The Georgia mirror. (Florence, Ga.) 1838-1839, August 25, 1838, Image 1
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Jf GRU KCrAIV*
\S VLE of lots in this town will take place on
To - lav the 10th of October next.
Terms-—On a fourth cash, the balance in three
Ha ;rd instabnetiis.
This tow a is beautifully situated on a high bluff
of the Ever Chattahoochee, in the county of Bar
■ I j , A ■N i na, about one mile below the mouth of
'lah hr e’ t i and from twenty-five to thirty
miles below ‘ambus. It possesses local advan
tr.-os inf’eri tr ono place upon the river. 'I be
bluff , m which it stands is a continuation of the
r, . nviding the waters of the Hatchechubbee
| aivi'koe '•reek«, affording the most eligible
lore. ■: ;.i! an exm ile-U road into the interior of
liars i uv. Rit sell ar M u on, by which the pro
j duct of th •' rich a:i 1 i r;il • cotton lands of those
counties can be easily e rnveye ,to market. ihe
road fr.ru Columbus to Florence and Irwinion.
| " ill pa s through this town. Situated below the
Snake Slioalsand Woolfolk’s bar, which are the
I principal obstructions in the river, it can be ap
! proached without difficulty by steam h •fa at al
most all seasons of the year. Indisputable titles
will be given to purchasers. For the proprietors,
.1 AMES E. GLENN, Agent.
N. B. The cash payment may be mads by a
! good paper,well indorsed, payable CO days, at
I any Hank in Columbus.
_ Aug. 16 21 ts
LANI)S LOW SALK.
The subscriber offers for sale the sol
s lowing valuable lots of Land, lying in
| vTO* a rich and prosperous part of the St;ite,
on very liberal and accommodating
I terms.
Ns. 91 in 7th district, Randolph.
190 in 10th „ do
127 iti 10th ~ do
276 in sth „ do
149 in 2d ~ Stewart.
117 in 18th „ do
149 in 29th ~ Sumter.
215 in 29th „ do
92 in 2d „ Muscogee.
96 in 6th ~ do
34 in 17th ~ Sumter.
I l ov further information apply at the office of
I 'be Tirror, or to the subscriber, in Appling, Co
s ‘Utabia county, Ga. WM. GLOVER.
August lT 20 fit
V ALU AB L K~LAN I)S
FOR SALE.
The Subscriber offers for sal° a val
“able TRACT OF L AND whereon
’W IfW* he now lives, lying in Stewart county,
one mile and a half from Florence,
|oiitaining 1,000 acres, of which there is between
-00 and 300 acres in cultivation. On the premi
*',s there are comfortable houses, a good GIN
.1(0 s E, superior GIN and GEAR. Also, a
MUST RATE SWV MILL, which has only
. JCCn in operation about six months; surrounded
lv IHI inexhaustible quantity of pine timber, near
'‘‘fal towns, situated on the Chattahoochee riv- 1
p, \ Die laud is rich and level. I have good j
■priug water, and a healthy and beautiful situa- j
''l" 1 for a residence. Any person wishing to pur
' l; * se will call and view the premises.
. JOSEPH REESE.
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From ci Lady's Album .
The £*ai'tiug: Kiss.
BY MIRABKAU B. LAMAR.
His act did not o’ertake his bad intent,
And therefore must be buried as an intent
That perished by the way.— Shakespeare.
The driver sounded his horn, and in one hour
more, 1 was to depart in the stage for niy native
State. The idea of visiting the home of my child
hood—meet ng with iny brothers and sisters, and
beholding once more my aged parents before the
grave should hide them forever from my view,
filled me with rapture which 1 had never experi
enced before. Already transported in imagina
tion over the long journey, 1 received the joyous
welcome of the happy family. My good old lather
inet me at the gate with the kindest demonstra
tion of affection; my mother, now feeble with
years, and trembling with affliction, tottered half
way down the steps to grasp my hand, and unable
to restrain he r feelings, burst into tears, whilst my
little sister Clara ran to my arms, and folding hers
about my neck, could not refrain even in the midst
ol her gladness from affectionately chiding me for
not answering her letters. Blessed little sister !
I kissed her pretty black eye, and promised to do
better in future; and there was a joy—aye a rap
ture, even in this reverie of imagination, which if
it could but last, I would not barter for a world's
wealth and all its honors besides.
