Mirror of the times. (Augusta [Ga.]) 1808-1814, October 31, 1808, Image 4

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] ' hr so u w ing lines arcevitar u<! T r n. .rod and rr i rh nt £ hHd t duirc ol pf.rtr V ; I they arc (t> vcr\ tenaikh 1 sot that elegant fiti’p icttv vhicb characttiiles the tvorf of- moduli batd, end at t]i fatin’ tttnc so free from tl;c >n delicate levity which fotrir. times llain* hi? pages, that vvi havgibot.ght .bcn» worthy ol a place in ours. e auihots H; me is tirkndwr J to us : we took feme pains tt difcovtrtt but without fur ceffc, If city of our friends vl.tffc reading is more exteo five, are better informed ton the fuhjcet, they 'will oblige us by. communicating such particulars as l ave come to tt err hnov'cdge. We highly dilapprove the cuflotn so pieva'eW .in this count) y of publiiiiing extrafis from va nous worlß without naming the persons by whom, they were wimen : when an author is known tt becomes a piece of juflicc in all who xpixjir his perfoimance to add bis name. 'I he ncgieU ol this rule lobs merit of its praise by con founding together its literary ; offspring j THE rICTURE. Fdeitd nfmy Youth, these l.inn receive : Anf*, i re inv you r prove, Let my true tfiud -Mteinpi it. niv« A I’iiilurc of the Maid I love. But, ifiink not rtty Verse to view f uth H Verse ti o oft lnfl<w«; A Neck. It.at nu.ck tl r l.iiy i Hue ; Or Checks, that Hume the Binh.tr Kofe Thouel I'e every Charm of Y.lllh, Oi< winch riel.jilted l ove c,.jl dwell ; Fair though flic It—ill honed I mih Much fiiacr than my 1 can lcll— Yet tlii* 1 pas» in Site r\ee hy ; . . For many are her HivmU there ; And Kitty I)..- d a* biintit an Eye ; And Face is lull as tar. Then ihink not merr < itcriur Font My Heart'* fond Wtfh could ever win ; To me rKf'rJf n is 'he Charm, Fuic Her..id of a Mind wttliin. Fnch Mr Vrment nf Amlra’* Fr. rrte , Calls into Li'e f«>me in w-tx rn Oraee ; While her eye's hrigt.i, set temperate,Beam Proclaims the Heart’* internal l'eacc. To r*int her urenmpl'd W*'r»h, What Colour* eat* the p- et find ? Wl.at heavenly 'lnn. to Hindu* I rth '] he br.ght pificklimi ol her Mind f The Soul in Innocence feeioe, Meet li.matc of To her a Fr me ? The Manner*, v«M» all, and pure, A* the ruck d Infant'? go.deu Dream ? The4iro*v,where Srnfrwith fweetnef, filin' »' Ti c 1 cvk. which w ~kis yet clu . k,, ilelir.- Wlo.re Dignitv will. F're lorn join* *, Where Grace, aud lovclitut* coufpire 1— Weak tho’the Tint*, ui lk li’d the Hand, That rude'V fketeh’d th i»p»r'»dt Han; Ms'it you «*<«. Feature*, a* tl ry (land Aud, then, condemn rrr, it you can. to a Young ' aoy, tt'iib lit Fof'geirg Ask rot, Tweet Jnn.'cerice, what Grace > »t# for th< Figure which I drew.— Bach fkiltul Hve around c ti trace Tfe blight O.ig ai tu You. \ “Tl e brotv.wher* (Vnfc. A fwe*tnefj fliiee ; *> n.e lo 'k.that wakes vet ch> rks >'<li e,” The Cum ; the b a ur**; *ll *. *l i» e , - Mit yt>ur own linage you admire. Uiiewnfei u* of her C arms, thtt’ r *t 1 .eatiM o’ti the Margin of the Flood; Brheld » Wonder in the W *vr ; I Aud piiif'd th* Beauty die bedow’d. FT 1 IT ' PH C‘i> a men yrl'» Ij j a '*►! yvlite .X/#*!/ 1 , fl, rr lies a VUn, v fo Heaven me faVe) Wh'ef* Month w * wide * * h's Or*v« : K dcr t*esd lightly on iMi s<><! j ior, if hi o.sn *, y« u're gone, by— rrrr.AM. Two tl in, Cad’d B<'Kr and hutv, i Won’d fl r\e the Town, or near it ; Put, K c ii known To -KIN. and HOVE, PTL’at Fl*jh and Fool won’t pear if. j 'I HE 11 MNBOW, Nu. 1. YHF IKTRrmjCTi'UY KSRAY, Ou the utilitu ot Miscellaneous . A.