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!jc Halit Devoted to tlxo Upbuilding and Progress ol Dallas and Paulding County. VOL. XXVI. Dallas, Paulding County, Georgia, Thursdav, August 20, 1908. Number 39 * HOME CII'CLE * BEPARTMEisX \ i ^ \ The FflCneymoon. ' Few will admit that they need any advice in the honey moon; fewer still will take it. Most young people think, “Well, it is hard if we may not be left to ourselves at such a season t” And yet, perhaps, if we took the experience of the many on this subject, they would admit that the honeymoon has been the time of all others when they have been the least able to help themselves. Is it too much to say that during those two months the happiness or the misery of two lives is very nearly set tled? Well, perhaps ^:hat is too much to say, for errors and misconceptions can be lived down, and habits may be formed or broken after the honeymoon, in the course of years. But still much is often decided, we will not say in the first few months, But even in the first few days. Little things are decided in little ways, and neither under- . stand that “it is the little rift within the lover’s lute” that has begun to show even the first day. Patience on both sides is needed—but especially on the man’ side, for he is the strong' er vessel, and knows life. At the bottom of her heart his young wife wants to please him; but she cannot bear him out of her sight—he must ac count for every moment. His ways are incomprehensible Why does he want to go out for an hour after dinner for stroll? Why does he prefer spending an hour or two down stairs with an old friend at night to going up into the drawing room. Why does he _\yant to see the papers at the c\Vb, instead of going out, af ter a hard day in the city, for a little shopping? Man is a mystery to many a young girl for the first few months after marriage. She has not learn ed that a man’s interests are and must be various. We hear a good deal about incompatibility of temper— we believe very little in it. The sexes are almost indefi nitely plastic. People quarrel more from errors of judgment than from any other cause. You can live with anybody if you understand him, and you can manage anybody if you know him, providing you mean well, have a decent heart, and are willing to be patient and to make some sacrifices for love. Newly-married women are, no doubt, very trying some times to their husbands; but it ' is the fault more of their So- I cial training and the want of education than anything else. Men should remember how much a girl has ft*. rn, how much, alas, ^most have to unlearn, when they first begin the married life. We venture to say that if all newly-married couples were to make a contract not to quar rel for six mouths they would seldom have any very serious quarrels in after life. You chn get into the habit of living peacefully and hap pily, and that habit is quite as difficult to break as any habit we know of. Let there be no long poutings; let there be no long, careless, indiffer ent fits, If little storms arise —and they will arise—let them be brief. Don’t let us sleep over it, and wake up the next morning and cudgel our brains to remember who nagged last. This kind of thing is mean, it is ungener ous and it is silly. $2,000 a year. All beyond this is superfluous. Being su perfluous it is productive of no good whatever. The richer the man the greater is the probability that his sons will live on billiards and die in the inebriate asylum. With con- men teutment and $2,000 a man may be as happy as a prince. Without contentment you will be miserable, even if your wealth equals that of Morgan or Carnegie. and A Low-Bred Woman—One who stays at home, takes care of her children, and never meddles with the business of her neighbors. Species al most extinct. Charming Man—A fellow who has a bow and a smile for everybody abroad, and beats his wife at home. What Has He Made? We note that the metropoli tan papers report that one of our wealthy men so well man aged his fortune of twenty million as to double it in three years. Suppose he has, what then? What has he made by thus increasing his wealth, except increased worriment to keep the run of his increased wealth? With his increased wealth he eats no"more quail and turkey than he did when worth ten millions. He dresses no better and has a thousand times less fun. We beat him on the sleep and have no law suits with tenants and tres passers. Robbers lay for him every time he koes out doors after dark. They don’t think of us. The man with sixty millions of dollars has sixty millions of troubles. To keep the run of his rents, bonds and real estates keeps him at hard work fourteen hours day and yet he only gets three square meals a day, which . is just what we obtain with out ajjy millions, any ten ants and only have to work eight hours a day to credit up all who pay up their subscrip tion. If men’s happiness increased with their money, everybody should be justified in worship ping the Golden Calf. The happiness increases with their earnings up to a certain point the point necessary to secure them the comforts of life, say