Hut every bjiss has its bane. The reflection
that I had to part with Fanny Morrison, whom I
so much loved, even unto adoration, soon put an
end to this glow of happy feeling, and spread in
my heart a corresponding poignancy of misery.
This is the nature of human happiness. There
is not a glad emotion of the breast which is not
quickly chased by some obstrusive rare.—The
visits of joy are as short as those of the votaries of
fashionable life; and the bosom fnat is elated by
her transitory presence, will as surely experience
anequal depression at her departure. Her smiles
are like the vivid flashes of lightning that play
upon the brown cheek of night, but vanish in an
instant and leave behind fourfold darkness. I
thought of home, and my soul expanded—l
thought of Fanny, and it sank in dejection. I
loved this fair and excellent creature, not that
the beauty of her whole sex seemed epitomized
in her form and face, but more for the higher brtl
liancy of her polished mind, and above all, because
of her unsophisticated purify of heart. My love
was reciprocated. Daily we renowned our vows
of perpetual constancy, and preen eyed monster ,
Jealousy, never sullied our minds or disturbed our
repose ; but mutually confiding, we enjoyed all
(lie luxury of tenderest affection unmixed with
the bitterness of doubt and distrust; and if there
lie such a thing as positive happiness on earth,
“it is this ; it is this.” From iny first acquain
tance with Fanny, 1 had never been separated
from her a week at a time—to part with her now,
and possibly forever, it seemed like death.
1 had already taken leave of heron the evening
of the preceding day, but now that I was about to
enter upon my journey immediat lv, 1 could not
resist the inclination which increased in ardor as
the time of departure drew nearer, to gaze upon
her innocent face, once more; once more to seize
her fair soft hand, and say “good bye.” I hastened
to her dwelling. She was at her piano, playing
the plaintive air of “ Hoy's Wife," the very tune
which of all others I most delight to hear; and
she could play too with such enchanting skill—so
touching to the heart! As I entered the room
she erased the music but quickly resumed at my
request and accompanied the instrument with a
voice that breathed all the magic harmony of
Nourmahal. She sang.
“Fare thee well since thou must leave me,
“But Oh! let not our parting grieve thee,
“For l will still be thine believ e me.”
And there was an applicability in these words to
iny situation, such a suitableness of sentiment to
the occasion, that made them sink deep into my
heart; and although i cannot say t. it the music,
like St. Cecelia's, “drew an \ng< 1 down,” 1 will
say she sail" like an Angel, and wore ;;1! the celes
tial loveliness of one. < ould the song never close
and her beauty never die, who would ask for a
brighter Heaven!
As she finished the strain, sue closed the lid of
the piano, and turning her beaming face with
“bonny blue eyes,” upon me, she said “I now
have a task for vou to perform.” And what is that
task?” I enquired, “it is,” said she, “a compli
ance with your promise, made a long time ago, to
write and original piece in mv Album: the eve
ning is favorable for poetry, and I insist upon your
writing.” At first I thought this was merely in
tended to divert mv mind from the melancholy
which she perceived w ns gathering around it; for
1 was so far from ever being guilty of writing poe
trv, that 1 really could not believe for a moment
that she seriously thought me capable of such
perpetration; but in a few moments she took from
the book case a neatlv bound Album, and spread
ing it on the table where pen and ink were pre
viously placed, she invited me to the task with an
air of*solemnity, which could not tail to con
vince me that the request was made more in ear
nest than through courtesy. What could I do?
I had- not the heart to refuse, or the genius to
comply. Mv brain was as dry, as the remainder
buscuit after a voyage.” Never did I stand so
much in need of mind, or deplore its wants so
much as on this occasion. True, the evening was
serene and beautiful, and might have warmed the
breast that had the least sp3rk of poetic feefing
about it; but mine had no dormant energies of this
nature to awaken, and neither the kindling influ
ence of fine-went her, nor the more inspiring power
of Fanny’s presence, could remove my constitu
tional inability to rhyme. To attempt it, I knew
very well that the failure would be so completely
shameful that I should lose rnurh of her esteem,
and yet not to do it must inevitably incur her most
serious displeasure. I determined however to
risk the attempt; and seating myself by the table.
FLORENCE, GA. SATURDAY, AUGUST 25, IS3S.