< v. ts». [ Cone, lided"\ r. S. 5 he writeis of the es*.iv r . | thn first ( f which IS JU M- I•< srhtti ♦r ihr- p-.bi c, wi!lnm p»t b»bl> a; j i ?i .fipt to iiivu»iig-te all or ever j sbv trn«"rl^ibHo mr.her of rhe tcp'c*, wh’fh i avf Iter ju*t • surf. i lie vtiitr ts the prr i c!ir-g e?r f»\ I rAvet er, inti Igrs i hope frt m the number ts his i erarv a*sr tixltit. the rorrespen ■ ri* tlivrrfitv t.f mibjcctl svnich will itEtttral'v divide their attin. on. ?n<l yhe rbundant leisure t» hicb ilie Intervals of roiaticm will -florti, without stn it ’uiiotis or in. convenient interference with their rrofesaional duties, that their es • at* will aFord *ome degree «'T pit asore atttl improvement to tve v drrrtiption of reader*. He indulges a hope that ihe ti ib pre fixed ru the r**ays, wifi be fot.nd neither an unmeaning ein- Idem, nor « faithless indication of i ■ I eir diameter Gc tendency. Not I ‘hat ihr tno«t attractive ornament »<l a Venial • ky, the beauteous off ‘prinxol the glittering dewdrerp :rid ti e solar ray, the welcome harbinger of. fruitful ahonrej-s and e» t .beiant vegetation, is chosen to nllegorse ard announce thuir high hopes of the literary attrac tions, or moral utility of their es *«)». 'I he title of the Kainhow "asstl-cird on account of its no velty and for the purpose or dis crimination. It is intended to con vey no other etnbh matic refer ence to the tssays it discriminates nd adorn*, than as its varied hit'*s •*ittl transient duration, may serve vo indicate the diversity of amu sing topics which they will em btacc, and the fugitive form they w ill assume. P« rhaps in another point of vit vv, the Hainbow may ■erv e »o denote, vH’idts and justly, thi intention of the writers ofthete .nd the general tendency of, mor» .*1 and nm.tdlaneous es-av*. V\ e arr taught the ttaditinbs ~f our faihet* it. believe, that this j lovelv phetw mt non, first matle its ' ppeamhee in the skv, 'o an nounce the cessatittn of a deluge. •*nd the returning mi rcie* of an nlFehded God* 'I hr bow suspen. ded in the CSltstial arr.h unstt nng n sign of peace, presents to the Christum a mild memento of the driver displeasure and a delight ful token of the future benignity of his God, affords a beautiful ,ul)j ( ct of allusion to the poet, Sc analysis to the philosopher; ravi hes with its beauty evrn “ (he brute unconscious ga7.e, ’ and is rnilttl In the pt acelul husbantlman «s the pleasing pledge of vernal luxuriance and antumntd plenty. {« not the liainbt w, theitlore. iiMppilv fifed to indicate the at r it lions anil utility of a species > f '•mposition, which has an anah'- ;ous influence in moral nature, hit Ii d.v itl»'s t lit* “ ray s t.f s> teitce” .to ad their native* and beaut ful • Ictus ; captivate*, bv its uoveitv .nd Variety tlw attention of every iescrlptton ol rcadt rs, and slioweis pti hue bounties on minds ol verv ttiivviision and tn at' situa. tons? Mat not the /tambvW afford ui aj propriate and uuspinuus title o a des’.i i, w hose object it ir lo i\rrt some portion ot public cu to.vity to enquiries in winch all arttes andtiasses arc equally* in* 1 rested, beemue in these the dt - • t uon til error ittul the descovery <1 it utli ate ttj’ially defcired by nd ? MJM EE If 11. Cn the Condition qf Women* TT ht* h<“en said th.st the tivili • •oion ts i* cOuntrv mitv he fatrlv ‘timsted hv »he degree of res « > ct which is paid to its women. ’ he sentiment i* not more gallant Srrn it is just. Its truth has been b mon*t r uted bv Mtssieurs Abx i tier, Thomas, lltissell, and vrt other writer* ; who, ior this , ,i|j pose, have rrsoited, rot to any lisfactetl enquiries into the cha uffers of the rer appeal to the experience of >tinns. Th y have shewn, by a tirious atnl most interesting tn rsdgadon. that from the fiertght d nnd stusual savage of New -1 Valand, or of Nooika Sound, t’t'Ugh every gradation, up to the rbshed gentleman of