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August 1976, THE BARB - 4
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DALE'S WORLD
DALE’S WORLD
Some , time back : I
asked readers to send me
their experiences with
masturbation - well it looks
like most of my readers do
not jack-off! 1 say this
because of the poor response
| received in answer to my
request. But 1 did receive
two interesting letters, wliich
I would like to share with you
this month.
V;■;t *, % A,/\
“In reference to
answer the question recently
posed in the BARB', who
;jerk$-off? I was reminded of
the sound „ that my
ejaculating semen used to
make as if hit the newspaper
that surrounded my penis,
spiatti /'
This was about 42 years
;;’ggn t 'y^en'|.Wa$;4Tyears : <ild>'
and had been masturbating
regularly sinCe 1 Was 15, The
use of a double spread
newspaper, with my erect
E enis projecting through a
ole 1 had made at the center
fold. Was the only way I colud
contain the squirting semen
from flying all over the place
when I reached an orgasm*
Between the age of 17
and 21 my semen spurts
went as far as 20 inches. In
slow motion movies I made of
myself, there were in actual
count, as many as 12 to 15
separate spurts of semen,
the second spurt was the
most voluminous and gave
me the greatest ecstasy.
I believe that solitary
masturbation caii be more
erotic and vastly more ec
static in the ultimate and
final orgasm which, in my
case, is a voluminous and
rapid squirting of semen.
Ibis still applies and 1 have
been jerking off for over 44
years now.
I had my first orgasm and
ejaculation by means of my
own hand manipulation.
This first tremendous
ifcr: Francis Dale |
orgasm came as a surprise
and the ejaculation shot all
over the bathroom floor,
toilet seat, my.hand, etc. 1
was sitting on the toilet seat
stroking my 7 l A“ erect penis
up and down witha firm and
steady rhythm when all of a
sudden l had this intensely
good feeling throughout my
stiff hard-on and the glans
was enormous and bursting.
The head was about three
times its normal site when
limp» This first Orgasm was
so overpowering and
pleasureable that I have been
jerking off ever since,
averaging between 600-700
ejaculations af year, plus the
fact that 1 have regular sex as
well.
1 use a number of dif
ferent erotic aids to give me
an erection and get me in the
mood; I find erotic books,
stag movies and still photos
of a great help to my own
imagination. I have found
your column and the per
sonal pages a great source
for these products. I
measure 7 1/4 “, and I
attribute this to plenty of
jerking off dll these years.
I have found many of my
bed partners enjoy jacking
off each other as a finish to
our love making and it is
quite thrilling to feel the
warm juices as we, come over
each other.
I am writing this in
defense of jerking off
because when I was 15 and
older I used to limit my
masturbation sessions to,
pnee a week based on the
mistaken ide that jerking-off
was not good for you. Look
at all those orgasms and
; good times 1 have missed!
Also I do believe that jerking-
Off has kept my penis, big. I
also am able to release, even
at my age; • between a
. teaspoonful \ • to ” !
tablespoonful of semen each
time.”
CURIOUS §
, “Most of who read
papers like the BARB like to
jerk off and like to read about,
now we goabout beating our
mefo. 1 nave made a detailed
study of the subject which l
would like to share with you
and your readers. ■ •"
I’d say the average fairly
straight * male has mabe
never actually seen more
than a couple bf other guys in
his life actually beating it,
and probably only when he
was 13 or 14 and probably
never* seen another guy
actually throw his lead in the
open where he could see it.
So 1 figure that they are most
likely more .curious about
how the compare, that is up
until the porno movies
started featuring outside
cum shots. Here are some of
the things I’ve noticed:
tike Speed, for instance,
if you slide your thumb up
over the ridge of the head on
each stroke, about one stroke
upward (or outward) a thumb
on top and two fingers un
derneath in a pure shaft
stroke (not going up over the
head). This way you ga as
fast as you can.