I seized the pen in despair, dipped it in the stand,
and turning my eyes upwards, but not in ■'Jiue
frenzy rolling," 1 began cogitating on what sub
ject i should fix for my fanciful effusion.
1 had remained in this attitude but a short time
before my musing* appeared to be unceremon
iously interrupted. The whole family were in
busy oproar. The servants were running in every
direction, from room to room, all actively engaged
in cleaning and decorating the mansion. Some
were hanging new damask curtains over the win
dows—some regulating the glasses on a well
loaded sideboard—others replenishing the flower
pots with water and fresh roses, whilst Fanny’s
youngest sister was fantastically ornamenting a
pair of large candlesticks with paper leaves. The
Turkey carpet was moved and the floor dry-rub
bed—indeed all the preparations usually made for
a dancing party were going on, and apparently for
that purpose. Presently a servant girl entered
the room with a bundle of evergreens, with which
she commenced decorating the mantle piece, and
then proceeded to a large mirror, that hung on
the wall opposite to me in such a position that it
reflected to my view the image of Fanny as she lay
reclining on the sofa in a thoughtful and pensive
manner. Her countenance is frequently tinged
with a slight melancholy; but now, it seemed to
wear a deep gloom. I certainly had never seen her
face so clouded by sadness before; her mind ap
peared to be abstracted, for she took no notice cl
what was going on until the servant maid asked
her if she designed to have the walls of the par
lor festooned with the vines. “Do as you please,”
she replied, and rising from the sofa she left the
room with a tear, as I thought, quivering in her
soft bine eye. NY hat was the meaning of all this ?
1 could form no possible conjecture. 1 enquired
of the servaut—her words were as a dagger to my
heart. “Why, have you not heard,” said she
“that this is Miss Fanny’s wedding night?” I
could hear no more; the maid would have pro
ceeded, but my brain reeled, and I fell upon the
floor in a state of insensibility. How long 1 re
mained in that situation, 1 know not; but was
awakened from it by the entrance of a tall young
gentleman of handsome deportment and splendid
ly attired, with a “broad felicity of face” bespeak
ing a light mind "and a happy heart. It was for
his coming that all tlmse preparations were made,
for lie was iny happy rival, who was that very night
to be married to the fair Fanny. Prompted !>v
desperation I flew at the. villain’s throat, lie
was my friend ; we were born in the same village,
educated at the same school, had been intimate
from our boyish days, 1 wore him in my “heart's
core,” and not a circumstance had ever transpired
until the present occurrence, to weaken the bond
of brotherhood that bound ns together. Os all
niy acquaintances, lie was tin only one to whom 1
had communicated the secret of my attachment
to Fanny. He abused that confidence to supplant
me in her affections. And shall i bow in degrad
ing humiliation Eo the wrong? No—-rather let
me perish first. Cursed be the coward arm that
falters in a just revenge. With imprecations on
mv rival’s head, 1 fled the habitation.
All idea of my journey was now banished from
my mind, my every thought was devoted to re
venge ; my heart was a furnace of exasperated
passions ; my very' blood boiled for vengeance.—
Retiring to my room, 1 w hetted my dagger and re
loaded my pistol. “I will mar his mirth,” said l
to myself “1 will burst upon him in the midst of
his anticipated heaven, like an unexpected Albc
lino." And let not mistaken piety denounce all
human vengeance as unrighteous. The serpent
was crushed in the earth because of his guile
which converted the bloom of Eden to a wilder
ness of woe, and so should the demon still be
crushed, when, forsaking his reptile shape, he as
sumes the human form, and spreads over the pa
radise of the heart a wintry desolation. Reader,
when yon shall love as T have loved, and be sup
planted by a wretch calling himself your friend,
but whose smiles are iim very ‘fiend’s arch monk,’
then will von be re My toexcla. i v it!' me. “who'll
sleep in safety that hath done tin . rung ?”
I know not how tlic time passed off, but nightfall
had come on. Dressing myself in apparel suited
for the wedding, f ifhm I went, went, sternly ile -
termined to “sp< a'; ;!a. j r-.” to the bri le, and to
use them on the ire ache reus • of my niis
forfune.. The guo sts had assembled and the nup
tial hour was almost arrived ; the In
placing the last flower in the bridal wreath, and as
she twined it in the sliming curl. I heard her dis
tinctly sin.mg the beautifdl lines of Mrs. ile
mans,
“Bring flow’rs, bring fiow’rs for the bride to wear,
They were born to blush in the sinning hair,
She i* leaving the scenes of her childish m rtli,
She has bid farewell to ljer father's hearth,
Her place is now by anothei’s side,
Bring flow’rs for the locks of the i,iiryoung hrido.