Europe or \meiica, the deference and ven noion fnr the female part ot the | ocitty is exac 1* in proportion to e detrffe of which >ch nation has attained. In ana oo l p. at cf view, Virginia need <u to shiink from thi* test of hci. * finemrnt. In eveiy social circle | u which the sexes are blended, j i ure may observe a turner»tv wp” j M n trndevnf** of atVntirtn to thf fiir, which w *uld r.at '• Vnipht ?n the proudest days i f chi valry. But. the ipnral’nt, who lini ar the culture of the virtues, will direct hi* attention not so much to the m inners ol the draw. ; ing-toom, as to those which may he chart red instill more private life. He will look through the ce- j r- monies which men may act from* deference to their company, and , bv which indeed* they recognize and bow obedience to the send- I ment above expressed ; he will 'oolc through these blinds ol state, 1 into the liosoui of the private fam- , ily* and watch the manners df the j husband and the father when eve |rv restraint is removed. It will be by .the discoveries which he lhrill make here, that he will direct hs admonitions; and on this ground, I lear the moralist, not ot Virginia only, hut of all those states wh’th boast of their refine ment, will find tod much rOum lor censure and admonition. What is true of nations; in this case, it., I presunit, is equally true ol individuals ; or in other words the civilization of the nv.ih, like that of the nation, may be fairly estimated by the degree of respect which he pays to the fair; When I speak ol civiliz-uion, I do not mean science ; since we have some times seen a very highly il luminated mind, connected with the cold, a malignant, or a faro cious heart; but by civilization I mean, that change which is wroug.it upon the sav.sge man by the humanizing, softening, re fin ing power of vocul virtue. Nei thei by rtsptct to the fair do 1 mean the bows and grimace oi J a /'CUt maitre , which a monkey I might learn ; nor the sti4l more imposing exterior ol eleganee and sensibility which a Z«hico could .t«s.ime ; bin, by, respect to the fair y 1 mean a genuine and tender deference, which has not merely glanc'd upon the surface, but pen cil ated arid pervaded every por tion of the heart ; [ mean not an occasional shew, but a sincere, a perennial an habitual respect and affection, which render* a man involuntarily assiduous ;o the wants and sympathetic with the minutest sufferings of the softer and gentler sex. With these ex planations, I resume my position, and l beg mv male reader to as. sure himselfthut v?hatever fi.g ire he may make in other respects ; however brilliantly he may shine as a man of erudi ion, gcniils, wit, tor humour, lie is, nevertheless, civliz.d or not In proportion as he has learned to rc-pect ihe fair ; and more particularly that portion ul them whose pt Otection he may have assumed. It is a mournful truth that the j life of the finest girl among us, is too often a series of suffering St of sorrow. iuo many of t"h« m pass on to death, without having once found the “ sunny slope ” ol tran quillity, on which they could re pose and tleclarc themselves, for * moment, at Their suffer ings begin often with tile. The restraint ol iheir childhood even when they are salutary, are sour ct t ol u ouble ; because their mo tive is not yet preceived bv the young and inexperienced m nd. But not unatqutndy the restraints ol childhood instead d being prompted by parental wisdom and tenderness, aie the momentary dictates ol headlong passion and brutal cruthy. I his tyranny com menced in their ».hildhood, is ex tended even to then maturer years, and it becomes the more severe as it is thi n iuflicted ou a mind capa ble of estimating its wrongs, and often