her own. This beginning, without any serious fault on either side, is often quite sufficient to lay the foundation of a thorough ly unhappy life. Graduating Girls. Some of us, at any rate, on both sides of' the Atlantic, have begun to realize that se rious stu^y is less likely to injure women than pinched waists, late hours, hot rooms and unwholesome food, and we think it is better for girls to be graduated at schools for stience rather than at schools for scandal. We think it will better prepare them for the grave responsi bilities of matrimony and motherhood than rapid life in which personal adornment is their chief aim, and how to kill time and secure a rich husband their principal anxie- ty ' • t.- The mental companionship which is improving is com munion between active minds, and the women of a man’s household must be either stimulus to his higher aspira tions or a drag upon them. from questions of what they are to learn, and preparation for so wide a sphere of domes tic or social duty admits of no such low standard as that of custom or fashion. We do not ask that women should have greater influence than they now possess. We only ask that they be trained to make the best possible use of it. This will make mar riage more noble and more complete, enrich and|strength en the mother’s influence and give to life a dignity and strength. A Bad Temper. A bad temper is-one. of the worst things with which ^ a man or a woman can be af flicted. It is a curse to the possessor, and those who are obliged to live in the same house with the possessor of the complaining temper are martyrs. It is often said that we should not let the bad tem par of others influence us, but it would be as unreasonable to spread a blister of Spanish flies on -the skin and not ex pect it to draw, as to think of a family .not suffering on ac count of the bad temper of one of its members. It is like the sting of a sdorpion, or of several scorpions, a perpetual source of irritation, destroy ing your peace and rendering life a burden To hear one everlasting complaint and growl proceed ing from what is aptly called a “chronic kicker,” to have every agreeable thought chas ed away by this evil spirit of disputatiousness, is more than flesh and blood can stand This would be a better world if the people who lose their tem pers would never find them again. Too Poorly Done. Pre-natally, we make chil dren feel that they are unwel come. They are born shy timid, fearful of cuffs, blows and ill-treatment. They shrink in a measure from the love or touch of their parents, and are never at ease till away from home influences. As babies, they are taught to lie, cheat, dissemble, de velop selfishness and to strug gle only for Jience and plan tations. They see their pa rents deceitful and alway double-dealing with them, They are educated to deceit and to go outside of blood re lationship for confidants and advice. They see their pa rents nagging each other, quar reling, scolding each other, For the interests, therefore, of I bickering, back-biting, and men, and of human improve- the next moment praising, flattering and kissing each other. Thus the mind ot the child is kept in a tremor of doubt, disgust and disturb ance. It is educated to hide dirt behind doors, under chairs and in dark corners, and conceal its little acts of meanness rath er than weed them out of its life. It hears the parents speaking ill, meanly, ugly of eighbors, then welcoming them with smiles, kisses and compliments. Thus the child is educated to develop a dou ble. On entering the field that is just beyond the garden of ma turity, so to speak, the young man is taught business. That is, to lie, cheat, dissemble and deceive. To make customers drunk and then do for them. He is taught that all ways to get money are alike honor able. To be sure, he has dif ferent teachers, who teach different methods to reach the one great object, but they all land the student in the same rut. He is taught to be sharp To forget honor and man’s duty to all other men. To hate, dislike, or distrust all who are not of his set, sect or society, when in^ truth there are as good men, as pure wo men and as lovely children in other sets and sects as own. Our duty to God is perform ed only when we properly care for, assist and educate all who are born from humanity; to care for God’s jewels and see that we do not set them in mud, filth, sin, misery, degra dation and wickedness. To carefully surround our little ones, our loved ones, with in fluences and environments that will encourage them the good and protect them from the bad. It is our duty to prohibit, by all means our power the approach enemies to the decent and the good. To protect from the dirty, the vulgar, the obscene the pernicious, the easily an gered, the ones that cannot control their thoughts, word and actions; those who make our children, our servants and ourselves other than what we all should be. Immense Cost. Very few people compara tively have any adequate idea of the immense cost of pro ducing a modern daily news paper, particularly iu the large cities of the epuntry. Some authentic figures on the sub ject have recently been made public and will doubtless oc casion surprise to the unin formed. The “composition” (printers’weekly pay roll) for instance on the Baltimore American is $2,000; on the Boston Globe, $4,200; on the Globe-Demoorat, $3,000; on the New York Herald, $4,000; and other papers iu propor tion. Bills for special telegrams are another big item of ex pense. On the Chicago Her ald a few years ago they run to $4,500 per month; St. Louis Globe-Democrat, $12,000; San Francisco Examiner, $8,000; Boston Herald, $6,000; St. Louis RepUblic, $4,000. Then there is the white paper bill which is greater than the oth ers combined. On the New York World it is said to run $700,000 per year and on the New York Americon about the same; on the Chicago News about $250,000 and on the Boston Globe and Herald about $350,000 each; on tlv Enquirer about $300,000, an' our on many other papers it run from $100,000 to a quarter o a million dollars every twelv months. Putting a crown on a man’ head does not put anything kingly in his heart. State of Ohio, City of Toledo, I Lucas County. Frauk J. Cheney makes oath that he is senior partner of the firm of J. Cheney ft Co., doing business