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Friday, November 6, 2009 | The Red & Black
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Our Take
Majority opinions of The Red & Black’s editorial board
Senseless statue
Spending $60,000 on a statue is not
wise with the economy this had.
The Red & Black editorial board is thrilled to
learn that, in a time when professors are being
furloughed and students are delaying graduation
in hopes that the job market will bounce back,
steps are being taken to keep campus pretty.
In a little over a year, North Campus will be
graced with a statue of Abraham Baldwin
the first president of the University. Its $60,000
price tag will be paid by the Alumni Association
(it will not detract from the other donations
they make).
Loch Johnson the Regents Professor of
Political Science here at the University has
spearheaded the campaign because he knows
that furloughs are temporary, but a statue lasts
forever.
One University professor will no longer need
to worry about pay cuts and furloughs. Kinzey
Branham, a faculty member from the art
department, will receive $30,000 for sculpting
Baldwin.
Thursday’s editorial “Grant money woes”
talked about how a state grant of $836,470 to
the University can only be used in prescribed
ways. Both that federal money and this dona
tion from the Alumni Association are prime
examples of a reason the economy is in such
dismal shape: people handing out money to be
used in manners that are not needed.
One of Johnson’s main supporters in this
venture is Senior Vice President for External
Affairs Tom Landrum. He stated that the
money that is not used on the statue will be
put toward academic purposes. This seems
backwards to the editorial board.
Asa school, our primary goal should be edu
cation. The aesthetic of our campus needs to
be secondary.
Johnson and Landrum stress that this statue
of Baldwin will add to the history of campus
and connect present generations to the past.
We are worried that in addition to needless
spending, they’re ignoring the realities of today.
In a “bold” move, Baldwin will face away from
the depravity students can find in the 89 bars
downtown and toward an idyllic college campus
—a campus where students can find underage
drinking in the dorms, tons of tailgating trash
following home football games and years of sex
ual harassment still being addressed.
If Abraham Baldwin were here to see what
has become of the university he founded, we
wonder if he would agree that this statue takes
precedence over the myriad of other problems
facing the University today.
Maybe we’re wrong. Maybe Baldwin would
see the wisdom behind this venture and agree
that it’s as necessary as sustainable trees.
Megan Otto for the editorial hoard.
Mailbox
E-mail and letters from our readers
Blaming the players and downtown for a bad season is unfair and judgmental
I don’t know Mark McAfee.
He could be a real solid guy, so I
hope he doesn’t take too much
offense, when I say he is lame...
and wrong. I went to undergrad
here and I’m in law school here
now. Players on some off those
great teams from 02-05 partied
after wins and losses, as do play
ers off the teams since McAfee
has been here. So first of all,
there’s no difference. Secondly,
they are students too, and as
long as they’re not breaking the
law, they can blow off steam
however they like. Now if Coach
Richt instills a rule (and maybe
there’s one already there) say
ing they can’t go downtown
after a loss, or at all, or just a
flat curfew, I’m not saying that’d
be a bad rule. I see the point
of it. But to act like this is a)
something new to this program
or any other coUege program
(if you think for a minute that
players don’t party in Austin or
Tuscaloosa, win or lose, i’ve got
some swamp land to sell you)
and b) something that shows
how much they care, is just plain
wrong. Newsflash: people deal w/
disappoint differently. We don’t
need some Journalism major on
his high horse telling folks how
they should spend their time
after a loss, most especially kids
that work harder than any of us
did or do in undergrad. Get off
the players backs and quit act
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ing like you’re 70.
CHARLIE BAILEY
Grad Student, Harris County
Law
Zeal of a few results
in a bad name for all
In her 10-29-09 Kori Price
presented a interesting article
that challeneged her readers
to rethink how we come at this
social taboo. The article was
interesting and presented a
voice that is seldom or never
heard.
On 11-02-09 Dr. David Holt
responded to this article and
pointed out that there is such
a thing as pom addiction and
there is a harmful side to these
product. His opening paragraph
was insightful, until he declared
the industry evil (setting him
self up in a seat of Judgement.)
The second paragraph then
came across as the ranting us
Moderate Christians fight to dis
associate ourselves from. I was
first offened that Dr. Holt made
a judgement about Ms. Prince’s
personal life. Who is he to say
she would even want/have a boy
friend or husband, let alone how
she would respond to this per
sons interaction with pornogra
phy. The second problem I have
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Sex in the Classic City
Stringless relationships do not last long
What good comes from being
friends with benefits?
Sure, there’s no com
mitment, no strings attached
and fun times. But is that the
kind of relationship anyone really
desires?
I know people who have an
extremely difficult time being “just
friends” with the opposite sex ...
the friendship always turns out to
have sexual benefits.
A few weeks ago, a friend and I
started talking about these “rela
tionships.” She told me what she
thought about the topic, and I
found that I mostly agreed with
her.