exerted on those sensibilities of the heart which can least brook the curb ami lash- ot authority. Marriage ilscll is, too tAquendy, I'ttie more than a change of ty tants ; :ukl the idol .of the sighing and adoring lover dwindle-, down into the neglected, oppressed, in. suited drudge of an unprincipled and pi oil gate husband. It the poor, hn.e.y mourner, gives birth o sons; she looks on \.tth re morse to the lime when they, in their turn, armed with the author ity ot a husband, snail “ play such laniaatic tricks brfuie high Ilea. I ven, as will nn'.e even angels I weep.” it she gives D'uip to. j daughter* —it wm-.H not he n sub ject of great wnrcTr, it bke th f miserable mo*her* ors the ban*; o* the Orooftoko, she- should alay ;h"m out of compassion, an< smother them in the .tour of their birth.-— n IW many women have here-th-i-historv sketched! Look clotrdy into the domestic move ments of our people, and you w li | find that this soaibre picture has j too many org’mals. I an'. not ac * i cusing parent! or husbands with ' the practice of savage violence on j their cl mghters or ther wives: to a generous woman there are J many wrong* infinitely more ■ bmnd'Ating & agonizing th in the infliction of actus! violence. I he destiny of poor ilnritl dif fered in some (respects Irom the preceding &kc;<h. Maria Was among the forest and sweetest girll that tha ever known. If the love of the fondest and beast of parents —U the most enchanting grace h beiuty—it ihe pure spirit St dispositions oF a seraph could have saved her from misery, Ma rin had been kaved. My heart bleeds at the recollection of her. lint let me try to command my self while I tell this tale of joy turned into sorrow ; of the fairest hopes reversed and blasted—of tile brightest lustre and beauty extinguished forever, i '? Her parents were noti ich ; hut thev were jjktod. Alth>nph they had lived nfuch in the wrfrfii, they retained a »in*jdicity of character which ivndw rarely encountered except in the description of poet?.. Their bcinvolerit breaSts were fraught with a tenderness of feel ing whose uxury i* known bnlv to the prpr and humble. r l he rich and tlie piosperous know it only bv name, i heir simplicity, their bemvolence, their sensibil ity were concentered in the bosom ot the young Maria—They gave an emphaii* to her opening beauty —suffuse! her cheek with a richei hue—Undrode, in triumph, on the f»ea:ns ot her eves, through the heart of every beholder.—l re member Haria at her first appear ance in tie ball room. She was then abojt fourteen years of age. I he enquiry ran “ what rose bud ol Oeauty is this?” 'The epi th- t was applied with peculiar pto pricty : it depicted in one word, fiei youth, her beauty, her inno cence aoi sweetness. She dan ced ; wlcn, light and etherial as a sylph* she surpassed whatever ivc have tend ol the wild, the striking, the captivating graces dL played by the rural beauties on the tiow:ry side of iLtna. It was easy to read tu the countenance of this §ay and artless young crea tine the exulting expectation with which sac was entering on life. Her childhood had passed away amid the blandishments and ca resses of her tond parents ; all had bettl ease, indulgence, & gra tification ; admired, applauded and beloved by every bod) who law or knew her, every da), every iour, every minute hao been filled with animation, joy and uptuie. As yet Ihe had frolictcd only on 44 life’s velvet lawn,,covered with a canop\ of blooming amaranth ; & her yount fancy was teeming with vibon,of bufs/in bright, bound Ids p:ofpetF. Alas i poor Ma ria ! soon was this feienc and joyous morning to be over call c A lover pielented him. fclf. Like Maria, he was in the boom of youth, and had ever] advantaged