The long parlor was splendidly illuminated. Ihe
chandelier suspended i:i the centre, threw around
a brilliant light which the mirrors augmented by
reflection, whilst the warm flashes from the spark
ling eves of the laughing girls added to the blaze
and made the room glow' with toe lustre ot the
skies, the light of heaven was there. And merri
ment was there. The young voices, mingling in
sprightly conversation, were so many separate
tones of melody ; and mirth was in all all was
gladness; and to one whose heart had not been
rendered impenetrable to joy, it was sweet to look
upon the innocent laces and to witness the unaf
fected vivacity that prevailed. Once I could have
enjoved the scene; but the chord in my bosom that
might have vibrated in unison, was now snapped
asunder; and amidst all this gaiety and joy and
beauty, my heart retained its inhlniglit darkness, j
still brooding over its ruin and nourishing its gloo
my wrath. I mixed not with the joyous compa
ny, but retiring to the remotest corner of the
room, I folded my arms, and waited impatiently
the coming of the bridegroom and his bride,
where 1 might take, even at the altar of Hymen,
that sanguinary vengeance which dispair prompt
ed and my wrongs justified.
They soon came. There was a sudden silence i
in the hall; I raised my eyes, and beheld the hap- .
py couple standing on the floor, their attendants |
ranged on either side. The whole company pres
sed forward to look upon the fair bride. Never
bad Fanny appeared so lovely to my eyes as then.
A long white veil feli lightly over her forehead,
like a milk w hite cloud floating before the evening
star; she blushed, and the carnation on her cheek
shone like the glancing sunbeam on the “Hill of
Benlomon.” Her tresses were darker than the
raven’s wing—they rolled in glossy curls down her
neck and ivoty shoulders. Her form was the per
fection of human symmetry; she was a statue of
Medici animated to life by the wannest, brightest
fire of Heaven, exhibiting a constellation of beau
ty where every ebann mingled its light in one un
bounded blaze. I gazed upon her, and the recol
lection of former times came rushing on my soul.
1 thought of the many evenings l had spent with
her in this same hall under happier circumstan
ces; of the many protestations of eternal love ex
changed between us as w e walked arm in aim to
church of Sabbath mornings, and of the times we
had loitered on the banks of a neighboring river,
and sitting beneath the umbrageous oaks, would
talk of the fair prospect of happiness when we
should be united in marriage as we were in affec
tion. Heaven had designed us for each other, 1
for her and she for me; and little did I dream that
I should ever behold her flic bride of another. I
could not behold it. A thousand times would 1
have rather gone with a sprig of rosemary in niy T
fingers to view her in the ruins of death. And
here let me beg the reader to forgive iny weakness.
Mock not my misery. If you cannot sympathise
with the atHicted. let us part. I write for those of
softer mould, with more of the “milk of human
kindness” in their nature, who can feel another’s
woe, who love to bind the broken spirit, and to
pour the balm of consolation into the agonized bo
som of despair. There are such ; and ye gener
ous few, l thank you in the name of the afflicted,
whose sorrows you delight to soothe; 1 thank you
in the name of all who have experienced the blight
of ruined affection. Cheer them by thy kindness
if thou canst, for their hearts have become deso
late, and they stand in need of al! the consolation
1,0 be derived from tenderest sympathies of friend
ship—the virtuous will ever extend it; the vicious
have none to bestow.
But to returnrio iny story. The venerable min
ister who was to unite the happy couple in wed
lock, now assumed his station on the floor, and
in a moment all was silence. Whilst he was ad
dressing to them a few prefatory admonitions 1
suddenly made my way through the crowd and
planted mv. ell'at my rival’s back. I laid my hand
upon mv dagger—"twas strange my heart began
to falter in its steadiness. Then it was that the
enormity of the act which 1 was about to perpe
trate, flashed across my mind in all its horror.
He still looked like the friend of my youth—to
imbrue my hands in his blood—to murder him—
it seemed too horrid; I trembled in every joint,
and a cold perspiration bedewed my forehead.
