A Friend of the family. (Savannah, Ga.) 1849-1???, April 12, 1849, Image 4
THRILLING VERSES.
The circumstances which induced the writtmg of the fol
lowing touching and thrilling lines are ns follows : A young
ladv of New York was in the liahit ot writtmg for the Phila
delphin Ledger, on the subject of Temperance. Her writing
was so full of pathos, and evinced such deep emotion of soul,
that a friend of her - s accused her of being a maniac on the
subject of Temperance —whereupon she wrote the following
lines:
Go (eel what I have felt,
Go bear what I have borne—
Sink ’neath the blow a father dealt,
And the proud world’s cold scorn ;
Then suiter on from year to year—
Thy sole relief the scorching tear.
Go kneel as I have knelt,
Impiore beseech and pray—
Strive Ae besotted heart to melt,
The downward course to stay,
Be dashed with bitter curse aside,
Your prayers burlesqued, your tears defied.
Go weep as I have wept,
O’er a loved father’s tall—
See everj’ promised treausre swept
Youth’s sweetness turned to gall—
Life’s fading flowers strewed all the way—
That brought me up to woman s day.
Go see what I have seen,
Behold the strong man bowed—
With gnashing teeth—lips bathed in blood—
And cold and livid brow;
Go catch his withered glance and see
Tiiore mirror’d his soul's misery.
Go to thy mother’s side,
And her crush'd bosom cheer ;
Thine own deep anguish hide ;
Wipe from her cheek the bitter tear ;
Mark her worn frame and wither’d brow—
The gray that streaks her dark hayr now—
With fading frame and trembling limb ;
And trace the ruin back to him,
Whose plighted faith in early youth,
Promised eternal love and truth,
But who, foresworn, had yielded up
That promise to the cursed cup,
And led her down, through love and light.
And all that made her prospects bright;
Aud chain’d her there, ’mid want and strife—.
That lowly thing a drunkard’s wife —
Aud stamped on childhood’s brow so mild,
That withering blight, the druukard’s child !
Go hear, and feel, and see and know,
All that my soul hath felt and known.
Then look upon the wine cup’s glow.
See if can atone —
Think if its favor you will try,
When all proclaim “ ’tis drink and die!”
Tell me I hate the bowl—
Hate is a feeble word,
I loathe— abhor— my very soul
With strong disgust is stirfd ,
When I see, or hear, or tell
Os that dark beverage of hell!
m i b is iiiiifi
THE BUNCH OF VIOLETS;
OR LOVE OF USEFULNESS.
One Saturday afternoon, little Anna skipped
over the fields, with her straw bonnet hanging by
its strings behind her, and her hair blowing about
in the warm air.
She had no playmates, for her brother had
been sent away on an errand, and her sisters were
grown up young ladies, but little Anna was not
alone, for the good spirits, who are always with
children, unless they drive them away, were with
Anna, and made everything pleasant to her.
“ Sweet green grass,” said she as she jumped
over the meadow, “ How bright you look and
how soft you are to feet—soft as my grand
mother’s turkey carpet, and much prettier to look
at.
“Ah ! you pretty little tree, how prim and
straight you grow, and how you try to hold out
your arms, and wave your head, like the great
trees ; but Ido not mean to laugh at you for that,”
added she, holding up her head and looking grave,
“ for little folks like you and me ought to follow
the example of those who are older and wiser
than we.”
Anna went on a few steps in silence, and then
she broke forth again :
“ Dear little brook, I hear your sweet singing
voice, before I come near enough to see you, but
I shall soon be there, on your green bank, and
then I shall see the large stones, which my brother
Henry put into the water, that I might step across
without wetting my feet.
“ I see them now. How clean and white the
water washed them, when the brook was so full
last month.”
As little Anna was stepping over the stones,
she saw a violet on the side of the bank, hanging
over the water.
“ Oh, you pretty, sweet blue violet,” said she,
“ how sky-blue you look and how beautifully you
hang your head over the brook. I must have you
to put in my bosom.”
Anna stooped over the bank, and tried to reach
the violet. She could just touch it with her th umb
and finger. She broke the stem, but could not
hold it, and it fell into the brook.