Then there is erection
angle. If your cock has a
high angle of erection (that
is, when you are standing up,
not sitting or lying down,
points up at the ceiling) then
the friction is different. (I
have seen one such erection,
but it’s owner wasn’t,
masturbating at the time -
my own swings left about ten
degrees and about an inch
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Alternative Therapy
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Coming in September
watch for further details
Shelby Cullom has been
involved in the Gay com
munity for some timet
Mattachine. N. Y.; Georgia
Gay Liberation Front,
Southeast Gay Coalition and
ihuch more. A recent
graduate of West Georgia
College, Mr;. Cullom : is
turning his considerable
talents toward an ongoing
alternative therapy center for
Atlanta.
Mr. Cullom will open the
Center in Mid August. The.,
center will be located at 203
Rmrtb Street in the same
building that houses the
‘ offices for the Atlanta Gay
Center, the Atlanta Gay Help
tfoe and foe Gay Pride
Alliance. §f|l ’
The BARB interviewed: _
Mr. Cullom asking him foe
explain? what Alternative
Therapy is and what plans he
has for the Atlanta Therapy
Center. &^
BARB:, More and more gay
people are taking control of
their workplace by going In
business for themselves, ’
What sort of services will you
be offering through the
Alternative ‘ Therapy Cen
ter.?
SHELBY: As a gay person 1
have a very special interest
in helping fellow gays in
their personal growth, yet
persons of a variety of sexual
persuasions will certainly be
welcome at the center and
have much to contribute. I
will be growing along with
everyone else; it is art
inevitable part of the therapy
process.
B: Since you trained at the
psychology department of
West Georgia College which
calls itself ’‘the nation’s first
exclusively humanistic
department”, drawing
students from 36 states and /
abroad, wouldn’t it be more
humanistic to use the word
“growth” rather than
“therapy” in your
namestyle?
S: I feel if my principle work
is psychotherapy, why hide
behind the term “growth
center”? Then, too, I feel
that at this point in our social
history, by being upfront
with my namestyle I will
reach more of the persons
who seem to be more
seriously disturbed who
might shy away from a
‘‘growth center”
designation. Also, too many
people might \ be drawn
whose principle interest is
more toward fun and games
rather than hard-core,
personal growth.
B: In your AD you speak of
“alternative therapy for
alternative lifestyles’’. Tell
our BARB readers what your
center is really about!
S: I’m offering ah alternative
to the sO-called ' medical
foibdel fold sickness theory
approaches so prevalent iii
traditional psychotherapy, I
will not knowlingly be a party '
to having anyone in
voluntarily incarcerated in an
institution for the insane.
Anyone who supports the
state in such barbaric un
dertakings and does not
openly oppose it should be
prepared to take his (her)
place in line should the state
demand of him (her) this
same, sacrifice at its best at
some future date.
B: Will you work with people
who are on prescribed drugs
such as tranquilizers and
antidepressants? ,
S: Only if they are strongly
committed to a short-term
goal of getting themselves
off of drugs and seem sin
cerely determined to take
charge of their own lives.
Thorazine as it is used in
many institutions (up to
4,000 mg. per day) is I think,
at least as damaging as
electroconvulsive shock and
time will probably tell us that
it is so destructive to both
mind and body that it will
LEATHER
join a host of other chemicals
no longer available on the
open market.. 1 want to see
us change pur direction
towards nutrition. Mega-
vitamin research is
' desparately needed. /
B: It’s kind bf refreshing to
.hear someone who is doing
therapy who doesn’t mind
taking a controversial public
stand on some issues that
traditional therapists only
discuss- among themselves in
private. If at all.
S: Yes", and so they close
ranks behind; the medical-
drug-FDA complex to
stonewall it against; the
public while furthering their
own often greedy often
selfish, and often publically-
destructive ends. Enough of
that! I’d rather talk about
what I can do. I believe
strongly in group therapy.
The resources of the group
offer so much more than a
one-to-one relationship
which represents too few
people working with too few
people.
B: What size group works
best?
S: 6 to 10 people, maybe 12.
If I have less and a couple
persons are absent for some
very valid reasons then you
are defeating the purpose; if
I have more than 12 it
becomes unwieldlay and
again is self-defeating.
B: Is nude therapy a viable
approach in the group
process?
S: When 1 feel, along with
others in the group, that the
group is ameanable to
working in the nude as a
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