And yet must he triumph in my ruin—hath lie not
wronged me—is not vengeance mine, and shall 1
shrink from (tie meditated blow? There was a
might v conflict in niy bosom, between its gentle im
pulses (V aturrv passions. But vengeance triumphed
I thought mv riv I beheld me, and in the look which
lie bestow ,1* there see,med to be an air of exult
ation and hangi:ty defiance that reinvigor ited my
nerve—re-r-nimated my resentment. Again he
stood before me m all tiie blackness of his guilt,
a perfidious demon, who had mercilessly robbed
me of mv “life’s life” The aged minister pro
ceeded in the marriage ceremony, 4 if any know a
lawful reason why this couple should not Le join
el in the holy state ot matrimony, let them speak,”
Ha pa-,r:ed as if for a reply. Now was my rime.
1 touched the bride upon the shoulder: sin* turn
ed. “B - not alarmed,” 1 cried, “for. I meditate
no injury to you. O Fanny, when T admired the
diamond brightness :f your beauty, 1 did not think
your bosom had the diamond’s hardness too I
'•oidd say no more: utterance forsook me; and
in tfie frenzy of despo t”. twisting my fingers in the
locks of th- bewildered bridegroom, at one convul
sive effort 1 felled him on the floor, and planted
,uy knee upon his breast. 'I lie whole company
were pefrified to marble.--Before they could
sufficient! v recover from their panic, to render as
sistance to the imploring victim at my feet, i
snatched my pistol i oiti the licit and cocked it at
his throbbing temple. At tlrs moment the fail
Fannv caught me by the hand and giving it a
and affectionate pressure she said, “come,
come, a v u not going to write in iny album ?
It has been b mist an hour since yon sat do wn for
that pur <> ;e.”—“Write in your album fair crea
ture,” said I, why yes. I will write in your al
bum;” and so saving I aroused from the reverie
into wlrch l had fallen from the time l took my
seat by the table, and was much relieved on find
ing the above dreadful circumstances existed on
lv in a dream of imagination. Again 1 dipped
mv pen in the stand and having nothing poetic a
bout me, I [leaned the above, i lie hoin
summoned me as I finished, and I .just had time to
print on Fanny’s lip the Furling Hiss.
COURTSHIP AND MATRIMONY.
The difference between courtship and matri
mony was never more forcibly explained than in
the following “Charcoal sketch.”
“What made you get married if you didn't like
it ?”
“Why, I was deluded into it—fairly deluded.
1 had nothing to do ot evenings, and so I went a
courting: now courting's fun enough—l havti t
got a word to say again courting ; its about as
good a way of killing an evening as I know of.—
Wash your face, put on a clean dicky, and go and
talk as sweet as nugey or molasses candy, an hour
or two—to say nothing of a few’ kisses behind the
door, as your*sweet-heart goes to the steps with
“When I was a single man the world wagged
along well enough. It was just liks an omnibus:
I was a passenger, paid rny levy, and hadn’t noth
in" more to do with it, but to sit down and not
care a button. S’posing the omnibus got upset;
_ well I walks off. and leaves the men to pick up
the nieces. But then I must take a wife, and be
handed to me. It’s all very well for a while; but
Vol. I.—No. 22.
afterwards it’s plaguy like owning an upset omni
bus."
“Nan!” queried Montazuma, “what’s all that
about omnibuses ?”
“What did I get by it?” continued Gamaliel,
regardless of the interruption. ‘‘How much tuu ?
why, a jawing old woman, and three squalleis—
mighty different from courting, this is. W hat's
the fun of buy ing things to eat, and things to wear
for them, and wasting good spreeing money on
such nonsense for other people ? And then, as
for doing what vou like, there’s no such thing.—
Von can’t clear out when people’s owing you so
much money—you can’t stay convenient: no,
the nabbers must have yotf» You can’t go on a
spree, for when you come home, missus kicks up
the devil’s delight. Nou can t teach her better
manners, for constables are as thick as blackber
ries. In short, you can't do nothing. Instead of
‘yes my duck,’ no my dear,’ ‘us you please rny
honey,’ and ‘when you like lovely,’ like it was in
courting times, it's ‘darning’ nnd ‘mending,’ and
nothing ever darned or mended. If it wasn’t that
I’m partic’lar sober, I’d be inclined to drink—it’s
excuse enough. It’s heart-breaking, and it s all
owing to that, I’ve such a pain in my gizzard ol
mornings. I’m so miserable 1 must sit uown ou
the steps.”