in tho City of Toledo, County and State aforesaid, and that said firm will pay the sum of onk hundred dollars for each and every case of catarrh that cannot be cured by the use Hall's CatarrhjCure. Frank J. Chunky. Sworn to before me and subscribed in my presence, this 6th day of De cember, A. D. 1880. , A. W. Oleabon, (Seal.) Notary Public. Hall’s Catarrh Cure is taken in ternally, and acts directly on the blood and mucous surfaces of the system. Send for testimonials free. F. J. Chunky ACo., Toledo, O. Sold by druggists, 75c. Take Hall’s Family Pills for con stipation. Flics Must Go. Mankind is learning rapid ly which of the myriad kinds of living things are friends and which are enemies. Pests that ruin crops are zealously studied and fought by the far mer, but some pests that en danger human life are toler ated because their ravages are not visible to the unscientific eye. It took brave experiment to discover that the mosquito is a deadly enejny of man, and a long campaign of education was necessary to prove the fact to the public. The rat, being odious aud a dqptroyer of property, was more easily proved to the public to be a disease-bearing scourge. The Scientific Destruction of Rats, founded in Denmark, is not a fantastic society, as is attest ed in San Francisco and other cities against this creeping ve hicle of bubonic plague. The mosquito aud the rat have “got to go.” And so has the house-fly, which, far from being only a buzzing nuisance, causes thousands of deaths a year. During the civil war it was found that flies carried gangrene. This early discovery has been ex plained by the later knowledge Weak Kidneys Weak Kidneys, snmly point to weak kidney Hervoa. Tho Kidneys, like the IHeart, and the Stomach, And their weaknots, not in tho organ Itaelf. but in tho nerves that control and guide and strengthen them. Dr. Shoop's Restorative is » medicine specifically prepared to reach these controlling nerves. To doctor the Kidneys nlono, Is futile, it Is a waste of time, and ot monoy at well. If your back achos or Is weak. If tho urine scalds, or is dark and strong, if you have symptoms of Brights or other distressing or dangerous kid* nev disease, try Dr. Bhoop's Restorative a month— Tablets or Liquid—and see what it can aud will do tor you. Druggist reconuntnd and sail Dr. Shoop’ Restorative E. H. ROBERTSON. Privileges of Monarchs. Scarlet liveries in Englan 1 in are the king’s exclusiy privilege. In Abyssinia royalties aloi,. may wear an earring iu left ear. if out stock of mei mi odd pants w 20 pzt cent off ti) lot out fall sto< Monuments and Tombstones F YOU ABE con templating erecting atnonumc nt or tomb stone over your dead it will be to your in terest to consult me before doing so. I represent one of the best mar ble concerns in the country, t will be glad to call on you and show you my designs and prices. Best material and workman ship. X will appreciate your orders and guarantee satisfac tion. WTWalden Powder Springs, Ga. P.S. X ain also agent for The Dallas Now Era aud would be glad to send it to you. It Is one of the best papers in tho uountry. R. R. L Whitworth. Roorr|D. Fi.ynt. Whitworth & Flynt, Attorneys at Law. DALLAS, OA. Practice in all the courts. In Persia none but'thashfOfr?* - *^ *** is privileged to drive white horses with scarlet-dyed tail tips. Only the German emperor is permitted to smoke a cer tain very fine Havana cigar with a green and gold band. In Russia no one but the czar may drive at full gallop on the public roads. The king of Siam chooses, once a year, the best stones taken from the splendid Siam ese sapphire mines^ For these he pays nothing. In Madagascar, where kite flying is a national sport, it is unlawful for any one to Hy a kite as high as those of the royal family ascend. The best China tea is grown on the Seven Tea mountains, a plantation on the Tonquin borders. Under penalty of death no Chinaman save c of royal birth may drink this tea. War Against Consumption. All nations are endeavoring to check the ravages of consumption, the "white plague” that claims so many victims each year. Foley’s Honey and Tar cures coughs and coldB perfectly and you are in no danger of consumption. Do not risk your health by taking some unknown preparation when Foley’s Honey and Tor is safe and certain in results. Cooper's Drug Store. the increase of flies from May to August. \ The tradition of the rela tion between filth aud disease is sound; and the clean house keeper has always fought flies with screens and fly-traps. These old-fashioned defen ses are still practical. In ad dition, the keeper of horses should screen his manure pile, and spray it with creosote or chlorin of lime. To allow flies on food is to run risk of dis ease; to allow flies to breed in or visit poisonous matter is to endanger one’s neighbors.— Youth’s Companion. H. W. NALLEY, Attorney - at- La w. Office in Old O^urt House. Dallas, oa. ttpeclal Attention to administration of tates, wills and damage milts. Practice supreme and United Htates courts. It Can’t Be Beat. The bust, of all teachers is expert once. C. M. Hurdan, of Silver City, North Carolina, Havs: “X find Elec tric Hitters does all that is claimed for It. For Stomach, Liver and XCid- noy troubles it can’t be beat. I have tried it and find It a most excellent medicine.” Mr. Harden Is right; it the best of all medicines also fo: weakness, lame back, and all rui down conditions. Best too for chili aud malaria. Sold under guaranU at Cooper’s drug Btore. 60c. F. M. RICHARDS, ATTORNEY AT LAW. DALLAS, OA. Practice in all the courts. Office in Bartlett ft Watson building up-stairs DR. T. F. ABERCROMBIE, Physician and Surgeon. Office over T. H. Griffin’s Store, ltosldenco 'Phone No. 44. Office ’Phone 88. DALLAS, GA. Dr. W. 0. Hitchcock, Physician and Surgeon. Office Up StalrH over W. M. Hitchcock's Store House 'Phone No. 88. Office Phone No. 78. Office Hours B to 12 a. m.. 1 to 6 p. m. S. R. Underwood, DENTIST. Office in Watson Building. DALLAS. QEORQIA. W. H. Hansard, DENTIST. Office over Watson’s Store. DALLAS, OA. A man has very good judginen not to trust bis own. o. Sick headache and bilousness relieve— at once with Bings Little Liver Pills, i rosy complexion and clear eyes resul from their use. Do not gripe or sicken-. Good for all the family. Sold by) Coop er’s drug store. 4