Poor little Anna stood watching w hile it floated
down the stream. When it was out of sight she
sighed and said,
“Well, it was not best I should have it, or it
would not have fallen into the w’ater. I suppose
I lost it because I was selfish, and only wished to
have it for myself. It is wrong to spend all my
time amusing myself. I ought to be of use to
others, but what can such a little girl as I am
dolor others? lam not old enough nor strong
enough to be of use.
“ But stop —that is the story of a wicked spirit
—even a little child can be ot use, if she tries.
Amv Heath would be very glad of some \iolets
Ido not doubt. She loves them dearly, but she
cannot come out to pick them, since she spraine
her ancle running with me. She loves every
thing in the fields, as 1 do. Poor girl! how tire
some it must be to sit still all the time. Now, it 1
could find her a bunch of violets how pleased she
would be. I think that would be a use. To be
sure, it is a small one, but I am a small girl, and
if Ido small uses now, I hope I shall be able to
do more when I am larger.”
Little Anna went along the edge of the brook,
with her head bent down, looking carefully among
lhe grass, hut she did not find any violets, till at
length she came to a little hollow of the bank,
which was sheltered from the cold winds; Theie
she found a beautiful cluster of violets blue as
the sky.
“ O how pretty they are ? ” said Anna, full
of delight, “so large, and fair and blue. Now i
do believe the good spirits showed me the way to
this sweet little nest of beauties. It is a pity 10
break their stems and take them away from a
place where they seem to enjoy themselves so
well, but poor Amy cannot come here to look at
them, so 1 think it will not be wrong to carry them
to her.”
Anna picked all the violets and made them in
to a neat bunch.
“Down there, close by the water,” said Anna,
“lean see some long leaves of grass. I will get
them and put them with the violets, for Amy
wonid like to have some green with them.”
She broke the grass ofi close to the roots, and
put it in the centre of the violets, so that it hung
over like a bunch of plumes. It was a very
pretty nosegay. Anna smiled as she turned it
round and round to look at it. After she had ad
mired it a little while, she ran with it to her play
mate.
Amy Heath loved to ramble in the fields very
much, and was very fond of flowers, but she had
sprained her ankle, by stepping into a hole, as
she was running over the fields one day with Anna.
She. was sitting at an open window, with her
lame foot on a cricket, looking sadly out into the
garden. The flowers smelt sweetly, and the
birds sung, and the grass looked green all around,
as far as she could see, and she longed to go out
and enjoy them all, but she could not walk alone.
“ I wish I had a bunch of wild-flowers,said
she to herself. “ I suppose violets are plenty by
this time —how Ishouidlike to see some of them,.
they would bring the brook and meadow to me,
though I cannot go to them.”
Amy had no brothers and sisters, and her
mother was very busy, doing the work of the
house alone. Amy knew she could not leave it to
go out and pick flowers for her, so she sat very
quiet, and tried to be as cheerful as she could.—
She knew her dear mother did everything she
could for her comfort, and she did not wish to
make her any trouble she could avoid, nor let her
know she wished for anything she could not have ;
so she sat still, but her little head was full of flow
ers, and birds, and green grass, and walks in the
fields. She was so busy with her thoughts that
she did not see Anna, when she came toward the
house, across the meadow, until she called out,
“ Amy ! Amy ! ” and held up the bunch of vio
lets. In a few minutes she ran in and laid them
on Amy’s lap.
Amy thanked her over and over again, and
said,
“ You could not have brought me a present I
should have been so much pleased with. I was
just wishing to see a violet.”
“O lam so glad ! ” said Anna. “ Then this
was a use. And dear Amy should you like to have
me stay with you this afternoon, and play babies,
or checkers, or something else to amuse you? —
My mother said I might stay out till sunset.”
“O, Anna, you are too kind,” said Amy, “It
would be very hard that you should stay in the
house with me, this pleasant afternoon, when you
have had leave to stay out till sunset. How
charming it is to run in the fields.”
“It will not be hard at all to me,” said iVnna,
as she took up the checker-board from under the
table, and began to set the men. “If I can be
of any use to you, I shall be a great deal happier
than I should running about with myself,
SENSATIONS IN A TRANCE.
The sensations of a seemingly dead person,
while confined in the coffin, are mentioned in the
following case of trance:
“A young lady, an attendant on the Princess
a great length of time with a violent nervous dis
order, w T as at last, to all appearances, deprived
of life. Her lips were quite pale, her face re
sembled the countenance of a dead person, and
the body grew cold. She was removed from the
room in which she died, w r as laid in a coffin, and
the day of her funeral fixed on. The day arrived,
and, according to the custom of the country, fu
neral songs and hymns w r ere sung before the door.