Generally speaking, in the begin
ning of a benefit-induced relation
ship, everything is fine. There is
a mutual understanding of what
is expected, and the friendship is
completely physical.
I don’t feel that being complete
ly physical is .a good foundation
for any relationship, but typically
that’s what defines “friends with
benefits.”
There is little obligation to the
other party and everything is exhil
arating and new.
However, after a while, one indi
vidual begins developing a desire
for more commitment... or at least
a few boundaries.
My friend and I came to the con
clusion that, eventually, one person
decides they want more "strings” in
with Dr. Holt’s argument is his
use of the Bible to conclude his
argument. I am a Christian who
believes in a divine Jesus, but I
accept that others are not. That
means that the Bible does not
have the authority over others
that it does me. If we, Christians,
want to make an impact on
the world we have to strive to
understand and love all. We can
not try to use the Bible in argu
ments as an basis of authority,
because not everyone accepts
it as such. If we want them to
come to understand the Bible
as an authority we have to show
the love we are commanded to,
and when asked about it point
to the Bible. As the old hymn
says, "And they will know we are
Christians by our love.”
JONATHAN BROWN
Grad Student, Stone Mountain
Religion
Apology appreciated
but sincerity doubted
In response to Wednesday’s
Letter to the Editor from a UF
Alumna, I’m glad the Red &
Black was able to come up with
a title to summarize, as I had no
idea where Ms. Seay-Willis was
going with it. I’m not trying to
pick on something just because
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tiOURDANA
Passaro
the friendship.
They want a relationship.
They want to be exclusive.
In more traditional relationships,
there’s an expected level of exclu
sivity and trust.
Friends with benefits are basi
cally open relationships in which
each companion can have other
partners and be unfaithful without
the guilt.
Consequently, each partner is
susceptible to sexually-transmitted
infections and jealousy.
Although this carefree style of
dating or just sleeping together
may seem the perfect way to
“have your cake and eat it too,”
feelings inevitably get hurt.
If one individual wants to be
exclusive and the other doesn’t,
nothing can be done to keep that
person from seeing other people.
They are “allowed” to see other
partners, and jealousy usually
overwhelms the one who wants an
exclusive relationship.
The only thing that comes from
being friends with benefits, other
than potential STIs, is complete
confusion. Once the benefits begin
to fade because of altered feelings,
it was written by a Gator; I truly
appreciate Greg Wall’s apology
on behalf of UF in his letter,
but even if the R&B still edited
letters for clarity, I’m not sure
they would have been able to
do much with this one. Indeed,
I would have appreciated the
sentiments of a rival fan try
ing to unite two schools under
a sense of conference solidar
ity, but I’m not sure this point
was ever made, except maybe
in the last paragraph. Rather,
I think it was a letter used to
brag about having once sup
ported UGA baseball financially
and having met Vince Dooley,
among a “rambling, incoherent”
mess of randomly capitalized
and quoted words and phrases.
Perhaps Greg Wall would like
to now apologize for this letter
and, once again, ask the “UGA
Bulldogs... not to judge the rest
of us from this assault.”
JARED SMITH
Senior, Woodstock
Art History
Marriage is still a
sacred tradition
Since when has marriage
become all about “joint taxes”
or “sharing the health benefits”?
Should the fact that a hetero-
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the friendship begins to fade as
well.
It is difficult to be “just
friends” after such an intimate
relationship. My friend and
I agreed that it would be an
extremely awkward situation,
especially if you picked your
“friend” up in class and are forced
to see them weekly.
Being “just friends” is a step
back from the sexual struc
ture both parties had originally
designed. Even if friendship is all
both people desire, jealousy may
still arise when one individual sees
the previous partner with anew
love interest.
The most troubling aspects of
these limited-commitment bonds
are the complete and unpredict
able feelings your “friend” might be
developing.
There isn’t a concrete way to
anticipate the possible detour to
exclusiveness, and this usually com
plicates the entire carefree situa
tion originally constructed.
Friends with benefits may be
acceptable for some people, but it’s
not for most. One person eventually
wants the typical relationship that
revolves around monogamy and
relational security.
Jourdana Passaro is a junior
from St. Marys, Ga., majoring in
risk management and insurance
and magazines.
sexual couple can save “$469,000
in their lifetime,” compared to a
same-sex couple, be the reason
we get married? When did mar
riage, a lifetime commitment of
“love, honor, and cherish...’til
death us do part,” shift to just a
way of saving money and-making
important medical decisions?
Marriage is not a “traditional
trap.” The desire for that inti
mate relationship is what “draws
eyes to those magazines.”
Marriage is a gift given by God!
It is a oneness that is just a
small glimpse of the relationship
which God longs to have with
each one of us. It is love, com
mitment, and intimate compan
ionship that should drive us to
pursue marriage, not money or
any other worldly issues.
CATHERINE HOLT
Freshman, Bishop
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