A Good Daughter. There are other ministers of love more conspicuous than she, but none in which a gen tler, lovelier spirit dwells, and none to which the heart’s warm requitals more joyfully respond. She is the steady light of her father’s house. Her ideal is indissolubly con nected with that of his fire side. She is his morning sun light and his evening star. The grace, vivacity and ten derness of her sex have their place in the mighty sway which she holds over his spirit. She is the pride and ornament of his hospitality, and the gentle nurse of his sickness. Fortunate is the home in which is a goo I daughter. Recently we had the pleas ure of meeting a farmer who was very modest. He said that he could hardly be class ed as a farmer as he planted only about twenty acres. We asked him what he planted principally, and he said that it was cotton and corn. But he did not plant cotton for the staple, but for the seed. He was running a seed farm, rais ing choice seed for his neigh bors who were willing to pay him a fancy price for a good article. That is one line of farming that has been neg lected in this state.—Farmers’ Union Sun. One thing: That makes farm life charming is that there is no hard feeling on account of competition. Two farmers can pull up their teams at the line fence and chat and even give each other pointers about farm ing, wli lie two firms engaged in tlie same line of business in a city are generally at sword’s points. The members “never smile as they pass by,” and as for giving eacli —ier pointers, I guess “nit.”—The Home stead. Don’t Jump Out of Bed. Unless you are in vigorous health and well rested, don’t jump out of bed, says the Sep tember Designer. The ma jority of people wake more or less tired, and springing sud denly upon thejfeet after slum ber is a shock which is as in jurious as it is unpleasant. Pebple who habitually wake up tired, especially delicate women and children, should get themselves up gradually, taking at least five minutes for it. It is wonderful how much is gained by a little prelimi nary stretching of the mus cles, to tighten them gradual ly with nervous force after they havejbeen completely un strung for many hours. At the same time one should stretch the lungs to their full est capacity by half a dozen generous yawns, thus flushing all the residuum of carjjynic acid and other poisonous ex halations out of the remotest air cells. After five minutes of such preliminaries, oue who has felt ou first waking that the burden of the body was too great to be tgken up and borne, will be surprised to find it possible to stand quite com fortably. In this, as in many other matters, nature- is a better guide than blind theory from supposed moral necessity. “Lying abed,” for a moment after waking was once regard ed with holy horror, and the fate of the lazy man in Prov erbs was quoted with unction- But the instinct to yawn and stretch after waking is almost universal; it is also soundly hygienic and should be a mat ter of common sense. No prudent man starts his auto mobile, engine or steam-plant from absolute rest to full speed with a jerk; no humane man startles his horse from sleep to rush him outdoors, and yet some imagine that this is the proper way for man, woman and child to get up! Rise gradually and comfort ably. If you are n woman so much the more need, as your nervous organization is more sensitive and your du ties often call for infinite pa tience. Passing Fancies. Being of a buoyant nature won’t help you any if you fall overboard. If you are short, it won’t do any good to make a long face about it. Any girl will make a fool of a man if he supplies her with the raw matei ial. Typewriter girls may not be clannish, but each one has her own click. Some are not as bad as they are painted—others are not so good as they are whitewashed, Those who promulgate get- rich-quick schemes generally have some get-away-quick scheme ready for their own use.—Boston Transcript. Freedom of Farm. “I hope you don’t mind if we tramp over your farm this nfternoon and picnic a while in your woods,” cheerfully ask ed the spokesman of a large picnic party, as they walked into the gates of the yard. “Not at all 1 Not at all 1” laughed Uncle Charles Seaver, as he dropped his stockened feet from the veranda post and shoved up his specks. “Just mosy right along and have a good time. The farm is yours for the day. Take that road near the corncrib and help yourself. Step a lit tle light, though in goin’ thru those medders along th’ crick, as I have never been able to ’stcrminate that bed of rattle snakes in there. But there’s only a couple o’ dozen of the pesky critters left. I’ll get ’em all soon. Better walk around the north pasture, where old Joshua is pawin’ and a bellerin’, fer he’s a pow erful bad varmint, and when he commands th’ sun to run you bet he gits. That little ravine back of the woods is a fine place fer a picnic, even if Hank Hawkins does say thet the ice dam at the head o’ th’ gully is weak and liable to bust any minute. I took some of the braces out of the dam yesterday jist to prove Hank is a liar. “If that buck sheep over in the orchard gets funny, one o’ you grab him by the horns and kick th’ wool off him. He’s been a mite too frisky since he nearly killed one o’ th’ hired men. Don’t let the young ’uns get friendly with those hornets’ nests in the berry patch below the grain fields. What! Goin’ up th’road apiece? Why, yes; I reckon Wall Weaver’ll let ye in his big woods. Better stay right here; I give ye th freedom o’ the farm !”