Just as the people were about to nail down the
lid of the coffin, a kind of perspiration was ob
served to appear on the surface of her body. It
grew T greater every moment, and at last a kind of
convulsive motion was observed in the hands and
feet of the corpse. A few minutes after, during
which time fresh signs of returning life appeared,
she appeared, she at once opened her eyes, and
uttered a most pitiable shriek. Physicians were
quickly procured, and in the course of a lew days
she was considerably restored, and is probably
alive at this day. The description which she
gave of her situation is extremely remarkable,
and forms a curious and authentic addition to
psychology. She said it seemed to her that she
was really dead; yet she was perfectly conscious
of all that happened around her in this dreadful
state. She distinctly heard her friends speaking
and lamenting her death at the side of her coffin.
She felt them pull on the dead clothes and lay
her in them. This feeling produced a mental
anxiety which is indescribable. She tried to cry,
but her soul was without power, and could not
act in her body. She had the contradictory feel
ing as if she were in the body, and yet not in it,
at°one and the same time. It was equally im
possible for her to stretchout her arms or to open
her eyes, or to cry, although she continually en
deavored to do so. The internal anguish of her
mind was, however, at its utmost height when
the funeral hymns were begun to be sung, and
when the lid of the coffin was about to be nailed
down. The thought that she was to be buried
alive was the one that gave activity to her mind,
and caused it to operate on her corporal frame.”
Binns on Sleep,
A “ SAW ” UPON A TUTOR.
A certain tutor being very desirous of raising
himself in the estimation of the Faculty, conclu
ded that the only way he could do this, was to be
very active in ferreting out the authors of all
pranks cut up on the premises. He had not the
ability to do this himself, and so he selected some
of the students, to whom he privately and confi
dentially taught their duty in case they knew of
any mischief going on. He would not have them
become “Faculty dogs,” and tell the Profs., but
as he could scarcely be called one of the Faculty,
they could tell him, and thus escape the odium of
being 44 Faculty dogs !” It they would do this, it
would tend to advance the interests of the col
lege, and he would take care that it should be the
means of their “ finding favor in the eyes ” of the
Faculty. His logic, however, was of no avail,
save, to the surprize of all, with one very young
fellow, himself “one of the boys,” and who had
been credited with the getting off of some cute
pieces of waggery. He, unlike the “ ancient
Zachary,” apparently surrcnded to the Tutor’s
logic andpporersw r ers of persuasion.
About this time a horse showed so great a desire
for intellectual improvement, as to take up quar
ters in the college yard, and so intent was he on
obtaining some of the crumbs of knowledge
which had been lost in the yard, that he continued
there “ with no shelter from the heat of day or
cold of night but the broad canopy of heaven ! ”
The students with their characteristic benevolence
had several times given up to him a recitation
room for a stable ; but like the productions of
genius,again their benevolence w'as unappreciated
by the Faculty, and even held as a crime, and
“ the authors of it demanded for punishment ”
and although the students, as a mark of honor to
the Tutor, had given his recitation room the pref
erence several times, as a sheltering place for the
poor quadruped, yet he was especially minded to
punish “ the rogues.”
One morning when it became the turn of his
portege’s division to recite, the latter privately
requested the class, as a special favor to him, to
leave instantly as soon as they were excused. As
soon as the recitation commenced, he was obser
ved to be gazing intently out of the window. In
a moment he started up, rushed up to the Tutor
and whispered in his ear, “ The Sophs are put
ting a horse into their recitation room !” This
was the Tutor’s “consummation devoutly to be
wished”—this was turning the tide in his affairs.
Visions of a professorship danced before his eyes !
Hastily he exclaimed to the one reciting, “ Stop
there, sir, if you please. I’ll give out your next
lesson at eleven o’clock. You are excused, gentle
men.” (How wonderfully condescending visions
of greater greatness make the already great!) The
class bolted instantcr out of sight if not out of
hearing, happy at. their deliverance. The Tutor
hurried towards the Sophs’ room as fast as his
now rapidly increasing dignity would permit.—
He had gone but about half the distance, when
the informer ran up to him and said, “ Oh ! Mr,
were putting in there! “ Sawed!” hissed the Tutor,
as a wicked Soph, who understood the whole,
struck up and sung—
“ ’Tis ever thus, since childhood’s hour
I’ve seen my fondest hopes decay.”
