The Barb. (Atlanta, Ga.) 197?-197?, June 01, 1975, Image 7
THE BARB *7
A Straight Look
At Gay Life
by Peter Thomas
I recently asked a good
friend, Catherine Saxe, if she
would interview some of her
“straight” friends about
homosexuality, and their
attitudes on “gay” life.
Catherine, who is a
“straight,” warm and
vivacious human being,
acquiesced. Originally I’d
intended a series of in
terviews with “gay” friends
on their experiences with the
heterosexual culture, but
instead we’d like to ask the
BARB readers to write us
letters and comments
regarding their views, at
titudes and experiences with
“straights.” Readers, the
BARB is YOUR newspaper.
We ask you sincerely to
participate, and we plan to
publish letters received in a
GAY FORUM in a subsequent
issue of the BARB. Following
are the interviews by
Catherine Saxe.
I interviewed many
business people, from
secretaries to vice
presidents, ministers and
housewives. Surprisingly, the
ones who objected the most to
the homosexual way of life
were the ministers. This
surprised me since I felt they
would be ones to be un
derstanding. One minister
belongs to a group who called
themselves “free thinkers”
and the other minister a little
more orthodox.
One minister mentioned
that the Bible states “Let
them come out so that we can
know them, “speaking of
homosexuality.. But he failed
to explain why. He further
stated “They are sick.”
I asked the question: Do
you think a child is born a
homosexual?
A: No, but it might begin
in childhood with a desire to
be like “Mother.”
They stated that each
human is responsible for his
life and being homosexual
defies this purpose.
Q: If you lived next door
would it bother you?
A: No, but wouldn’t want
them around teen-agers.
(Others persons interviewed
felt that they would not want
homosexuals around their
children for fear of them
approaching the children or
attacking them.)
The ministers also felt that
homosexuality is a threat to
the survival of reproduction.
I also interviewed two
secretaries ... one married,
the other single. The married
one stated that she had never
been close enough to the
situation to really have
definite feelings. However, it
didn’t bother her. She said
“every person has a right to
live as they want to.” But
when asked “If you went to a
bar and saw two men dancing
would it bother you? ”
A: “Yes, because it is
against everything I am used,
to.” (But this seems very
vague....she wasn’t used to
homosexuality but said it
didn’t bother her.)
Q: How about a Lesbian ...
how do you feel about them?
A: “As long as I am not
approached it doesn’t bother
me. It would offend me if it
was displayed in public. I
know the situation exists but
perfer to close my eyes to it.”
The second single secretary
stated she felt homosexuality
was a threat against
womanhood. She would want
a man to be attracted to her
... not to another man. It
would be hard to accept, but
feels she could be friends with
them.
She reminded me of the TV
movie “That Certain Sum
mer” when the woman meets
her ex-husband’s male lover
she tells him that had he been
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known how to compete. She
could not compete with a
man.
These were the ones who
had strong feelings but most
of the people interviewed felt
in today’s society it is ac
cepted and that it doesn’t
really affect them one way or
the other. I think it is a factor
in our society that is feared
taboo. Women are frightened
by the myth that homosexual
or bisexual fathers will
produce homosexual
children. Many stated that
certainly now it is more
acceptable in our
society...years ago they
would not have even
discussed it openly.
In 1938 Afred Kinsey and
his associates at the Institute
for Sex Research in
Bloomingdale, Indiana wrote
that 4% of the white males in
the U. S. exclusively are
homosexual throughout their
lives after the onset of
adolescence. He also wrote
that 18% of American males
have as much homosexual as
heterosexual experiences in
their history between the
ages of 16 and 55.
Freud concluded that all
living* creatures and cer
tainly all human beings are
bisexual by nature.
Dr. Kinsey fotind that
homosexual activity among
animals is just as prevalent
as it is among human beings
nnd having a male dog I
personally can verify this.
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Bisexuality seems to be
more acceptable than
homosexuality. Homo
sexuality is not a disease —
it is simply a variant of
the human condition. They
don’t fit the flighty stero-
types that appear in movies
or plays - but look and are
normal human beings.
Is the saying “We hate in
other people what we dare not
admit in ourselves” true?
We have all had the op
portunity to divulge and
discuss our sexual orientation
with “straight” friends and
relatives. Have we done so?
And why? Was it guilt? Was
it an attempt to achieve a
more honest and open
relationship? Examine you
motivations, write us of your
experiences, and share your
yiews with other BARB
readers. All mail please to:
Peter Thomas, THE BARB
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