—Puck. PAIN Hill In th* head—vain anywhera. bM Ita wm. Ibln licongestion, pain Is blood pressure—nothing else usually. At least, so ears Dr. Rhoop, and to S rpvo It ho has created a little pink tablet Thai ible*—(»Uod Dr. Uhoop's Headache Tablet— Mlt II roil have a headache, It's blood praesuro. Ilts painful periods with women, mao muse. ITOU are sleepless, restless, nervous, It's blood ou are sleepless, restless, nervous, I congestion—blood pressure. That surely is a certainty, for Dr. 6koop's Headache Tablets stop In 30 minutes, and the tablets simply distribute ie unnatural blood pressure. Bruise your Anger, and doesn’t I* ret red. and id pain youf Ot course it does. It's con- "‘ou’ll find It where pain jintnon Reuse, cheerfully recommend swell, t Section, blood pressure. You'll f b-always. It’s simply Comrnot We fell at % cents, and cheat! {Attention, Asthma Suffers! Foley’s Honey nnd Tar will give Ini mediate relief to asthma suffers and has cured many cases that hud refused yield to other treatment. Foley’s llopcy and Tar is the best remedy for coughs, colds and all throat and lung trouble Contains no harmful drugs. Cooper’s drug store. The man who knows enough to make a fortune hardly ever knows enough to teach his children how to spend it wisely. Catarrh Cannot be Cured with local applications, as tlioy can not reach the seat of the disease. Ca tarrh is a blood or constitutional dis ease, and in order to cure it you must take internal remedies. Hall’s Ca tarrh Cure is taken internally, and acts directly on the blood and mu- cuous surfaces. Hall’s Catarrh Cure is not a quack medicine. It was pre scribed by one of tho best physicians in this country for years and is a reg ular prescription, It is compossed of the best tonics known, combined with the best blood purifiers, acting directly ou the mucous surfaces. The perfect combination of the two ingredients is what produces such wonderful results in curing cutarrh. Send for testimonials free. F. J. Chunky & Co., Props., Tole do, Ohio. Sold by druggists, 75c. Take Hall’s Family Pills for con stipation. RINK DYSPEPSIA TABLETS [MoNov* Indignation and Stomach Troubles. For Sore Foet. “I have found Hucklen's Arnica Salve to be the proper thing' to use for sore foet, as well as for healing burns, sores, cuts, and all manner of abrasions,” writes Mr. W. Stone, of East Poland, Maine. It is the proper tiling too for piliSST Try It! Sold un der guarantee at Cooper’s drugstore. 25 cents. It is queer, but people who are always wanting to be the whole thing, are never willing to half try- ' When tlie stomach, heart, or kidney nerves get weak, then these organs always fail. Don’t drug the stomach nor stimu late the heart or kidneys. That is simply s make-shift. Get a prescription known to drugguists everywhere os Dr. Shoop’s Restorative. The Restorative is prepared expressly for tbeBe weak inside nerves. Strengthen these nerves, build them up with Dr. bhoop’s Restorative—tablets or liquid—and see how quickly help will come, Sold by E. H. Robertson. Dr. Shoop’s Headache Tablets E. H. ROBERTSON. Monuments and Tombstones I F YOU ARK CON- I templatlng erecting | a monument or tomli- § stone nvor your dead | it will he to your in- terest to consult me before doing so. 1 represent, one of tlie best mar ble concerns in the country. I will bo glad to call on you and show you my designs nnd prices. Rest material and workman ship. I will appreciate your orders and guarantee satisfac tion. WT Walden Powder Springs, Ga. P p I am also ug< Y The Dallas New Era and would be glad to send it to you. It is one of the - best papers in tlie country. B. K L Whitworth. Kookb|D. Fi.vnt. Whitworth & Flynt, Attorneys at Law. DALLAS, UA. 6y*Practice in all the courts. H. W. IMALLEY, Attorney-at-Law. Ofllce in Old Court House. Dallas, ga. Speotal attention to administration of es- tates, wills nnd damage suits. Practice In supreme and United Htates courts. F. M. RICHARDS, ATTORNEY AT LAW. DALLAS, OA. Practice in all the courts. Office in Hartlutt & Watson building up-stuirs DR. T. F. ABERCROMBIE, Physician and Surgeon. Ofllce over 1\ R. Griffin’s Store. Kesidonco ’Phone No. 44. Ofllce ’Phone 88. DALLAS, GA. Dr. W. 0. Hitchcock, • Physician and Surgeon. Ofllce Up Stairs over W. M. Hitchcock’s Store House ’Phone No. M. Ofllce Phone No. 78. Ofllce Hours 8 to 12 u. m.. 1 to 6 p. m. J*. R. Underwood', DENTIST. Office in Watson Building. DALLAS, QEORQIA. W. H. Hansard, DENTIST. Office over Watson’s Store. DALLAS, QA. Dr. J. R. Sewell, Specialist. 734 Whitehall St., ATLANTA, OA. Dr. G.E. Sewell, DENTIST, 734 Whitehall, - ATLANTA. John W. & G. E. Maddox, Attorneys at Law, ROME, OA. Wifi attend the courts of Paulding county when specially employed, j