Atlanta Georgian. (Atlanta, Ga.) 1912-1939, December 07, 1913, Image 8
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American Sunday Monthly Magazine Section
The CONFESSIONS of a
HAD never loved any woman
until I met Kitty Houghton.
She was visiting the wife of the
commandant of the post at
which J, an artillery officer, was stationed. She
was pretty, with a dainty, child-like beauty that
appealed to a huge, clumsy fellow like myself. She
was the only daughter of a widower who had
petted and spoiled her. Her little exacting ways,
lier taking all adoration of her petite and piquante
self as a matter of course, fascinated me. She
seemed as simple as a child, as dependent as a baby,
and as adorable as a lovely woman. 1 asked her to
marry me and she accepted me. When I spoke of
running on to New York to ask her father’s consent,
she opened her great eyes in unaffected surprise.
“Why how funny!” she said. “Of course papa
will let me marry you. I don’t think”—reflectingly
—“that I ever really wanted anything that he did
not let me have. And,” with a quick blush and a
nestling movement in the arm I had thrown around
her, “I want you, Rob!”
Her father proved that his love was equal to
sacrifice, for, after ascertaining that I was a decent
sort of a fellow, he agreed that “since Kitty wanted
an army man, she must have one.” But the honest
old man had tears in his eyes when he bade us good
bye after the wedding reception.
As my bride was fond of society and gay life, I was
glad that 1 was stationed at one of the most delight
ful of army posts, which, because of the location,
is a popular resort. The society within the dear old
Fort was excellent, and the huge hotel outside was
always well-filled with fashionable people. I was
proud of my dainty little wife. No woman in the
great hotel parlors was prettier, and to my way of
thinking none was half as sweet as my care-free
companion. She touched me by her evident desire
for my companionship, and would pout as if she
were a little child if 1 ever allowed official duties
to interfere with any of her plans for “a good time.”
“I won’t go without you!” she would exclaim
when an invitation came which I could not accept.
One can be young but once, I thought, and, above
all else, Kitty must be happy.
She reminded me of this one morning when, as
I was an officer of the day, I could not leave the post
to go on a projected drive, with a gay party of young
married people.
“Papa always did as I asked him,” she said, “and
you promised to make me as happy as he did.”
I smiled and shook my head as I said, “I only
promised to try to do so, Kit, and I do try. You
know I do, don’t you, dear?”
“If you will go on this drive to-day I will believe
that you try,” she insisted.
When I endeavored to make her understand that
I would be breaking an army rule if I went, her lip
quivered.
“Then I suppose I can spend this lovely day at
home in this pokey old house!” she muttered.
I suggested that she might go without me, but
she burst into tears.
“You know I can’t go!” she sobbed. “How
would I look, the one woman without her husband,
and when we have been married only a couple of
months? I think you are very selfish!”
She ran off to her own room and shut herself in.
Nor did she appear below-stairs until an officer’s
wife, coming by to see if she were ready, boldly
demanded admittance to her room. When Kitty
had declared repeatedly that she had a headache
and that she “really ought not to go,” she yielded
to the older woman’s persuasions, and, half-an-hour
later, drove off with the jolly party, laughing merrily,
waving her hand to me and calling out:
“Good-bye, Rob! I’m sorry you can’t go. Don’t
worry about my head, for I am sure the air will do
it good.”
When she returned I said nothing of her outburst
of anger, nor of her pretense of a headache for the
sake of appearances. I had already learned that
it did no good to talk over such occurrences. The
child had always let her temper have its way, and
had acquired the habit of smoothing things over to
suit her whims. In another person such fabrica
tions would have seemed to me to be falsehoods.
In my own soul, I excused them in her case as I
would the fibs of a little child.
She took much pride in our newly-furnished home,
but, as months passed, the little duties which she
had enjoyed bored her. At first she had insisted
on dusting the bric-a-brac herself, except on the one
day in the week on which the drawing room was
swept. Now I noticed that this one day of general
cleaning, when Dinah and her feather duster did
their work, was the only one on which any cleaning
was done. I spoke of this to Kitty, carefully and
tentatively, suggesting that it would be well if she
could find time to look after the rooms a little each
day, as I thought Dinah was a bit careless. As
usual when there was any suspicion of fault-finding,
her eyes overflowed.