The Tutor was not seen again for that day, and
the next morning the President announced of
ficially that “the Tutor was ill—health had
obliged him to leave !” Our wag whispered, “ I
wonder if the doctors ever saw such a disease !”
“ Father! Father! have you got a quarter about
you? The great zoological avery and circuit is
coming here to-day. They’ve got some new
things, father; a great boy constructor, and an
African lion just from Asia, with forty stripes on
his back and, nary one alike; all the monkeys on
a keen jump ; children under ten years half-price.
May’nt I go, father?” “Why sartin!”
“Do you understand me now?” thundered out
one of our country pedagogues, to an urchin at
whose head he threw an inkstand. “I have got
an ?7i&-ling of what you mean, replied the boy.”
EXTRACT.
“ Friends are lost to us by removal-dor
even the dearest are utterly forgotten. But l et
something that once w r as theirs suddenly
our eyes, and in a moment, returning from tb
rising or the setting sun, the friend ol our yo ut
seems at our side, unchanged his voice and hij
smile; or dearer to our eyes than ever, because
of some effecting change wrought on face and
figure by climate and by years. Let it be but hi
name written wfith his own hand on the title-p a g*
of a book ; or a few’ syllables on the margin of a
favorite passage which long ago we may hav e
read together, “when life itself w r as new,”
poetry overflowed the whole world ; or a loci; 0 f
her hair in whose eyes w r e first knew the meaning
of the word “depth.” And if death had stretched
out the absence into the dim arms of
and removed the distance away into that bourn*
from which no traveller returns —the absence and
the distance of her on whose forehead once huno
the relic we adore—what heart may abide the
beauty of the ghost that doth sometimes at mid*
night appear at our sleepless bed, and with pale
uplifted arms wall over us at once a blessing and?
a farewell!
4 ‘Why so sad a wmrd— Farewell? We shod/1
not weep in wishing welfare, nor sully felicity 1
with tears. But we do weep because evil lie* !
lurking in wait over all the earth for the innocen; i
and the good, the happy and the beautiful; and (
when guarded no more by our eyes, it seems as
if the demon would leap out upon his prey. Or
is it because we are so seltisb that we cannot
bear the thought of losing the sight of the happi
ness oF a beloved object, and are troubled with a
strange jealousy of being unknown to us, and for
ever to be unknown, about to be taken into the
very heart, perhaps, of the friend from whom we
are parting, and to w hom in that fear we give al
most a sullen fare w r ell? Or does the shadow of |
death pass over us w hile we stand for the last time
together on the sea-shore, and see the ship with all
parts of the earth? Or do w r e shudder at the
her sails about to voyage away to the uttermost
thought of mutability in all created things—and
know that ere a few suns shall have brightened
the path of the swiFt: vessel on the sea, we shall
be dimly remembered—at last forgotten—and all
those days, months, and years that once seemed
eternal, swallowed up in everlasting oblivion?
Tropical Delights —lnsects are the curse of
tropical climates. The bete rogue lays the foun
dation of a tremendous ulcer. In a moment vou
y
are covered with ticks. Chigoes burv themselves
in your flesh, and hatch a large colony of chigoes
in a few hours. They will not live together, but
every chigoe sets up a seperate ulcer, and hah
his owm private portion of pus. Flies get into
vour mouth, into your eves, into vour nose; vou
eat flies, drink flies, and breath flies. Lizards,
cockroaches, and snakes get into your beds ; ants
eat up the books; scorpions sting you on the
foot. Every thing bites, stings, or bruises. Ev
ery* second of your existence you are wmunded by
some piece of animal life, that nobody has ever
seen before, except Swammerdam and IVlerriam.
An insect with eleven legs is swimming in your
tea-cup ; a nondescript, with nine wings, is strug
gling in the small beer; ora caterpiller, with sev
eral dozen eves in his belly, is hastening over
the bread and butter. All nature seems alive,
and seems to be gathering all her entimological
host to eat you up, as you are standing, out of
coat, waistcoat and breeches. Such are the trop
ics.
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