person and , addr.'fs ; but his breast was not like Maria’s, the residence oi j piwi and exahed virtue. Hei lovei her indeed ; or rather, he wasmfatuated by her beauty; blithe was incapable of form inga correft estimate of the trea ltrrt w hich was lodged in her bobm ; of that heart whose i putity, fidelity, generosity and lenfibility, an angel might have I av>wed without a biufh. The d»pe. however, of fervent and pnbetic profellion.s, Hie accept e< this man; and Maria, who was formed to crown the hap pnefs of a fenkble and vir ttous mau» became the mil erahle wife of a w,-ak and vici ous one, M*rciftil God ! Must I remember th« coniratt which f so often witnef'fcj in af;,nn ! PoorMaiia! Her velvet sewn was exchanged for a Wi?(|erne>s of briars and brambles; |e amaranthine canopy, for keen and cu tting blasts of a wit / ter’s skv. 1 have leen *7 in the thronged affen.blvr c. 1 when every eye was fixed uyun with delight, and followed her in fpe cchiefs admiration thro’ the mar.es of the graceful dance; and I have seen the fame Man* far removed from the woild’s focieiy, and even yet in the bloom of youth, all lonely ard drooping like a wounded flow, er. I haVe seen the lovely gir), prtTiding, like e bright, propi. tious planet, at her lathef's hof* pitahle hoaid ; and I have Icen her the folitai y & menial drudge of her own gloomy and for (a. ken houfho'd. I have beheld her the animating foul of the polished cncle, dispensing light and life by her Imiles—and my own Toni has ftirik v thin me,' to lee her insulated from the world, and pieiccd and langlifh ing. She has fech the time when every tianfitoty dejc&ion of countenance had been watch ed by him, its cause sedulously explored, ar.d confolaticn ad min dieted with a tendemefif which could not fail of its ef fctl. Hut new, without a fin-, gle enquiry, wi hout ore touch of pify, he could fee her face pale with for row, and her once 1 ladient eyes dim with weeping.; At fiich a moment, inflead off bending before her as he hadi once done, and puffing herT hand to his fympaihetic heartJj he could cad on her a lock so cold and chilling as to freeze the vital dream of life even in its fountain, flirg out of hie houfc with contempt Sc dilguft, and lavish on the vicious and| impure, ihofe affeHionaie at-V temions which he had fokmnlp vowed to her alone. He might have been happy ; and he might have realised to his beauteous wife all those dreams of conyi gal innocence and b'ifs with which her youthful fancy war; wont to regale her. Hut in* dead of those pure and calm : joys, whole recolle£iion it might, have gilded even the moment < of death, he chose riot, debau chcry and guilt; to bis own, virtuous and celestial bed, preferred habitual impurity and proditution ; and indead of the ; perpetual Ipring fhe hadh fondly anticipated, poor MarU.J experienced only perpetual win-1 ter. The blad was too keen' for her tender frame. She irj gone; and, wish her sider an gels, she has found that peace; which her unfeeling husband. refulcd to Her on earth. Her death dunned him into his fen- , fes. In vain he endeavored to , recall her fleeting breath ; in; j vain he promised and vowed if she could be redored id him, id.. atone for his pad neglect by fir- J ture tenderness. 1 o him thfc t refutation of amendment came Itoo late; may it come in to a portion of my readers. | ANECDOTE. A traveller, relating some of his adventures, told the com pany, that he and his fervar-t made fifty wild arabtans run? % a * | which ftanhng them, he obfervv » ed, that there Was no liich great ! matter in it; for, fays he, we ian, and they ran after us. TO RENT. A STORE in the central part of i Broad-»treet—Enquire oi tv.e : | Printers.* October 17.