“Really,' Rob, you are too exacting! I do the
best I can to keep the house clean, and you never
praise me, but you watch for every speck of dirt
and fuss about it!”
I tried to speak calmly.
“ Kitty, I have never mentioned the subject before.
You, yourself, begged me to allow you to care for
the parlors, except the heavy sweeping, but I never
asked you to do it, nor do I want you to. But
you should teach your maid to look after these
things properly.”
“0 dear!” she exclaimed. “How ready a man is
to say what a woman should do! You might be
a brevet colonel by this time if you could run your
own profession as well as you think you can run my
housekeeping!”
But in spite of occasional domestic clouds, there
were many happy periods, days of calm and sun
shine, days when our little house would be brightened
up for a pleasant luncheon or a jolly Welsh rabbit
party. At such times my wife was in her element,
working beforehand to clean the tarnished silver,
polishing glasses, and emptying vases of withered
blossoms and filling them with fresh flowers. She
was a pearl of a hostess, tactful, bright and merry.
When she intended to have company she would hand
Dinah an extra dollar or two to put her in a good
humor so that she would bake several kinds of cake
and make a delectable salad or punch. The prin
ciple was a poor one, but it was Kitty’s way to do
that kind of thing.
It ill behooved me to say a word, for she had enough
money of her own to gratify her whims. All my
pay was required to run the house, for wise manage-
jment would have been needed to lay aside any money
and Kitty had never learned to manage. I soon
discovered that she bought with her own money—
the income from the sum her father had given her
as a wedding-gift—many of the exquisite toilettes
that I, in my folly, had supposed she got from the
money I handed her from time to time. It actually
hurt me to feel that my wife was paying for her own
clothing. I told her so, one day, and she laughed
and patted my cheek.
“Don’t be so silly, Rob! What should I do with
my cash but spend it on clothes? I just send a
check on to auntie, in New York, and she gets me
what I want. It’s mine to do as I please with.”
I appreciated that if any money was to be laid
aside against the proverbial rainy day, it must be
saved by me. I therefore suggested that I give my
wife a weekly allowance for housekeeping, but, after
a week’s trial of this scheme, she decided that it was
“too much bother,” and I made no demur.
In spite of her lack of system, Kitty was one of
the most attractive of women. At this distance I
can still say that, for it is true. Animated, full of
fun, making the best of any situation that did not
involve actual disappointment to her, affectionate
and engaging, is it any wonder that a sober chap
like myself found her fascinating, and that she found
some of my ways ponderous and old fashioned?
Take it by and large, we had much happiness
during the first and second years of our married
life. We may not have been congenial, but we were
companionable, and my love made me condone the
heedless ways that would have angered some men.
As time went on we entertained more, and on a
larger scale. I humored my wife in her social aspira
tions, for I knew they made for her happiness.
When we had been married two years something
happened that convinced me that Kitty and I had
a code of right and wrong as impossible to amalga
mate as are oil and water.
I had been away on one of my flying visits to
my semi-invalid mother. She and my widowed
sister lived in a city some [six hours distant, and
when I could get off I would run out there on one
day and return the next. After my marriage I did
this seldom, for Kitty had a dread of being left alone.
Once in a great while she would accompany me, but
she disliked the journey. Often my thoughts
turned with longing to my own flesh and blood, and
There are some men with whom
fatherhood is a passion
this year, just before Christmas, I made a hurried
trip to their home. I returned to the Fort with a
tugging at my heart-strings, for my mother did not
look as well as heretofore, and seemed weaker than
when I had last seen her. My sister promised to
notify me should our mother show any decided
signs of illness, so I put my fears aside and entered
with what zest I could summon into the plans for
a dinner party which Kitty was arranging for
Christmas Eve.
This dinner was to be the biggest and most elab
orate “affair” that the little society lover had ever
attempted. Her excitement in it was as naive as
a child’s. There were to be a dozen guests; waiters