“Wliat’s the matter now ?”
“I’m getting aggravated. My wife's a saven
critter—a sword ot sharpness —cuts the throat
of my fidelity, stabs my happiness, crops my com
forts, and snips all my .Sunday go-to-meetings to
make jackets for the boys—she gives all the wit
ties to the children to make inc spry, and jump
about like a lamp-lighter.—l Can’t stand it- my
troubles are overpowering when 1 add ’em up.”
“Oil, nonsense! behave nice—don't make a
noise in the street-—be a man
“How can 1 be a man, when I belong to some
body else ? My hours ain n—m
ain’t my own—l belong to lour peopie be ides
myself—the old woman, and them three children.
I’m a partnership concern, and so mahy lias got
their finders in the till, that 1 must bmst. i>l
break, and sign over the stock in trade to you.
r pj, e \ ouv (r 11 "ife .—A woman runs a nskofbc
ing spoiled by the flattering period that [ recede.-;
marriage. She is. of necessity, then, a first ob
ject; and custom lias added to the homage which
love would willingly render. An individual of a
family, who may before have been but little con
sidered, rises at once into importance; and the
person she most values is ready to execute the
slightest expression of her w ill.
The sooner that a woman can divest herself of
any unreasonable expectations w hich the devotion
of the lover may have excited, the greater the prob
ability of her securing permanent attachment.
Courtship is a dream, from which it is better to
awake, voluntarily, than to be reluctantly roused.
It is better to return to our ordinary habits to the
sober and calm fulfilment of our daily business, in
the place assigned by duty—tuan to cherish an
artificial excitement, and cling to a false position.
It is proof of judgment in a woman, when she
bestows attention on her husbands character ; w hen
she sets herself to study his peculiarities, and to
consult them to the utmost of her power. This
is the management which is not only allowable,
but praiseworthy ; for its object is not the obtain
ing of sway, hut the promotion of mutual felicity.
It is certainly much to bo lamented when a young
wife yields to a timidity of listlessness, which pre
vent, us from making independent efforts, when
she nurses the nervousness which unfits her for
all useful services; when, whatever be the call up
on her, she is m need of aid : nnd, fioni never hav
ing thought of exerting herself, is incapable of do
ing so when the emergency arrives. Incidents
daTlv occur which mark either the helplessness or
capability of every woman, buddcti alarms, tri
flin r incidents throw oik into uncontrolable ag
itation ; whilst another calmly avoids or relieves
the mischief. One is unable to put forth a hand
to help herself; the other, without appearance of
effort, is ready to help all besides. One cannot
stir without support; the other is continually em
ployed in some' useful or benevolent purposes.
One reclines upon a sofa, establishing no claim on
others but her own incapacity ; the otliei by her
perpetual good offices, lays up a debt which is will
ingly paid on demand and thus provides in the
best vvay, for her future exigencies.
It not unfrcquently happens that a young mar
ried woman is oftener alone than she has previ
ously been accustomed to be ; and that she misses
the family circle with which she has hither to been
surrounded. Let not this, however, depress her
spirits, or render her too dependent on her hus
band for entertainment. Let it least of all, lead
her to seek, too frequently, relief in company.
One of the first things she should learn, is to he
happy in solitude; to find there, occupation for
herself; and to prove to her husband, that howev
er she may cujoy social intercouise, a.id especi
ally desire’his presence, she needs not either a sis
ter or a friend to entertain her when he is away.
Female Improvement.-
Moral effects of Marriage.— The statistics of the
Eastern Penitentiary of Pennsylvania are curious
in the great inequality, which they exhibit be
tween married and unmaried convicts. Jt the one
hundred and sixty prisoners received the last year,
one hundred and ten yvere unmarried. Six were
widowers, and forty five only were married I have
never seen a stronger illustration of the moral in
fluence of marriage. It is too late to eulogize the
marriage institution, after the worlds experience
of its ameliorating influence upon tu e human
condition for six thousand years. But ve may
take this instance as an evidence of its effects in
premoting good habits, moiality and vutue a
mongst the lowest classes of society.
“Massa one ob your oxens is dead—fodder
too. I was afraid to tell of era bof at one, ’fraid
you couldn’t bore it. k
The sun has some spots on its surface, and th«
best and brighiest characters are not without their
faults and frailties.